Usually the word “Toastmasters” sparks fear and resistance in my groups and workshops: “Why would I want to go there? They are professional speakers, it’s much too intimidating, I’m not ready to give a speech!”

I have to admit, my first Toastmasters (TM) club (about 20 years ago), was overwhelming. I felt like no one understood the amount of fear I had. I tried to tell them, and I was told, “Oh it’s just butterflies, everyone gets them”. I persevered there, only doing short impromptu speaking, nearly having a panic attack each time and only able to stay up there for 30-60 seconds.

I immediately found a new TM club. Were they professional speakers? The club leaders were, but they shared how they had each come in years prior with shaky voices and hands, knees knocking, and severe anxiety.

I finally felt understood with less pressure upon me and I thrived there for years.

Everyone has to start somewhere.

Ready to take action?

* Visit your [local Toastmasters club](http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001H4BqV0MYDlI6UIHkGA4FRCOvYnMG3iHFJ4NNO2HvEI-T4yZV1gpnJa1Cidlrkac4UhJ4j1vcmrrbUTFyNMshLjM_GwCTvYawJNLuYmAiytN4IWbjT8s894fVf_1QB56WGM0eEZd4CsP0IyLChqp4utppKpXRJNP05MlyOCAAiXg=&c=&ch=) just to check it out. **You don’t have to speak or join. Simply go and observe to determine if the club is a good fit for you.** If not, and it seems like people don’t understand the fear of speaking, there may be other clubs nearby to check out.
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* The next step at Toastmasters are brief impromptu speaking exercises called “Table Topics”. Membership is usually not required to participate in Table Topics.
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* Sign up officially to become a member. The rates are very reasonable and a 6-month commitment at most clubs.
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* Start with the smaller roles and work your way up to giving speeches. You are able to move at your own pace and nothing is forced upon you.
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Sign up for smaller roles (30-60 seconds, such as a Word Master or Timer) to start. If you know that fellow members are counting on you, you are much more likely to attend consistently.

When you are ready to do a presentation, most clubs offer a mentor.

**Speak Up, Stand Out: Conquer Your Fear with Us!**

Are you ready to kick those public speaking jitters to the curb? Join us at [Newington Toastmasters](https://5520.toastmastersclubs.org/) for an interactive meeting designed to improve your public speaking and leadership skills.

We offer a safe and supportive space to:
✨ Boost your confidence
✨ Improve your communication skills
✨ Manage social anxiety
✨ Deliver impactful presentations with ease
✨ Ace your next interview

With help from our members, you'll unlock your full potential and become a skilled and confident communicator.

If you'd like to attend, please email me at [Marla@SociallySpeakingPlus.com](http://Marla@sociallyspeakingplus.com/) for the Zoom link.

Club info: [https://5520.toastmastersclubs.org/](https://5520.toastmastersclubs.org/)

We look forward to meeting you!

Marla Genova

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