The Need to Feel Control - Part 2

"Do people with more power feel more in control? Less? The same?
Can you trust someone with absolute control? E.g., dictators, kids pulling off spiders' legs.
Life is fragile. Is the illusion of control a necessary part of the human condition? Perhaps a necessary part of all conscious beings?
Some people thrive on consistency, controlled environments (e.g., autism). But some intentionally choose less control/responsibility in their work or life. Is this morally blameworthy?
BDSM subs also choose to give up control. Is this equivalent?
Cults and toxic relationships: Also intentionally giving up freedoms. Should we support this? Why or why not?
What are good motivations for control? improving the lives of people; ideology; politics...
It seems there are generational differences in perception of control. It seems today's youth is more pessimistic about what they can control than ever. What effect does this have on society at large?"