
What we’re about
Are you in your 20s or 30s and wondering how to navigate the modern dating scene? Tired of dating apps? Frustrated with getting ghosted? Want to meet people in real life instead of endlessly swiping? Are you single, divorced, or open to meeting someone special in a fun and natural way?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Date RVA is a social group designed to help young adults meet potential partners through engaging, low-pressure events. From casual meetups and group activities to unique dating experiences, our events provide the perfect opportunity to connect with like-minded singles in a relaxed environment.
Trying to Date RVA is an affiliate of Trying to Adult RVA, a community focused on helping young adults navigate various aspects of adult life. While Trying to Adult RVA emphasizes friendship and social connections, Trying to Date RVA takes it a step further by providing opportunities specifically for dating and building romantic connections. Together, these groups create a supportive environment for individuals looking to expand their social circles and find meaningful relationships.
Please review our rules and policies regarding participation, attendance, refunds, and social media.
Visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more.
For additional details, check out our website and start your journey to making meaningful connections today!
Upcoming events (3)
See all- Strike Up a Date: Bowling & SinglesRiver City Roll, Richmond, VA
Join us for Strike Up a Date, a playful night of bowling, banter, and real connection. You’ll be placed on a team of six for each game—and after every round, you’ll switch things up so you can meet new singles throughout the night.
✨ Here’s how it works:
If you get a strike or a spare, you’ll draw from our Strike Up a Question Bowl—filled with curated, open-ended, flirty-but-fun questions. You’ll pick someone on your team to answer the question, giving everyone a chance to break the ice and spark meaningful (or hilarious) convos.
Whether you're a bowling pro or can barely hit a pin, this event is more about connection than competition.💡 This is a hetero-focused singles event.
To keep the experience balanced and fun, we have designated tickets for men and women. Please be sure to select the correct ticket type when signing up so we can keep teams even and everyone mingling smoothly.🎟️ Spots are limited and this event will sell out—so grab your ticket, lace up those bowling shoes, and get ready to strike up a date!
This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $20 for premium members, $25 for members, and $30 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 18 people.You can purchase your ticket here.
Please note: you must rent ($4.50) or bring your own bowling shoes.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site!
- Crafts & ConnectionsBlue Bee Cidery, Richmond , VA
Join us at Blue Bee Cider for a cozy and creative evening of Crafts & Connections! Whether you’re into knitting, sketching, journaling, or just gluing stuff together with glitter—bring your own project or dive into one of the fun crafts we’ll have ready for you.
This isn’t your typical singles event. There are no ratio guarantees, no speed dating setups—just a laid-back space to meet other Richmond singles while your hands (and heart) stay busy.
We welcome everyone: straight, queer, questioning, and all identities and interests. You’ll receive an interest identifier to help you find people who align with what you're looking for—romantic, platonic, or somewhere in between.
Blue Bee offers a full menu of delicious cider, including non-alcoholic options, and they’ll have snacks available for purchase. You’re also welcome to bring your own food if you’d prefer!
Come sip cider, make something with your hands, and maybe build something meaningful, too. 💛
This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $8 for premium members, $10 for members, and $12 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 20 people.You can purchase your ticket here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: there is a parking lot on site! Be sure to read the signs in the area so that you are in the right lot.
- Salsa & Singles: Dance Lessons + ConnectionMambo Bones Salsa Dance Studio, Richmond, VA
Ready to spice up your dating life? Join us for a night of rhythm, romance, and real connection with Salsa & Bachata dance lessons designed just for singles!
Whether you’ve got two left feet or you’ve always wanted to try Latin dance, this beginner-friendly class is the perfect way to meet new people in a fun, low-pressure setting. You’ll rotate partners throughout the lesson—giving you the chance to dance and connect with multiple local singles. Who knows, your perfect match might just be a spin away! 💫
### 🔥 What to Expect:
- Beginner Salsa + Bachata lessons led by a professional instructor
- Partner rotation so you meet and dance with different people
- Flirty, fun vibes—no experience needed!
- Optional hangout afterward to mingle and keep the connection going
### 💌 When signing up, choose your role:
- Lead (typically male)
- Follow (typically female)
We aim for a balanced ratio so everyone gets plenty of dance time!
This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $20 for premium members, $25 for members, and $30 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 30 people.You can purchase your ticket here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: mostly street parking in the area but also a few paid lots. Please leave extra time to find a spot! Nearest paid parking lot is at 400E E Franklin St, Richmond, VA 23219