A Sensual Afternoon

Our Mid-Autumn Event is on Saturday, November 8 starting at 3 p.m. Instead of a cover fee we ask each guest to bring an alcoholic, non-alcoholic beverage, or a snack to share. We will provide some alcoholic, non-alcohol options and snacks. This event is a celebration for Stevie’s birthday. We will provide lube and space to experience sensuality on your terms. You may bring your own lube or ‘masturbator tools’ as you feel comfortable, but we do not encourage the sharing of any toys. Oral pleasure is also encouraged and allowed, with consent. This event is about connection and not necessarily ‘getting off,’ but getting off is perfectly acceptable, too. The hot tub, as usual, is available and ready any time during the afternoon.

We ask that guests do their best to arrive no later than 3:15 p.m. Latecomers will be admitted up to 30 minutes after the start time only, this is to ensure we do not disrupt the energy or flow of the event. You are welcome to come for the whole event or leave once you feel satisfied-we just ask that you do not disturb others if you plan to depart early.

Upon arrival, you will be invited to disrobe*, and you can either use the guest bathroom or guest bedroom to disrobe. We do not have lockers for private personal items; if you feel insecure about leaving them unattended, please leave them in your car. You may leave clothes in the guest bedroom until your departure. If you wish to soak, the hot tub will be ready for you; we ask that you kindly follow the posted hot tub use rules. We require all guests to rinse off before entering the hot tub. The guest bathroom is available for rinsing afterward if desired. We have some towels, but you are encouraged to bring your own.

We encourage people to help with parking by arriving early. Doors will open at 2:50 pm. Also parking is best between the white lines on the roads in the neighborhood and at the club house (address upon request for the clubhouse). If you require assistance, plan to arrive at least 20 minutes before 3 p.m.


*Max attendance is 20.
*All events are 21+

House rules:
Please sit on a towel on all surfaces.

This is private; not all attendees (including the hosts) are open about nude events or nudity in public settings. We promise that we will not share your information or discuss this event with others. Please keep this event private to outside individuals not on Lavender Sanctuary. We expect all of our guests to have the same respect for all attendees.


Our fence is relatively high, and the property is on a hill compared to our neighbors; the backyard is mostly private. We are continuing to increase our privacy around our property. We'd like to ask you to be aware of your surroundings and mindful of our neighbors.

Good personal hygiene is strongly encouraged. Consider your fellow participants: good breath, no strong scents or cologne, a shower before the event is polite.
We are still discouraging sex (penetrative). However, if the mood feels right and consent is clear- we won't interrupt. If you reach climax (cum) during the event please be respectful and clean up thoroughly.

For your comfort, if you wish to wear one of our color coded wrist bands, they will be available. They are not mandatory for this event as we are expecting the sensual energy to be within the boundaries of consent. Those that pressure anyone to engage in pleasure beyond their comfort or if someone expresses the feeling of being ‘forced’ to do something they are not comfortable with-you will be asked to leave immediately. The colors for this event will be green and red. We hope you will decide if you want to participate (green) or watch/ be seen (red).

No recording or photography is allowed at the event. If you need to use your cellphone, please cover the camera with your hand.


We are excited to see you at this our sixth event of the year! If details or updates need to be shared they will be posted in the comments or upon request- private chat.

We prefer to use Telegram (a secure messaging app) for disclosing personal information. Please message Stevie at @stevie2gamer or https://t.me/stevie2gamer.

*Minimum participation means you strip down to at least your underwear. Swimsuits are discouraged in the hot tub.