What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Karaoke at The HiveNeeds location
Unleash your inner star at a night of drinks, food, and fun at The Hive! Join us for a music-filled, unforgettable evening. Want to belt out the latest chart-topper? Want to serenade the crows with a favorite ballad? Whatever your goal, this is your night to shine!
Whether you're a seasoned performer or just want to enjoy the music and ambiance, come for an evening filled with laughter, tunes, friends--and great drinks! 🎤🍻
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 15 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: There is street parking nearby and the Adams & Grace Public Parking lot only a few blocks away.
- Live Music at Brambly ParkBrambly Park, Richmond, VA
Join us for a magical evening under the string lights at Brambly Park, where good music, great food, and even better company come together.
We’ll be enjoying a live performance by Justin, a gifted local musician and member of the band Villages. With a sound rooted in Americana, Justin draws inspiration from classic artists like Bob Dylan and The Flying Burrito Brothers, as well as modern influences like Wilco and Futurebirds. His music is filled with soulful storytelling, warm melodies, and a laid-back vibe that perfectly matches the Brambly Park atmosphere.
As you relax and listen, treat yourself to Brambly Park’s wide selection of offerings:
🍷 Wine straight from their on-site winery
🍹 Craft cocktails and a full-service bar
🍽️ A full food menu with delicious seasonal options
🥤 Non-alcoholic options including mocktails, soda, and moreThis event will be held outside on the lawn, so feel free to bring:
🧴 Bug spray
🧥 Layers in case it gets chillyThis event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there's a parking lot on site!
- Sips & Scents at Brown House CandleBrown House Candle Company, Midlothian, VA
Join us at Brown House Candle for a hands-on, scent-sational experience where you’ll craft your own custom candle, home, or body care item! Explore a huge collection of fragrances and mix your perfect scent — from fresh and floral to rich and cozy, the possibilities are endless.
Each ticket includes:
- A $5 product credit toward your custom creation
- A complimentary beverage (your choice of soft drink, beer, or wine)
- Expert guidance from the Brown House Candle team to help bring your vision to life
Whether you're flying solo or bringing a friend, this is the perfect way to unwind, get creative, and take home something uniquely you.
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Price to join this event is $8 for premium members and $12 for members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 15.
You must purchase your ticket via the Trying to Adult RVA website in order to have a guaranteed spot. You can purchase your ticket here!
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: there's a parking lot on site!
- Movie Night: FriendshipRegal Cinema Short Pump 14 & IMAX, Richmond, VA
It’s movie night and we are going to see the A24 movie, “Friendship,” starring Paul Rudd.
Movie Summary: Suburban dad Craig falls hard for his charismatic new neighbor, as Craig's attempts to make an adult male friend threaten to ruin both of their lives.
TIME of the movie is at 7:50pm, once tickets are posted online on fandango, we will announce it in the comments. You are responsible for purchasing your own movie ticket. Please arrive at the theater early to check in with us.
All attendees must have a confirmed ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website AND must also purchase a movie ticket separately. You can do so via Fandango.com or the movie theater's website!
You can claim your spot with our group here.
Parking: There is a parking lot outside of the theater for parking.
We may go to a nearby restaurant after the film for socializing for any who are interested.
