About us
Soulmated is an online discussion community for people who want honest, structured conversations about dating, relationships, communication, and connection.
If you are single, dating again after a long relationship, or simply trying to understand your patterns and make better choices, you will find your people here.
This is not therapy. It is not a dating service. It is a moderated space where thoughtful adults, mostly singles 35 and older, show up on camera, share real perspectives, and leave with something useful.
What we talk about:
- Dating dynamics, compatibility, and what you actually want
- Communication, boundaries, and emotional patterns
- Modern dating: apps, ghosting, timing, and starting over
- Relationships after divorce, loss, or a long situationship
What makes this different:
- Every session is moderated and structured, not a free-for-all
- Camera-on culture. Real faces, real conversation.
- No performative sharing, no preaching, no pressure
- Built from a card game designed to spark the conversations most people avoid
Most members are 35 to 65, based across North America, and done with surface-level connection.
RSVP to an upcoming event. Come with a perspective or a question. That is all it takes.
Featured event
You Say You Want a Relationship. Do You Mean It?
Most people can describe what they don't want in a relationship. Fewer can clearly articulate what they actually do want, and fewer still can explain why. That gap is where a lot of dating confusion lives.
This conversation is part of the SOUL Framework series, a year-long community exploration of the four things that shape how we date and connect. We're opening with O: Outcome Vision, and getting honest about what you're actually building toward.
💬 What we'll explore:
- Why "I'll know it when I feel it" is not a standard
- The difference between what you want and what you've been conditioned to want
- How vague outcome thinking leads to vague dating choices
- What it actually means to have standards vs. a wishlist
- The role self-awareness plays in knowing what you're looking for
- Why two people can want "something serious" and still be incompatible
🧠 You'll leave with:
- A clearer picture of what you're actually looking for and why
- A way to distinguish real standards from inherited expectations
- Language to articulate your outcome without sounding rigid
- A starting point for the conversations that matter
What to expect: This is a peer-led group discussion; there's no formal presentation or coaching. You'll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or listen in, you're welcome here.
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
What's shared in the meeting stays in the meeting. Vegas Rule applies.
🛒 Explore the Soulmated deck: www.soulmated.co
Dan
Upcoming events
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You Say You Want a Relationship. Do You Mean It?
·OnlineOnlineMost people can describe what they don't want in a relationship. Fewer can clearly articulate what they actually do want, and fewer still can explain why. That gap is where a lot of dating confusion lives.
This conversation is part of the SOUL Framework series, a year-long community exploration of the four things that shape how we date and connect. We're opening with O: Outcome Vision, and getting honest about what you're actually building toward.
💬 What we'll explore:
- Why "I'll know it when I feel it" is not a standard
- The difference between what you want and what you've been conditioned to want
- How vague outcome thinking leads to vague dating choices
- What it actually means to have standards vs. a wishlist
- The role self-awareness plays in knowing what you're looking for
- Why two people can want "something serious" and still be incompatible
🧠 You'll leave with:
- A clearer picture of what you're actually looking for and why
- A way to distinguish real standards from inherited expectations
- Language to articulate your outcome without sounding rigid
- A starting point for the conversations that matter
What to expect: This is a peer-led group discussion; there's no formal presentation or coaching. You'll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or listen in, you're welcome here.
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
What's shared in the meeting stays in the meeting. Vegas Rule applies.
🛒 Explore the Soulmated deck: www.soulmated.co
Dan
40 attendees
Does Your Life Actually Fit the Relationship You Want?
·OnlineOnlineA lot of people are looking for a relationship that fits a life they haven't fully built yet. They know the kind of partner they want. However, their schedule, their habits, their priorities, and their daily reality tell a different story.
This conversation is part of the SOUL Framework series, continuing O: Outcome Vision. Last month we talked about clarifying what you're looking for. This month we go one level deeper: does the life you're actually living match the relationship you say you want?
💬 What we'll explore:
- How lifestyle misalignment shows up in dating without people realizing it
- The difference between wanting a relationship and being ready for one
- How your current routines, availability, and priorities signal what you're actually prioritizing
- What it means to build toward a relationship vs. wait for one to fix things
- The patterns that emerge when people date for escape instead of alignment
- How to take an honest inventory of where your life is right now
🧠 You'll leave with:
- A clearer picture of whether your life is set up for the relationship you want
- A practical way to identify where the gaps are
- A more honest lens on what readiness actually looks like
- Concrete questions to ask yourself before your next serious pursuit
What to expect: This is a peer-led group discussion; there's no formal presentation or coaching. You'll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or listen in, you're welcome here.
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
What's shared in the meeting stays in the meeting. Vegas Rule applies.
🛒 Explore the Soulmated deck: www.soulmated.co
Dan
25 attendees
Soulmated Master Shuffle
·OnlineOnlineSoulmated Master Shuffle
A Deeper Shuffle. A Deeper You.This is not just another meetup. It’s a private space for Soulmated deck owners ready to go deeper.
This edition will be open to everyone!
Each Master Shuffle explores the origin, intention, and real-life impact of selected Soulmated prompts. Together, we’ll take time to reflect and answer these questions ourselves, using the cards as tools for growth and meaningful connection.
🎴 No pressure to perform. Just come ready to be seen.
💬 Expect real dialogue, not distant commentary.
🧠 Some nights may be reflective, while others are exploratory.📍This is a camera-on space.
If your camera is off, you’ll be placed in the waiting room. If it stays off, you’ll be removed from the session.
This helps us protect the energy and intimacy of the group.🪑 25 spots only.
Small on purpose, so everyone can speak if they choose.🍷 Bring your wine, tea, or favorite drink.
Let’s close the weekend on a good note with connection, insight, and thoughtful conversation.Our goal?
Everyone leaves with value and a positive vibe.Before registering, ask yourself:
“Am I ready to contribute to a thoughtful, open-hearted space?”We’d love to have you.
Dan
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Past events
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