SPECIAL EVENT co-host by Dan, Tantra instructor: "The Wheel of Consent"

### 🌿 Social Connection With a Human Touch

Saturday, 7th December
6:00pm – Mingle & Arrival
7:00pm – Session Start
🎟️ Free Event – All Welcome (Singles & Couples encouraged!)
🍹 $15 cocktails & burgers all night
Join us for a relaxed, playful evening exploring consent, boundaries, communication, and touch-awareness through The Wheel of Consent and the 3-Minute Game.
Come solo or bring a partner—couples are welcome to participate together, and individuals will be paired respectfully and consensually.
Together, we’ll practice asking for what we want, negotiating boundaries, and learning to give and receive with clarity, curiosity, and mutual respect.

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### 🔄 How the 3-Minute Game Works

1. Start slow
   Begin with light, comfortable contact or simple requests while building trust and ease.
2. Set a timer
   Each round is three minutes—short, intentional, and gently guided.
3. Ask the first question
   One person begins with:
   “How would you like to be touched?”
   or
   “What would you like me to do for three minutes?”
4. Negotiate clearly
   The receiver makes a request. The giver may accept, modify, or set boundaries so both feel respected and safe.
5. Give/receive with awareness
   Follow the request mindfully—stay tuned to comfort, body language, and verbal feedback.
6. Switch roles
   Swap after each timed round to explore both perspectives.

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### 💠 Core Principles of the Wheel of Consent

• Consent is a gift — freely given, never assumed.
• Four dynamics to explore:
• Serving – Giving for the other.
• Taking – Receiving what you want, with permission.
• Allowing – Letting someone take from you, within your boundaries.
• Accepting – Receiving what is offered for your benefit.
• Applicable beyond touch — useful for intimacy, friendships, professional communication, and everyday interactions.
• Stay verbal & connected — Check in, speak openly, and honour your comfort and that of your partner.