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"The development of one’s moral character is what renders a person truly desirable." — Greg Sadler

But does it though??? Let’s be honest—when dating feels more like a fast-paced commodity than a human connection, 'moral character' isn't always the headline. Between the pressure of Valentine’s Day and the hunt for a quick spark, looking for deep integrity on a Friday night can feel like searching for a library book in a nightclub.

So the question becomes, is the Stoic view of romance a beautiful ideal, or is it just out of touch with 2026? In this week’s discussion, we are going to talk all about it!

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, please join us for a 90-minute interactive deep dive into the Stoic approach to love. We will look at specific passages from an article by modern Stoic scholar Greg Sadler and ask the hard question: "What does all of this look like in our modern lives?"

What We Will Explore

  • "Good Love" vs. "Bad Love": Is attraction a "bridge" to friendship or a "madness" to be avoided?
  • The Ideal Partner: What it means to be a "yoke-mate" and why the Stoics think character is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
  • Singlehood: What is the "Banquet Analogy" inspired by Epictetus, and how does it apply
  • Practical Application: We’ll share how these ancient principles look in our real lives today.

Whether you are happily partnered, navigating the "proverbial pool" of dating, happily single, or you don't care for "yucky love stuff," there is no doubt some useful wisdom here to take home.

Come with your heart (or your brain) on your sleeve. You’ll leave with practical tools to keep in the back of your pocket and put into practice when you're ready.

Primary Resource: Stoicism, Erotic Love, and Relationships by Greg Sadler

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