What we’re about
Women 21+ only
Have you ever wondered...
- Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult?
- Why do people say they want connection, but rarely follow through?
- Is it “too much” to want deeper friendships?
- What kind of friend do I want to be and who do I want around me?
- Why do people focus more on activity rather than the person they spend the time with?
Me too!
I created this group to explore those questions without forced socializing or surface level games, but through conversation and connection. If you are tired of attending social events and hoping you will meet your future friend in the next social event, come join me on this journey.
This is for you if:
- You’re tired of flakiness and surface-level hangouts
- You want to build friendships rooted in presence, not performance
- You’re willing to show up with care, curiosity, and a little vulnerability
- You’re open to awkwardness, honesty, and starting from scratch
- You're introverts who don't usually talk to anyone at social events but extremely exhausted afterwards
What to expect:
- Prompts and reflection
- Explore the kind of connection you want (and don’t want)
- Conversations that go beneath the surface
- A space to ask friendship myths, like
- “If friendship ended, it wasn’t real”
- “Good friends don’t need effort”
- “Needing people means you’re not whole or you need to work on yourself”
What we’re practicing together:
- Showing up with care and presence (I will ask everyone to put the phone away)
- Speaking honestly (Sometimes, being honest is hard and scary. That's why we practice it together. If you always know the right things to say and can speak honestly all the times, you won't benefit from this group.)
- Listening without fixing or judging (It's hard but we will practice it together as a group.)
- Letting yourself be seen, even if it’s awkward (I will be the awkward one without even trying)
- Respecting boundaries, clarity, and pacing (We'll discuss ghosting, contacting other members, etc so we know the rules to follow)
- Building trust over time, not in a rush (4-week journey is designed to increase trust by engaging more frequently with other members, but it won't end in 4 weeks if you choose to stay in touch)
We’re just here to practice and learn what real friendship actually takes.
And if it feels like a good fit, you’ll have the option to join a 4-week journey designed to help a small group go deeper and closer through guided conversations, shared meals, storytelling, and reflection.
We are not here to fix ourselves or others in the group. We are here to learn about ourselves and each other by listening, caring, laughing, discussing, eating, engaging, speaking, respecting, and everything else.
My goal is to hold that space for us and see what grows. This is Where We Begin.
