What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Water Balloon FightMain Line Brewery, Richmond, VA
Join us for our THIRD annual water balloon flight. This event is always epic! Prepare to get soaked, have a blast, and beat the summer heat with this thrilling and refreshing meetup event. After, join us for a post battle beer or cocktail at Main Line Brewery.
BRING YOUR OWN PRE-FILLED WATER BALLOONS! Please bring your own stash of already filled water balloons. Speaking from experience, the best way is to transport them in a cooler. However, get creative and bring as many as you can. The more water balloons the more fun to be had! Please also help clean up the broken balloons after so we can keep Main Line's awesome space clean!
We will meet at the backside of the outdoor space at Main Line. There is open space by multicolored huts which is where we will be! Keep an eye on comments if you are running late. However, don't come too late or your might miss the fun!
Make sure you dress in clothes you are okay getting wet. Of course, be safe. Never aim for anyone's head/face. Come at your own risk!
This event is free for premium members and $5 for all other members. Space is limited to 50 people. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend. Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
In the event of inclement weather, this event may be cancelled. A announcement will be made an hour prior to the start of the event. If cancelled, all paid tickets will be refunded.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there are two parking lots on site. There should be enough parking. However, there is also street parking if the lot is full. Feel free to drop off your water balloons at the bottom lot so you don't have to carry them far.
- Karaoke at WoBWorld of Beer , Richmond , VA
Unleash your inner rockstar at World of Beer’s Karaoke Night! Join us for an unforgettable evening filled with singing, laughter, and great food and drinks. Whether you’re belting out chart-topping hits or serenading the crowd with a classic ballad, this is your time to shine. Pair your performance with delicious food and craft beer selection for the perfect night out.
Whether you're a seasoned performer or just want to enjoy the music and ambiance, come for an evening filled with laughter, tunes, and fantastic brews! 🎤🍺
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 20 people for this event. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: There is plenty of parking in the parking lots surrounding the restaurant
- Franks & Fun at Benchtop BrewingBenchtop Brewing, Richmond , VA
We’re serving up a night of cold brews, hot dogs, and jiggly little surprises—just for TTA members!
Join us at Benchtop Brewery for a laid-back hang packed with exclusive specials made to keep the good times (and the beer) flowing:
🔥 TTA Member Specials:
- 🥃 $1 Jello Shots (while they last!)
- 🍺 Buy 1 full pour, get $2 off a hot dog
- 🍻 Buy 2 full pours, get $3 off a hot dog
Whether you’re coming for the crisp craft beer, the stacked dogs, or the jello-fueled bonding, this is your sign to show up, grab a drink, and make some new RVA friends.
Let’s get those buns toasted and those friendships brewing. 🍻
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 40 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: There is street parking in the neighborhood (please read signage). There is also a paid parking structure located behind their building (on 5th St) that is accessible via Decatur St.
- Pottery Painting NightAll Fired Up Short Pump, Glen Allen, VA
Ready to get creative? Join us for a relaxing night of pottery painting—no experience needed! From small figurines to large serving platters, you’ll have access to a huge selection of unfinished pottery (aka bisque) that you can turn into your own unique masterpiece.
✨ Think of it as a blank canvas—just pick your piece, grab some paints, and let your creativity flow!
This is a fun and low-key way to meet new people while trying something hands-on and creative. Whether you’re painting a gift, a keepsake, or just having fun with colors, you’ll leave with something uniquely yours.
🎉 Come solo or bring a friend—everyone is welcome. Spots are limited, so RSVP to save your seat at the table!
The studio fee for this this event is $4 for premium members and $8 for members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 25.
You must purchase your ticket via the Trying to Adult RVA website in order to have a guaranteed spot. You can purchase your ticket here!
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: street parking right out front or free parking garage around the corner.
