
What weâre about
Love live music!? Welcome to Nottingham Gig Buddies, a group for likeminded people who like going to gigs! We plan to to see live music across the city, big bands, small bands, rock bands, punk poppers, indie kids, acoustic singers, anything!
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Crywank @ The Old Saluation Inn with Commuted & Push RopeYe Olde Salutation Inn, Nottingham
Always feel slightly wrong putting these up on here, hopefully it won't get censored!!!
Seen Crywank several times before in various forms, missed them the last time they were in Notts! Lo-fi anti-folk and sad tunes!
Just checked out Commuted from Toronto and love them too! also, Lo-fi anti-folk and sad tunes! A bit more accompaniment than Crywank perhaps, but who knows what they'll do! On the post they are down as skramz-pop, but I have no idea what that means đ€Ł
Local support are Push Rope, who I've seen a few times now and really like too!
Looks like it's ÂŁ10 cash OTD or via paypal in advance, no ticket link here!
More details on the FB Event:
CRYWANK / COMMUTED / PUSH ROPE | FacebookA bit of a side step from my normal crusty promotional antics, but im into it and you should be too!
Shagsters next gig, A coheadliner tour from:
Manchesters finest Anti Folk CRYWANKhttps://crywank.bandcamp.com/
Canadian lofi skramz-pop COMMUTED from Torontohttps://commuted.bandcamp.com/album/the-sad-computer
And Nottinghams own Dream-pop Shoegaze PUSH ROPEhttps://pushrope.bandcamp.com/track/fake-it-til-u-make-it
All this occurring down at The Salutation Inn for just ÂŁ10!!Just PayPal me @shagster161 with the reference âGig Ticketâ and your name and ill write yer down!
Will also be taking cash on the door!
See yall down there! - GRLwood @ The Bodega with Hex Poseur & Baddy IssuesThe Bodega, Nottingham
GRLwood are a two piece,who seem sometimes grungy, sometimes punky, always angry sounding band from Kentucky - lots more info below from the FB Event!
Support comes from the excellent Hex Poseur, who I've seen a few times now, and always love! Baddy Issues I think are new to me, so that's gonna be fun!
Tickets are just under ÂŁ17 from:
GRLwood - The Bodega - Nottingham - 24/07/2025 19:00FB Event:
GRLwood live at The Bodega | Facebook
DHP Family Proudly Presents...
GRLwood- Hex Poseur
- Baddy Issues
Live at The Bodega
Thursday 24 July 2025
14+
Tickets on sale now: http://alt.tkts.me/tl/12vi
Hereâs a perfect snapshot of Rej Foresterâas a toddler she knew all the words to âBlack Hole Sunâ before she learned her ABCs. Born and raised in Louisville, Kentucky by a self-proclaimed ârocker foolâ father who was deeply influenced by Nirvana, Stone Temple Pilots, Audioslave and the rest of the âdad rock diaspora,â Rej knew almost before she could talk that music was the only path for her. What else she knew? That she was a young queer woman growing up in the deep American south, at a time when the political climate was still overtly homophobic at best. It was only a couple decades ago, but things were very different just two short decades ago, when Tegan and Sara and The L Word were the rare lesbian touchstones in mainstream media.
Growing up with the influences of hard rock, nu-metal and grunge, in high school Rej was hit with an emo phase (âMyspace was everything!â) and started writing her own music with the top-of-mind influences of screamo. Watching her dad relentlessly champion his own songs, and continually quit groups who wanted to go the cover band route, taught her from an early age to value original music and work as a solo artist. âI always wanted to write original music because I had a lot to say,â she remembers. âI worked on it on my own, even back when I was in high school. Something I learned from a really young age is that no one will believe in you unless you believe in you. People will shit on originality and creativity because itâs not what makes you money.â
Except, in Rejâs case, it didâat least to a point. After high school she moved to Europe, hitchhiking and busking for six years before coming back home to Louisville and transforming the music sheâd been performing live for the last half a decade into an actual project. She called it GRLWood. âI played guitar and I had a box drum that Iâd stand on,â she explained. âIt had a backwards pedal, so it would be like a kick and a tambourine. I was playing GRLwood shows for over a year like that back around 2016-2017.â From the beginning, GRLwood was the synthesis of Foresterâs own emotional responses to the world around her, channeled through a brain that seems capable of making a melody out of anything.
Demos and early recordings from that eraâwhich Rej recorded in a closet at her momâs houseâquickly circulated and became known as the White Demos, or GRLwood self-titled. Her hooky, mischievous, brutally honest songwriting style is underwritten by a serious ear for guitar licks, percussion, and bassâunsurprisingly, a record deal, manager, and more industry infrastructure soon followed. As GRLwood developed, so did a cult following fanbase, particularly young queer women who felt seen and heard in these explicit, unabashedly aggressive songs that channeled the rage, grief, confusion, betrayal, loneliness, and yes, humor, that so frequently define the âotheringâ of the queer experience.
A pair of full-length releasesâthe tongue-in-cheek, psych-rock of Daddy in 2018 and relentless, bluesy deadpan of I Sold My Soul To The Devil When I Was 12 in 2019âquickly established Forester as a fearless lyricist who was ready to tackle everything from yes, daddy issues, to misinformation, homophobia, lust, sexuality, and school shootings. From this first initial set of albums, âIâm Yer Dadâ and âBisexualâ and âI Hate My Momâ all became streaming hits with hundreds of millions of streams.
Soon, Rej was touring regularly with a drummer, but handling all the writing, singing, and guitar herself. She even performs with a bass rig so she can play guitar and bass at the same time. Right up until the pandemic, she continued to create and release music at an almost breakneck pace, as 2019âs Roommate Wanted EP and the 2020 I Need To Get Off My Phone EP illustrate. With two full-length albums and two EPs setting the tone for GRLWood, sheâs continued recording over the last few years, but held off on releasing anything new as the music industry was still reestablishing after a period of uncertainty.
Now, as 2025 is quickly approaching, the floodgates have opened and GRLWood will release a trilogy of albums before the year is even up. Blood, the first of these, came out just a few short weeks ago, and will be followed by Sweat and Tears in short order. âBlood is all the rock music that people expect. Sweat is going to sound more commercial, itâs a lot more commercial rock and psych-rock, and then Tears is all pop and hip-hop music. So itâs going to be jarring for fans of GRLwood. But some of those songs have existed since 2017, even before Daddy came out, so thatâs a side of GRLwood people havenât gotten to hear yet.â
As they head out on the road once again, a couple of other notable opening slots have prepped Forester for bigger and bigger stages. GRLWood warmed up the crowd for Ohio hardcore band Devil Wears Pradaâs side project God Aloneâand Rej even has a scar from when the lead singer accidentally kicked a microphone into her faceâand she still counts opening for Against Me! as one of her biggest accomplishments to date, citing Laura Jane Grace as another important inspiration, and part of the inspiration for her core rock sound. âIâm never going to fully stray away from rock music as GRLwood, itâs always mainly going to be rock music,â she says. âBut itâs been awesome to really stretch my wings. I hope it opens the door to other things.â
In this new era, nothing is off limits for Rej, who knows her neurodivergence has always been part of the way she processes the world, as she deals with the impact of both Touretteâs syndrome and OCD. That, plus the sort of bad faith and duplicity always comes along with life as a public figure deeply influenced her new body of work. Facing not just the sexism of a male-dominated music industry but the blatant stereotypes and microaggressions that come along with being openly queer, Rej channeled her own pain, anger, and disappointment into a body of work that she hopes will serve as a portfolio. A showcase not just of her musicianship and work as a lyricist, but also the breadth of styles she plans to present in GRLwood.