Pause And Pay Attention

BIG OFFER for male members!

Increase your dating chances.

On dating apps, women are inundated by dozens or even hundreds of likes/messages making it difficult for men to cut through the noise and get noticed.

In contrast, most in-person singles events are lacking male attendees. The ratio is often 2:1 women to men or higher. Women are looking to meet men and there aren't enough men attending!

This means if you go to an IRL event, your chances of speaking and connecting with someone are much better!

I've partnered with an international dating events organiser to offer male members from this community an exclusive discount to attend their events.

Tickets are typically £20-25 which you'll see on their site, but our members can buy for £15/16.

RSVP to this event and DM me if you're interested in taking us up on the offer. You'll receive the full event info on their ticket page.

The next event is:

• (Coffee shop) Clapham 9th Aug: 9:30am-11:30am (free pastry & espresso shot)

These events run roughly weekly in different London locations. If Clapham doesn't suit you, join the group and keep your eyes peeled for future events :)

✨ Rated 4.5 Stars from 236 reviews!! ✨

Come join us for an informal virtual coffee session to discuss mindful dating in the modern world ☕️

These sessions have ranged from 15-50 attendees and over 80 members have RSVPd 3 or more times.

Kind comments from past attendees have included:

• "It's really refreshing to hear both men & women speak so openly in a group like this."
• "I've never been in a group before where people share so vulnerably."
• "This session has been an absolute tonic."

Feel free to read the testimonials in the Group's discussion thread for more.

This will be a space to ask questions, share stories and gain a new perspective - all around dating more intentionally. Transparency over past patterns of behaviour, accountability for mistakes and a growth mindset is encouraged ✨

Topics around navigating breakups, regaining a sense of self, building self worth, identifying needs, asserting boundaries and self acceptance typically come up.

NOTE This is not a singles mixer event. The goal is to be a supportive and friendly group while we discuss our dating aims, challenges, successes - whether you share yourself or just come to listen and ask questions 🎗️If you DM other members inappropriate messages you will be removed from the group.

I’d love to see as many faces as possible to build the community vibe but there's no pressure to keep your camera on for the entire call. Feel free to introduce yourself and then go cam off if you prefer - the session will not be recorded as I want to ensure everyone is comfortable to share their situation/questions.

If you have any questions, feel free to DM me 🌞

Meetup Organiser costs around £300 per year so these events are now ticketed to support the running of the sessions. For around the cost of a coffee you can join these life-changing discussions.