What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Acoustic Vibes + WineJames River Cellars Winery, Glen Allen, VA
We’re bringing together wine, music, and friends for the perfect relaxed weekend vibe. Treat yourself to a wine flight, sip on a frozen slushie, or share a bottle with friends while enjoying the sounds of Katie Conner performing live with her acoustic style. 🎶✨
Settle in on the lawn with your own chair or blanket, or find a spot under the pavilion with seating provided. Whether you’re looking to unwind, meet new people, or just enjoy the outdoors with a glass in hand, this is the casual Sunday reset you’ve been waiting for. 🍇💛
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site!
- Mini Golf at Hotel GreeneHotel Greene, Richmond, VA
Join us for a night of playful competition at Hotel Greene, RVA’s one-of-a-kind indoor mini golf experience. ⛳✨ Step into their beautifully designed course where every hole has a story, and enjoy cocktails and drinks that you can sip while you play.
This is the perfect chance to let loose, laugh a little, and show off your best (or most creative) putting skills. Whether you’re a mini golf pro or just there for the fun, the atmosphere at Hotel Greene makes it easy to relax and connect.
Come with friends or come ready to make new ones—it’s all about fun, friendly competition, and plenty of memories made along the way. 🥂⛳
Tickets for this event are $20 for premium members and $28 for all other members. Space is limited to 20 people. Tickets must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: mostly street parking in the area. Please allow extra time to find a spot.
- New Friend SocialRichbrau Brewing, Richmond, VA
Calling all newcomers to the Trying to Adult RVA community! Are you eager to meet new friends and expand your social circle? Join us for our monthly New Friend Social, an informal and friendly gathering designed to foster new friendships!
At this exciting event, you'll be greeted with an inclusive and welcoming environment where you can connect with fellow new members who share your enthusiasm for exploring the RVA area and making new friends. Whether you've recently moved to Richmond or are simply looking to expand your social network, this is the perfect opportunity to make lasting connections and build new friendships.
Our New Friend Leads and other Trying to Adult RVA leadership team volunteers who have attended multiple Trying to Adult RVA events will also join these socials and can provide guidance on other TTA events and happenings.
This event is free for members and non-members, however you will need to claim a ticket in order to attend as attendance is limited. If you can no longer attend after claiming a spot, please release your spot via the Trying to Adult RVA website so someone else can claim it. Last minute RSVP changes are hard to fill so please change your RSVP at least 24 hours in advance. Please make sure you read the group rules. We have a policy around no-shows!
You can claim a ticket and confirm your spot here.
Parking can be a little tricky in Shockoe Bottom. There is usually street parking on Cary Street or East Main Street. Please be sure to abide by posted signage.
- Apple PickingCarter Mountain Orchard and Country Store, Charlottesville, VA
It's apple picking season! Join us for an afternoon of fall activities at Carter Mountain. In addition to apples, there is wine, cider (Bold Rock on site), donuts and more. We also can hop on a hay ride together.
You must purchase your ticket in advance via Carter Mountain's website! Weekends in October sell out fast so we encourage purchasing ASAP. The price of tickets are $9 per person. Please book the time slot for October 5th at 12:00PM.
In addition to claiming your ticket with Carter Mountain, please also sign up via the Trying to Adult RVA website so we know who is attending. These "tickets" are free. You can reserve your spot here.
Please note that Carter Mountain is in Charlottesville and is about an hour drive from Richmond.
There is parking on site. We will meet outside the Bold Rock room which is directly below the main store area.
