Name: When You Die Documentary Trilogy Chapter 3 Architecture of Death
Start: 2026-01-24T20:45:00.000Z
Location: Eckstrom-Columbus Library

Hard Choices for Loving People: CPR, Feeding Tubes, Palliative Care, Comfort Measures, and the Patient with a Serious Illness, Sixth Edition, is a guide for helping patients and families with end-of-life decisions.

--BOOK TOPICS INCLUDE--

\- Considering the goals of medical care before making healthcare decisions

\- Treatments such as CPR\, feeding tubes\, dialysis\, pacemakers\, implanted defibrillators\, hospitalization\, palliative care\, and hospice care as they apply to patients with a serious illness

\- The emotional and spiritual concerns at the end of life for people of any or no faith tradition; the journey at the final stages of life is framed as a journey of letting go and letting be

Dr. Ira Byock, founder and chief medical officer of the Providence Institute for Human Caring and author of Dying Well, endorses the book as 'clear and concise, yet sensitive to the emotional turmoil of potential readers. Over the years, Hard Choices for Loving People is the book I have recommended most often to families confronting the complexities of medical treatments for loved ones with serious illnesses.'

| Since the book was first published in 1990, more than 3.8 million copies have been sold. Hard Choices is available as an audiobook and in Spanish, Decisiones Difíciles para los Seres Queridos. |
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Choice and Dignity Tucson Death and Dying Meetup Group

Choice & Dignity Tucson

Jim Schultz

Tracy 

Liz Waters

Suzanne Seay

Maggie Molloy

chuck

Online Book Club DIscussion - Hard Choices for Loving People by Hank Dunn

**When** **You** **Die** **Documentary** **Trilogy**

**Chapter 3 Architecture of Death - The Inner World of Dying**
Viewing & Discussion
**Saturday, January 17th, 2026**
**1:45 PM to 4:00 PM MST**
[Eckstrom-Columbus Library](https://www.google.com/maps/search/?api=1&query=32.206596%2C%20-110.900314)
4350 E 22nd St · Tucson, AZ

What happens as we are dying? What could the final months, weeks, and days of life look like for the person who is dying? And the people who love them?
**Architecture of Death** explores the physical aspect of dying, as well as the unseen felt experiences that can occur, such as: the changing roles within a family, the potential to heal old wounds, deathbed visions or dreams, messages to loved ones from the dying or recently passed, and a host of other phenomena.
​English - 59 minutes
Doors open @ 1:45
Film @ 2:00
Discussion @ 3:00

Kathy 

Chanel McElroy

When You Die Documentary Trilogy Chapter 3 Architecture of Death 

Eckstrom-Columbus Library

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