What we’re about
Gist is a guided experience designed to make it simpler for humans to connect — intentionally, meaningfully, and without the noise.
Each mixer has a unique theme. Through a series of one-on-one 8-minute rounds, you get to meet everyone in the room. You show up as you are — no bios, no algorithms, no judgment. Just real people meeting in real life, with structure that makes it efficient, non-awkward, and unexpectedly joyful.
Whether you're here for new friendships, collaborators, or a deeper sense of presence, Gist creates space for mutual discovery — of others and of self.
We’re not building another networking tool — we’re restoring what it means to truly connect, and inviting you to try it for yourself.
Upcoming events
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Beat the Monday Blues @ Emmy's Spaghetti
Emmy's Spaghetti Shack, 3230 Mission St., San Francisco, CA, US🎟️ Join & Check-In or Text Hi to +18559555001 (beta)
Most Mondays suck. This one won't.
We're taking over Emmy's Spaghetti Shack patio for a standing reception—drinks, vibes, and their legendary cheesy bread. Buy any drink ($10+), get the cheesy bread free.
The vibe: You just survived another Monday. You're tired, hungry, and done with small talk. So, grab a drink, eat absurd amounts of carbs, talk to whoever's next to you. After the structured hour, stick around to figure out where to go next with your new friends—maybe hit a bar nearby, grab actual dinner, just keep the vibe going based on what the group's craving and see what happens.
WHAT YOU'RE GETTING:
🍞 Free $15 cheesy bread when you buy any drink ($10 minimum)
🌙 Standing reception on Emmy's patio
👥 Capped at ~25 people—intimate energy, Mission vibe, no chaos
FORMAT:
6:50 PM+: Check-in via text +1-855-955-5001 when you arrive
7-8 PM: 8-minute conversations (we pair you with 6-7 people via the Gist app)
8 PM+: Hang with whoever you vibed with, or head out
Monday, December 1, 7-9 PM. Emmy's Spaghetti Shack.28 attendees![Outdoor Adventure Mixer [Alameda]](https://secure.meetupstatic.com/photos/event/c/d/a/d/highres_531352653.jpeg)
Outdoor Adventure Mixer [Alameda]
Almanac Beer Co., 651 West Tower Ave, Alameda, CA, US🎟️ Join and Check-In or Text Hi to +18559555001 (beta)
Here's Your Guide to the Night.
Step 1: Get Started (Check-in begins at 6:20 PM)
When you arrive, please Check-In: just follow the link to complete a quick and easy profile setup on your phone.
Step 2: Meet Your Matches (6:30 PM - 7:30 PM)
This is where the fun begins! For the next hour, our app will be your guide. At the start of each new round, it will introduce you to your next one-on-one match. Simply find your partner and enjoy the conversation!
Step 3: Mix & Mingle (After 7:30 PM)
Once the one-on-one rounds conclude, the rest of the night is yours to chat with everyone. Feel free to continue a great conversation or introduce yourself to someone new.
Want to connect with someone? Use the app! It lets you stay in touch without ever revealing your phone number.
Tired of scrolling through forums or having your weekend plans stall because you can't find a reliable adventure partner or local outdoor community? We know the feeling. This is the place to find your people and form a go-to circle for future explorations.
How it works
6:20PM+ Check-In begins (when you arrive)
6:30PM ~ 7:30PM Meet One-on-One via app
7:30PM+ Open mingle
🎟️ Join and Check-In
What to Expect
If crowded social events feel daunting, our format is crafted for authentic connections. The heart of the mixer is our rotating, one-on-one, 8-minute conversations. This structure is intentionally designed to reduce social anxiety — no awkward small talk or trying to break into existing circles. In these short, focused chats, you'll be finding your trail buddy. You'll meet a diverse group of enthusiasts and discover who shares your specific interests.
Followed by the open mingle, you can easily catch up with the those you clicked with. This is where it all comes together: merge conversations, officially form your group, and maybe even plan your next adventure!
PS: Please support the venue by getting an item off their menu.64 attendees![Lights & Lattes @ Kenz Coffee Bar [South Bay]](https://secure.meetupstatic.com/photos/event/e/0/d/1/highres_531417553.jpeg)
Lights & Lattes @ Kenz Coffee Bar [South Bay]
Kenz Coffee Bar, 445 Hershner Dr, Los Gatos, CA, US🎟️ Join & Check-In or Text Hi to +18559555001 (beta)
Saturday morning. Holiday lights. Good coffee.
The vibe: You're tired of networking events that feel like work. So, grab a coffee, sit on the patio under the holiday lights, talk to whoever's next to you instead. After the structured hour, stick around and figure out where to go next with your new friends—maybe brunch somewhere nearby, maybe a walk through the park, just keep the vibe going based on what you’re all feeling.
WHAT YOU’RE GETTING:
🥐 25% off pastries with any latte—vanilla, lavender, pistachio, matcha, etc.
📍 Kenz's outdoor Airstream patio (they're hanging holiday lights)
☕ 8-minute conversations with 6-7 people
FORMAT:
9:50 AM+: Check-in via Gist when you arrive
10:00-11:00 AM: Structured 8-minute conversations (you'll meet 6-7 people)
11:00 AM+: Hang out with whoever you vibed with, or head out
Saturday, December 6, 10AM-12PM. Kenz Coffee Bar.12 attendees
Cocktails & Connections @ RM 212 🍸
RM 212, 690 Sacramento Street, San Francisco, CA, USTucked away right outside the Financial District, RM 212 is a craft cocktail speakeasy lounge run by two NY brothers bringing hospitality to the Bay. Think prohibition-era vibes fused with modern mixology served late night.
The vibe: Intimate space, great cocktails, easy conversation. No pretension, just good drinks and good people.
The perks (pick your move):- Buy any cocktail, get 50% off the same cocktail (double down on your favorite)
- Buy one small plate, get 50% off all beers, wines, and mocktails (food + drinks sorted)
Exclusive to our group.
Format:- 6:30pm: Doors open, grab your first round. 🎟️ Join & Check-In (FREE) or Text Hi to +18559555001 (*beta)
- 7:00pm: Mingle rotations begin (8 min each)
- 8:30pm: Free-flow vibe—stay as long as you want or peel off anytime with new friends to explore the neighborhood for food or whatever you're feeling. Your call.
Whether you're a cocktail nerd or just looking to meet new people in a chill setting, this is your spot.
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