Tired of online dating apps that don’t work and expensive speed dating events that get you no where near a meaningful connection because of limited time? Well I think it’s time we bring back in person singles groups. Here is a place where we will have ice breakers, play games and have a picnic in the park. Be sure to bring a blanket/sheet, lounge chair and/or game(if you have one), and something edible to share.
Although this is a free event all donations/tips are appreciated. The money that’s donated goes toward saving up for renting out an event studio for future events. For now we have parks, restaurants and other public places in the county. I’m also open to suggestions. For this event we have some rules that must be followed.
The Rules:
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When you come, you will be given a name tag where you will write your name, pronouns, and letter/s that represent the reason your there (D=Dating F= Friendship D&F = Dating & Friendship.) Please respect everyone’s reason that they write on the name tag.
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Please bring something to share as you can’t have a picnic without food to munch on as you socialize.
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You must be 21 years old or older to attend this event. Although the up to age is usually 45 we are a very inclusive group and want people to feel welcome. If you are over 45 and feel you would fit in this community, Send me a message about yourself and we’ll go from there.
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No messaging people before the event you haven’t met. This is an event where people can meet in person and make connections. After that you can message people whose consent you have to message. But remember, you can message me at anytime since I’m your host. I may have to message you at times but it’s will mainly be for event purposes.
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This is not a hookup party. Don’t come with the intention of having any kind of sexual activity or cruising. We’re here to have fun and feel safe.
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No touching/making physical contact with anyone without their consent. Including but not limited to hugging, back pats, shoulder massages.
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No Political discussions. This can lead to conflict and it’s not the right event for these kind of conversations.
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No showing up intoxicated on any substances. You will be asked to leave.
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If you are interesting in pursuing someone by asking them to socialize outside of this group and they say the word “No”, respect their answer and move on. They don’t owe you an explanation. We like an enthusiastic “Yes,” to accepting dates/meetups etc.
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Try to avoid giving “Soft No’s” as answers. Soft No’s can often give someone a false impression of how you actually feel and what you actually want. Be direct, set your boundaries and be respectful. If they get insistent and don’t understand what you’re saying, come find me and I’ll take care of it.
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Be Kind when Saying No. It takes a lot of confidence and courage to come up and ask someone for a chance at dating or friendship. If you’re not interested in the person just be respectful when saying No. You don’t owe them an explanation.
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I may take pictures at the event to promote it, but I will only take pictures of people who consent to having the photos being taken of them.
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That being said no taking pictures of people unless they consent to it. That includes all the people in the background.
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Be kind to each other, people of all different backgrounds and identities are welcome, including Straight, Gay, Lesbian, Queer, Transgender, etc. Any kind of prejudices will not be tolerated and result in anywhere from suspension to banishment.
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If the weather prevents us from having the picnic, we will most likely have a back up plan such as going to a diner and bowling. That’s what we did at the last event because of rain so don’t worry, we’ll have something to do that day. I’m open to suggestions from different people for events. We may also meet online at times. If we meet online and you want to join I will give you the information via direct message.
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Just have fun.
This event will take place at the Peekskill River Front, the address is 50 Hudson Ave, Peekskill, NY 10566. Look for balloons when you come to the event. Hope to see you there. If you have any questions feel free to reach out.
Hope to see you there!!! 😆
P.S.
Join our Discord server to reach us quicker and stay in contact as the event comes closer. We also sometimes will have online meetups but for the most part I want to make it as in person as possible. This is a way to reach us faster and be up to date on what the plans are. Take care!!! 😊
https://discord.gg/J8M9eqS
