101 Questions to Ask Before You Date Someone – Part 1: Of How to Profile People

Are you ready to take control of your love life with clarity, confidence, and strategy?

Join Terrance Findley, former Criminal Profiler and Lead Relationship Coach, for an eye-opening session where expert analysis meets real-world dating challenges. Are you ready to stop waiting for apologies that never come—and start choosing partners with clarity and psychological strength?

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### What You’ll Learn:

🔍 Dependency Detection – Identify when someone externalizes blame instead of taking accountability (Externalized Blame Identity).
🧠 Ego & Narrative Rewriting – Understand Cognitive Dissonance and Self-Justification Bias so you can recognize when someone protects their ego at your expense.
💔 Trauma Bond Awareness – Learn how intermittent reinforcement and unresolved conflict create emotional attachment loops.
🛡️ Narrative Sovereignty – Stop needing their validation to move forward. Reclaim your psychological autonomy.

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### Who Should Attend?

✅ Those tired of being misrepresented after a breakup
✅ Anyone who has waited for closure that never came
✅ Individuals ready to stop outsourcing their healing
✅ People who want to date from strength—not emotional dependency
✅ Members of The Relationship Secrets community serious about upgrading discernment

💥 This is Part 1 of an ongoing 101-Question series designed to help you filter BEFORE you fall.

### 🔥 Topics Include:

-The Question That Reveals Accountability Capacity-
-How to Spot Externalized Blame Early in Dating-
-Attachment Activation vs Secure Detachment-
-Why Some People Can’t Admit Fault-
-Issuing Your Own Closure Without an Apology-

When you understand the psychology behind why someone may never admit what they did, you stop waiting—and you start living.

In Part 1, you’ll walk away with specific screening questions you can use immediately to assess:
• Accountability
• Emotional maturity
• Conflict style
• Identity rigidity
• Healing capacity

This transformative event offers a rare glimpse into the psychology of dating—equipping you with tools to decode actions, not just words. Whether you’re recovering from past manipulation or looking to elevate your dating standards, this session is for you.

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### What You’ll Learn:

🔍 Behavioral Profiling – Detect red flags, subtle manipulation, and hidden motives before it’s too late.
💡 Compatibility Assessment – Learn how to evaluate someone’s long-term potential before giving your heart away.
💖 Genuine Love – Spot emotionally mature, commitment-ready individuals who are aligned with your values.

💥 Learn how to date smarter—not harder—with proven methods backed by criminal profiling and relationship psychology.

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