Over40Connect – Meet, Connect & Belong (40+)

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About us

🌟 Over40Connect — Social & Community for 40+

Over40Connect is a welcoming community for people 40 and over who want to connect, socialize, and enjoy meaningful experiences together — without pressure or labels.

Our goal is simple: to create a friendly, respectful space where people can meet others, build friendships, and enjoy real-life connections through relaxed, in-person events.

We host a variety of activities, including:

🎉 Social gatherings & mixers
🚶 Walks, coffee meetups & casual outings
🍽️ Dinners, drinks & cultural events
🎶 Special themed nights and celebrations
💬 Conversation-friendly, low-pressure meetups

Whether you’re new to the city, newly single, rediscovering your social side, or just looking to expand your circle — you’re welcome here.

What makes Over40Connect different

✔ Inclusive and respectful
✔ Open to singles and those simply seeking connection
✔ No pressure, no expectations
✔ Focus on community, kindness, and genuine interaction
✔ In-person events that are easy to join

Our events are designed to feel comfortable, friendly, and human — a place where conversation comes naturally and everyone is treated with respect.

A few simple guidelines

Be kind and respectful to all members
Come with an open mind
Treat others with courtesy
This is a harassment-free community

If you’re looking for connection, conversation, and community after 40 — you’re in the right place.

For those interested in deeper engagement, becoming a paid member of Over40Connect offers access to additional community features and benefits. Visit https://over40connect.com/ to learn more.

✨ We look forward to meeting you!

Upcoming events

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Dating Support Group
Thu, Feb 19 · 19:00 EST
Billings Lodge, 1180 Belanger Ave, Ottawa, Ontario K1H 8N2, Ottawa, ON, CA
💵 $50/month or $40.00 if paid upfront

Hosted by: Christine Beals

Details
Thursday Nights Are for Hugs, Not Swiping.

This isn’t speed dating.
It’s a warm, facilitated connection group where people show up as they are—nervous, hopeful, human—and leave feeling lighter.

There are conversations that matter.
Gentle structure so no one is left standing alone.
Real eye contact. Real laughs. Real I’m-not-doing-this-by-myself-anymore energy.

And yes—hugs. The kind that remind your nervous system you belong somewhere.

This group isn’t about forcing chemistry.
It’s about building comfort, confidence, and connection over time—because that’s how attraction actually grows.

If you’ve been feeling touch-starved, lonely, or just tired of pretending you’re fine… this is your room.

"WHAT IS SAID IN HERE, STAYS IN HERE"

Details:
📍 Billings Lodge, 1180 Belanger
🕖 Thursdays at 7:00 pm (starting Jan 8 2026 😎
☕ Coffee & snacks included

Come a few minutes early if you’re new—we’ve got you.

Connection starts here.
2 attendees
CA$30.00
Eurovision Karaoke Murder Mystery
Sun, Feb 22 · 14:00 EST
Sue's House, 72A Union Street,, Ottawa, ON, CA
Host: Debbie Manhire

## EUROVISION KARAOKE MURDER MYSTERY 🕵️‍♀️✨

Big hair. Bigger drama. Questionable accents. One glamorous “murder.”
If you’ve ever wanted to channel ABBA-level realness, embrace full Eurovision chaos, or relive that one iconic performance that lives rent-free in your head… this is your moment.

🎶 Dress up as your favourite ABBA or Eurovision legend
🎤 Belt out karaoke like all of Europe is watching
🔪 Then politely (and hilariously) murder each other in a classy, elegant setting in New Edinburgh

Yes, it’s absurd.
Yes, it’s fabulous.
Yes — you should absolutely be there.

### Event Details

🗓 Saturday, February 22
⏰ 2:00–5:00 PM
📍 New Edinburgh (beautiful venue, dramatic lighting, excellent vibes)

### Tickets

💰 $30 for Over40CONNECT members (includes snacks & drinks)
💰 $40 for non-members
Payment:
Please send an e-transfer to heartykimann@gmail.com and include a note indicating the payment is for this event.

### Not a member yet?

👉 Over40CONNECT is just $10/month and includes:
• Access to events like this
• A built-in social circle
• A copy of The Dating Comeback — the book helping people get off the couch, back into life, and back into connection (yes, lives are genuinely being changed)

This is not a sit-quietly-in-the-corner kind of afternoon.
This is campy, social, ridiculous fun with grown-ups who know how to laugh, play, and show up.

✨ Spots are limited. Costumes are encouraged. Drama is guaranteed.

👉 Don’t miss it.
1 attendee
Dating Support Group
Thu, Feb 26 · 19:00 EST
Billings Lodge, 1180 Belanger Ave, Ottawa, Ontario K1H 8N2, Ottawa, ON, CA
💵 $50/month or $40.00 if paid upfront

Hosted by: Christine Beals

Details
Thursday Nights Are for Hugs, Not Swiping.

This isn’t speed dating.
It’s a warm, facilitated connection group where people show up as they are—nervous, hopeful, human—and leave feeling lighter.

There are conversations that matter.
Gentle structure so no one is left standing alone.
Real eye contact. Real laughs. Real I’m-not-doing-this-by-myself-anymore energy.

And yes—hugs. The kind that remind your nervous system you belong somewhere.

This group isn’t about forcing chemistry.
It’s about building comfort, confidence, and connection over time—because that’s how attraction actually grows.

If you’ve been feeling touch-starved, lonely, or just tired of pretending you’re fine… this is your room.

"WHAT IS SAID IN HERE, STAYS IN HERE"

Details:
📍 Billings Lodge, 1180 Belanger
🕖 Thursdays at 7:00 pm (starting Jan 8 2026 😎
☕ Coffee & snacks included

Come a few minutes early if you’re new—we’ve got you.

Connection starts here.
1 attendee
Dating Support Group
Thu, Mar 5 · 19:00 EST
Billings Lodge, 1180 Belanger Ave, Ottawa, Ontario K1H 8N2, Ottawa, ON, CA
💵 $50/month or $40.00 if paid upfront

Hosted by: Christine Beals

Details
Thursday Nights Are for Hugs, Not Swiping.

This isn’t speed dating.
It’s a warm, facilitated connection group where people show up as they are—nervous, hopeful, human—and leave feeling lighter.

There are conversations that matter.
Gentle structure so no one is left standing alone.
Real eye contact. Real laughs. Real I’m-not-doing-this-by-myself-anymore energy.

And yes—hugs. The kind that remind your nervous system you belong somewhere.

This group isn’t about forcing chemistry.
It’s about building comfort, confidence, and connection over time—because that’s how attraction actually grows.

If you’ve been feeling touch-starved, lonely, or just tired of pretending you’re fine… this is your room.

"WHAT IS SAID IN HERE, STAYS IN HERE"

Details:
📍 Billings Lodge, 1180 Belanger
🕖 Thursdays at 7:00 pm (starting Jan 8 2026 😎
☕ Coffee & snacks included

Come a few minutes early if you’re new—we’ve got you.

Connection starts here.
1 attendee