About us
The group is for singles in the St Louis, St Charles, Southern Illinois and nearby cities / counties who want to meet, socialize, hangout and do fun things with other singles.
We create or share fun, safe events to help our members connect and date and here us why ...
Online dating is broken!
You swipe a lot, you text a lot, and once you’ve done a lot of both, you may get to say hello face-to-face. That’s assuming, of course, the person you’ve swiped and texted is real and interested in meeting.
We're sick of it.
Our events are for singles who are ready to ….
Meet in-person and in the real -world and …
Build real + authentic friendships or connections as a group and then …
* Only Date, if their is a mutual connection
In other-words, we provide fun + social activities / events for singles to connect, socialize, build authentic friendships and date when it feels right
* This not the same experience as dating apps where you are on a race to date random strangers based on what they write on their profile or their pictures!
Join Us If You Want an Authentic + Social + Fun Way to Explore Singleness and/or Dating
Learn more about this group's preferred approach to dating,
("The Friendship First Approach") at Shaparon: https://www.shaparon.com
FYI: You may also stay updated with the Saint Louis Dating Singles Group on / off Meetup (e.g. on Facebook) using this link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/stlsinglesmingle
Featured event
Meet Me on the Rooftop at a Singles Night in St. Louis
Meet Me on the Rooftop
High above the city, before the sun goes down.
Leave the week behind. Drink in hand. Something good to eat.
Summer feels better up on the rooftop ...
Limited seats. Learn more: http://singlesmingle.fun/p/rooftop
Come solo or bring friends, all singles (21+) welcome.
Thursday, June 18 • 6:00 PM - 10:00 PM
** About Singles Mingle **
✅ Welcoming events, not cliquey crowds
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend group
✅ Always new faces
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every event.
✅ All ages, backgrounds, personalities, and energy levels
Find your people, your crowd, or maybe your person.
✅ Professionally hosted
Not random. Not chaotic. Not “everyone just figure it out.” We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way.
✅ Different types of events for different kinds of people
Dinner nights, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more.
✅ Come for your person or your people
Some people come looking for a relationship. Others just want a better social life. Both belong here.
✅ The best chance to actually meet someone new
We’re the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois & Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds.
Limited seats. Get your ticket now at singlesmingle.fun/events
http://singlesmingle.fun/p/rooftop
Upcoming events
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Belleville, IL Singles Dinner & Drinks Night
Grüv Bistro & Wine Bar, 223 E Main St, Belleville, IL 62220, Belleville, IL, USGet dinner with a small group of people, go deep with fun table topics, and leave feeling more connected in Belleville, Illinois.
Thursday,June 6 • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Limited seats. Learn more: https://singlesmingle.fun/p/dinner-belleville-il
Come solo or bring friends, all singles (21+) welcome.✅ Not a random meetup. A hosted and planned dinner experience
✅ Limited to 25 singles so everyone actually gets to talk
✅ Fun table topics that pull everyone into the conversation
✅ Rotating conversations so you meet more than one person
✅ Everyone is single — no guessing, no ring checks, no awkward wondering
✅ Somewhere during dinner, you stop being strangersOnly 30 seats. Get your ticket now at singlesmingle.fun
https://singlesmingle.fun/p/dinner-belleville-il15 attendeesMeet Me on the Rooftop at a Singles Night in St. Louis
UPBAR, 3763 Forest Park Ave, Saint Louis, MO, USMeet Me on the Rooftop
High above the city, before the sun goes down.
Leave the week behind. Drink in hand. Something good to eat.
Summer feels better up on the rooftop ...Limited seats. Learn more: http://singlesmingle.fun/p/rooftop
Come solo or bring friends, all singles (21+) welcome.Thursday, June 18 • 6:00 PM - 10:00 PM
** About Singles Mingle **
✅ Welcoming events, not cliquey crowds
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend group✅ Always new faces
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every event.✅ All ages, backgrounds, personalities, and energy levels
Find your people, your crowd, or maybe your person.✅ Professionally hosted
Not random. Not chaotic. Not “everyone just figure it out.” We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way.✅ Different types of events for different kinds of people
Dinner nights, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more.✅ Come for your person or your people
Some people come looking for a relationship. Others just want a better social life. Both belong here.✅ The best chance to actually meet someone new
We’re the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois & Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds.Limited seats. Get your ticket now at singlesmingle.fun/events
http://singlesmingle.fun/p/rooftop11 attendees
Karaoke Night for Singles in St. Louis. Sing, Mingle or Meet New People
All American Sports Mall, All American Sports Mall 11133 Lindbergh Business Court, St. Louis, MO, USSing your favorite song or just mingle and watch at Saturday's Karaoke Night.
Saturday, July 18 • 6:00 PM to 11:00 PM
Come solo or bring friends, all adults 21+ welcomeLearn more: http://singlesmingle.fun/p/karaoke
✅ Not a random bar night. A hosted and planned singles event
✅ A fun night out with karaoke, drinks in St. Louis***
✅ Get on stage or just cheer from your seat
✅ Grab a drink and talk to the person next to you***
✅ Plenty of time to sing, hang out, and meet people without feeling rushed
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✅ 100% not rude if you don't touch the mic
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✅ Everyone is single. No guessing, no ring checks
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Limited spots available. RSVP now: http://singlesmingle.fun/p/karaoke
10 attendees
🎭Singles Mask & Mingle 2026 Halloween Party, a Spooky Way to Find Love IRL
Das Bevo, 4749 Gravois Ave, St. Louis, MO, US🎭 Don your finest mask, step into the moonlight and mingle in a Spooky Way!
🍂 Or simply sip fall cocktails, enjoy the ambiance & make friends.
💘 With romance in the air, your perfect match could be hiding behind a mask.
👥 2026 Halloween Party at a 100+ year-old historic windmill.
✨ All ages welcome. Masks or costumes optional, mingling required!
🔥 These events are popular and spots are limited, so RSVP now at https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1
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### 📝 Note:
✅ Food & drinks available for purchase all evening
✅ Masks encouraged, costumes welcome OR come as you are!
✅ All mingle activities are optional and take place in the same venue and time frame
👉 Get ticket(s) here:
🔗 https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1### 🍽️ Agenda
6:00 PM – 8:30 PM: Check-in, name tags, and ice-breaker activities
6:00 PM – 9:30 PM: Dinner (optional) & drinks available for purchase
6:00 PM – 10:00 PM: Music, masks, constumes, mingle, and more
9:30 PM – 10:00 PM: Closing connections & last call***
### 👕 What to Wear?
Halloween chic 🎃 — masks, costumes, or just casual night-out attire.
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### 🅿️ Parking
Plenty of parking available on-site.
🎟️ 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐓𝐢𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐭(𝐬) 𝐚𝐭:
https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m12 attendees
Past events
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