What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events
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Brunch and Bubbles
Coopers Hawk, 11791 west broad street,, Richmond, VA, USJoin us for a relaxed and delicious morning at Cooper’s Hawk for Brunch and Bubbles. This is the perfect way to connect with new friends over great food, great vibes, and a little sparkle in your glass.
Sip on crowd favorites like boozy iced coffee, classic mimosas, and their signature brunch sangria while you enjoy standout dishes such as crème brûlée French toast, smoked salmon toast, and steak and eggs. Whether you’re sipping, savoring, or socializing, this brunch is all about good company and even better flavors.
Let’s brunch, bubble, and mingle our way through a fun and flavorful morning together.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site!15 attendees
Trivia at Benchtop Brewing
Benchtop Brewing, 434 Hull Street, Richmond, VA, USGet ready for a fun, social night of Trivia at Benchtop Brewing 🧠🍻
This is the perfect mix of friendly competition and easy connection. Come solo or bring a friend, then team up with others to answer trivia questions, laugh at the ones you definitely should have known, and cheer each other on along the way.
Benchtop Brewing sets the scene with great drinks, gourmet hot dogs, and plenty of other snack and drink options to keep you fueled throughout the game. Whether you’re here to win or just to hang out and meet new people, you’ll feel right at home.
No pressure to be a trivia expert. The real win is making new friends, enjoying good food and drinks, and sharing a night of fun in a relaxed, welcoming space. Come for the trivia, stay for the connections.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: There is street parking in the neighborhood (please read signage). There is also a paid parking structure located behind their building (on 5th St) that is accessible via Decatur St.3 attendees
Guided Cheese Tasting
Truckle Cheesemongers, 714 N Sheppard St, Richmond, VA, USJoin us for a guided cheese tasting at Truckle Cheesemongers, perfect for food lovers and anyone looking to try something new with new friends.
You’ll enjoy a curated tasting of four cheeses paired with thoughtful accoutrements like honey, fruit, meats, and more. A knowledgeable cheesemonger will guide the experience, sharing what makes each cheese special and how the pairings enhance the flavors.
Your ticket covers the full tasting, tax, and gratuity, so all you have to do is show up and enjoy. No planning, no pressure, just good food and great company.
Tickets for this event are $52 for premium members and $60 for all other members. Space is limited to 12 people. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your ticket here.
After the tasting, the Truckle team is happy to offer recommendations for pairings or cheeses to take home if you find a new favorite.
Come solo or bring a friend. Leave with new connections and a deeper appreciation for cheese. 🧀
Parking: mostly street parking in the area.6 attendees
Book Club and Swap at Brambly Park
Brambley Park, 1708 Belleville Street Richmond, VA 23230, Richmond, VA, USWe welcome you to join us for our monthly book club get-togethers. We will select one book each month and we ask that you read the book so we can discuss it. Be prepared for spoilers!
In January, we’ll be doing a book swap. If you’d like to participate, please bring a wrapped book. You can bring an old favorite, or an exciting new find!


Our book this month is “The Maid” by Nita Prose. This book may be found as physical, digital, or audio copies at local libraries. You don't have to bring a copy of the book to our meeting.

“Molly Gray is not like everyone else. She struggles with social skills and misreads the intentions of others. Her gran used to interpret the world for her, codifying it into simple rules that Molly could live by.
Since Gran died a few months ago, twenty-five-year-old Molly has been navigating life’s complexities all by herself. No matter—she throws herself with gusto into her work as a hotel maid. Her unique character, along with her obsessive love of cleaning and proper etiquette, make her an ideal fit for the job. She delights in donning her crisp uniform each morning, stocking her cart with miniature soaps and bottles, and returning guest rooms at the Regency Grand Hotel to a state of perfection.
But Molly’s orderly life is upended the day she enters the suite of the infamous and wealthy Charles Black, only to find it in a state of disarray and Mr. Black himself dead in his bed. Before she knows what’s happening, Molly’s unusual demeanor has the police targeting her as their lead suspect. She quickly finds herself caught in a web of deception, one she has no idea how to untangle. Fortunately for Molly, friends she never knew she had unite with her in a search for clues to what really happened to Mr. Black—but will they be able to find the real killer before it’s too late?”
We will choose the next month’s book at our meeting so come prepared to pitch your book of choice!


This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site with plenty of spots! When you arrive at the restaurant, let the host know you are with the Trying to Adult RVA group and they will let you know where we are seated.2 attendees
Past events
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