How to build meaningful connection: Powerful Questions MasterclassDo you walk away from small talk feeling drained, overstimulated, or bored out of your mind?… 😵💫💤
…but when you find someone you can go deep with, suddenly you can talk for hours and feel more energised than when you started? ⚡💬
Does this rarely happen, such that you'd love to be skilled so when the opportunity comes up again - you want to be ready to make it meaningful?
Then welcome — this workshop is designed exactly for you. 🤝🌟
**Ideal for:**
* Neurodivergent adults (Autistic, ADHD, AuDHD) who want real connection, not surface noise 🧠💛
* People frustrated by dating-app banter or repetitive first-date conversations that never go anywhere
* Anyone who wants friendships or relationships with substance, emotion, and depth
* Those wanting to learn attunement, presence, and powerful question skills that make conversations richer and more engaging 🔍👂💡
This session is for people who want conversations that feel alive, honest, and energising — not draining. ⚡🔋
**Why Powerful Questions Matter**
Researchers like **David Clutterbuck** found that a “powerful question” can shift the direction of someone’s thinking — helping them reflect, feel, and reveal things that actually matter.
The best questions are personal, resonant, emotionally impactful, non-judgmental, and clear.
They go beyond information-gathering… and into insight. [Click here to What makes a Powerful Question.](https://clutterbuck-cmi.com/blogs/what-makes-a-powerful-question/#:~:text=Based%20on%20analysis%20of%20hundreds,the%20heart%20of%20the%20issue)
When you ask these kinds of questions with empathy, curiosity, and presence, conversations naturally become deeper, more authentic, and far more energising than small talk ever could.
✅ **What You’ll Learn**
* What makes a question “powerful” and why it changes the conversation
* A starter toolkit of powerful questions for dates, friendships, and real-life social moments
* How to listen in a way that makes people *feel safe* to open up
* How to read emotional cues and attune to the other person
* How to hold space without fixing, pushing, or interrupting
* Real-time practice with rotating partners
* Feedback and reflection to strengthen your skills
* A chance to share your social challenges so future sessions can be tailored to you
🔄 **How the Session Flows**
* Warm welcome + safety setup
* What actually makes a question powerful (mini-teach)
* Sample toolkit + why these questions work
* Paired practice rounds (fun, safe, structured)
* Group reflection: What surprised you? What opened something?
* Optional deeper practice round
* Quick feedback survey
* Closing + practical next steps
💡 **Example Powerful Questions You Can Use**
* **1.** *What shaped you into who you are today?*
**2.** *What matters most to you right now?*
* **3**. *What* is **most hard** about *(x challenge)*?
**4.** *What does success look like for you?*
**5.** *What are you wanting or needing that you rarely talk about?*
**6.** *What moments make you feel most alive or seen?*
**7.** *What drains your social energy?*
* **8.** *(Followup) What restores it?*
**9.** *What’s one thing you’d love to change about how you connect with people?*
These questions help you move from shallow chat… to meaningful dialogue, and thus connection.