What we’re about
Are you looking for fun social activities/meetups in Wellington and want to make new friends? Join and read more!
RSVP for all of our events is managed on heymates.com
Events are here to raise awareness among interested people on meetup site.
RSVP is closed on meetup to avoid falky users, please read description and visit activity on Hey mates to join/RSVP.
Cheers.
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Hey mates - A platform that hosts fun in-person social events.
Not like the ones that you’ve been in past; we really focus on delivering a great experience and creating a safe space where you can truly connect with others and have fun.
Don't take our word for it - feedback.heymates.com/wall
Our socials are PAID for a reason. We are offering value for people who are looking for:
- Great in-person experience.
- Inclusive and culturally open community.
- A space where you can truly connect with others, share stories and have fun - EVERY SINGLE TIME!
We exist for individuals who HAVEN'T had good experiences or found an inclusive space.
Some of the symptoms you might have experienced at other events:
- felt like an outsider - breaking into an existing group
- felt ignored and was just left to you to figure it out.
- people had specific views and beliefs (weren't open to other cultures or views)
- Host were too focused on actual activity vs making sure everyone was socially connected.
- the group was so big that you felt lost
- the overall experience was average or less than ideal.
Our key differentiator is EXPERIENCE and INCLUSION of cultures + Diversity:
- Events run by kind and trusted hosts
- Facilitated and co-ordinated events
- High confidence, 98% attendee show-up rate.
- Over 30% of users attend more than twice.
- Small groups, better outcomes. (max. 15 attendees per event)
- See Familiar faces and reconnect over repeat activities - build trust and long-term friendships.
If you're not finding an opportunity or an event/activity you love, host one and open yourself to meeting new people!
Hosting is Free with us - no need to pay $100+ to meetup subscriptions.
If you ask how follow these steps:
- Create an account: https://heymates.com/sign-up/
- Fill out this form to indicate what activity you would like to do: heymates.com/host-activity
- If you just want to talk, send us an email - info@heymates.com or text 0221860690. :)
If you have come this far? Thank you for reading. <3
Join an activity today and support our mission.
Have fun making new connections and quality friends.
See you out there!
Come along on a day trip to explore the beautiful Queen Elizabeth Park!
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/paekakariki-wellington/sunday-brunch-silent-walk-paekakariki-beach/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 Free to attend.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Samina! ⭐
This 12 km return walk is mostly flat and will take us through the park, with a detour to the wetlands and along the beach towards Paekakariki.
We’ll return through the park, enjoying stunning views and nature all around. It’s a great way to spend the day outdoors, meet new people, and get some fresh air.
Duration: ~5 hours, including stops.
Meeting point
- Visit activity page and RSVP there.
What to bring
- Comfortable walking shoes
- Water and snacks
- Sun hat, sunscreen, and warm layer/rain jacket (weather can be unpredictable).
If the weather is rainy, we’ll postpone to another day.
Come prepared for a day of adventure, stunning scenery, and great company! 🌞
See you there!
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Recession Pop Party!Wellington CBD, Wellington
Love POP music but too afraid to go alone!? Join us for some social dancing in safe space/people. Get your ticket - Link in description and then RSVP here.
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington-central-wellington/recession-pop-party/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 free activity.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Josiah! ⭐
Feel a bit sick of the same weekly routine? Add a little chaos to break it up and come out to a gig hosted at sanfran and vibe out to some bangers from the early 2000s, have a dance, a drink, and a, definitely in-tune, sing-along to some of the new classics. Early bird tickets are super cheap, and the final release tickets are barely over $20.
Buy a ticket through the link below, and RSVP to let us know you are coming so we can wait for you at the doors.
https://www.moshtix.co.nz/v2/event/recession-pop-party-wellington/181327
SOUNDS LIKE: Kesha, Rihanna, The Black Eyed Peas, Chappell Roan, Ariana Grande, Taylor Swift, Lady Gaga, One Direction, Pitbull, LMFAO, Sabrina Carpenter, Carly Rae Jepsen, Jason Derulo, Britney Spears, Charli XCX, Usher, Cobra Starship, Flo Rida, Nicki Minaj + HEAPS MORE!!
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there! ✨
Not open - Social Pilates Series (5 Packs)Wellington CBD, Wellington
Join us for a progressive Pilates series where you'll build strength, confidence, and connection week by week.
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/petone-wellington/social-pilates-series/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 Paid activity✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Join this community series in collaboration with Thrive Pilates! ⭐
This 5 consecutive weeks of Multi-Level Reformer Pilates series is designed for all abilities — whether you're new to Pilates or an experienced mover, you'll receive tailored guidance to suit your individual needs.
Enjoy a supportive, welcoming environment with personalised attention in our intimate classes (max 8 participants). Each session will energise and challenge you, helping to build strength, flexibility, and balance in a sustainable way.
After the session, you are welcome to stay or visit a cafe nearby with the group to continue the conversations and connections.
🟥 The activity fee reserves your spot for the entire 5 scheduled class series and supports the platform.
✅ The venue and host details are shared with confirmed attendees via email.
⚠️ Please Note: While we do our best to be flexible, we are unable to offer reschedules or make-up sessions for any missed classes within this 5-week consecutive block. For health and safety reasons, classes are also non-transferable and cannot be passed on to another person.
⭐ What to Expect ⭐
- Weekly 45-minute intermediate Reformer Pilates classes (for 5 weeks)
- Layered, progressive structure with options for all levels
- Supportive, welcoming vibe focused on strength, coordination, and control
- Post-class connection time with relaxed convos
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there! ✨
- Let's play Catan!Wellington CBD, Wellington
Whether you're a seasoned strategist or a first-time player, come trade, build, and settle in a fun and social setting!
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington/catan/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 Paid activity.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Alex! ⭐
Hey everyone! Come and play Catan with us in a relaxed setting. Whether you're a pro or completely new to the game, you're welcome to join. We'll have some icebreaker activities before the game starts to have abit of chat and get to know people. Can't wait to see you there!
🟥 The activity fee provides access to Catan sessions and supports the host/platform.
✅ The meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
⭐What to Expect ⭐
- A fun and casual game session featuring Catan.
- A chance to meet new people and test your strategy skills.
- All levels welcome—rules will be explained for beginners.
- If we have a bigger group, we'll set up multiple games.
Please support the venue by purchasing a Food or Drink item. It offers a wide range of drinks and fast food option.
Come roll the dice, build your settlements, and enjoy a great day of Catan! 🎲 🏠 🔨------------------------------------------------------------
RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there! ✨
Not open - Build your social circle by hosting activities! (Free)Needs location
Hi there, we want to make hosting accessible to everyone as that's the stepping stone in building your tribe, on your schedule and convenience.
Use this form to host an activity: https://heymates.com/host-activity
If you are not ready to host don't want to host but have an idea.
- Suggest an activity: https://forms.gle/XFffCMooxPhcyJd37
Want to chat? Send me a text on 0221860690 and we can arrange a time.
Cheers,
Dhruv
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📌 What is Hey mates?
We are an alternative platform to Meetup and other social events sites.
Hey mates helps people make new friends over in-person social activities. Unlike ordinary meetups, we thoughtfully create each activity and experience where individuals share moments, build friendships, and find a sense of belonging.
📌 How we are different?
We’re not just events platform, we run our events with intent, inclusion and focus to enable connections, spark conversations and create a safe space helping people make new friends.
### Core Values
- Connection First – Friendships are our priority
- Inclusivity – Everyone is welcome
- Fun & Engaging – Socializing should be enjoyable
- Authenticity – Real people, real interactions
- Community-Driven – Built by and for our members
Our mission: To combat loneliness by building communities where authentic connections thrive over fun activities.
Hope that fuels your curiosity! <3
See you at an event!
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