Beyond the Lights: Stoic Practice in the Holiday Season

The Christmas season surrounds us with light, generosity, and gathering—reminders of what matters most. The Stoics would tell us: appreciate these moments fully, but don't depend on them for your peace. Celebrate the warmth of connection, but remember that true contentment comes from within, not from perfect gatherings or ideal circumstances. Be present with those you love, knowing all moments are fleeting. Give freely without expecting return. If the season brings difficulty rather than joy, accept that too—it's part of being human. The lights will fade, the gatherings will end, but what remains is how we treated each other and ourselves. That's the gift that endures.

Gerry & James.
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