Name: Newbies Bagels & Coffee Meetup
Start: 2025-08-03T15:00:00.000Z
Location: Terra Bagels

**Find comfort in creativity:** Join us at Schuler Books Cafe for a low-pressure social experience designed with shy and socially anxious people in mind. Having an activity to focus on makes socializing so much easier!

**IMPORTANT TO KNOW:** Many people come once, get disappointed that they don't make a lot of friends on their first visit, and then never come back. Everyone who becomes a regular always ends up making a lot of friends.

**How it works:** Bring your favorite coloring books, art supplies, or any activity you enjoy (Nintendo Switch, card games, knitting - anything goes!). The activity gives you something to concentrate on while conversation happens naturally around you - no awkward silence, no pressure to maintain eye contact or constant chat.

**Shy-friendly promises:**

* No introductions to the whole group required
* Come and go as you please
* Participate in conversation only when you feel comfortable
* Activities provide a natural buffer and conversation starter

**Too anxious to walk in alone?** We understand completely. Message us when you arrive, and a friendly greeter will meet you at your car to walk in with you. Many of our regular members started this way!

**Everyone welcome:** While this event is designed with shy folks in mind, we welcome anyone who enjoys a calm, judgment-free environment. The West MI Social Club from Facebook will be joining us too.

**What to bring:** Your favorite coloring books and supplies (or Schuler's sells these if needed). Feel free to bring other activities instead - whatever helps you feel comfortable.

**Look for:** The Meetup sign in the cafe area.

**Take your journey further:** Discover our original and in-depth program for overcoming social anxiety and building meaningful connections through our YouTube channel: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVhrbTYkCPs&list=PL7dZ0pbrV6fTSANlyWr58fqm-Wejf0OjT](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVhrbTYkCPs&list=PL7dZ0pbrV6fTSANlyWr58fqm-Wejf0OjT)

Questions? Visit our website: [https://internationalfriendconnection.com/](https://internationalfriendconnection.com/)

*"I sat in my car for 20 minutes before my first event, but then I never missed an event for years. The coloring and activities made all the difference." -* Krystle (our former host who moved away in 2022)

West Michigan Introverts, Shy, and Neurodivergent People

Annalise Medema

David Good

Irina Aeger

Jasmyn W.

gentlemanshardware

Seth Horn

Camdyn

Paul Michael Baxter

Courtnie

Emily Llacuna

David B

🧑‍🎨 The Shy-Friendly Hangout: Coloring & Various Activities

Schuler's Books and Music

Summer is here, and it's great to get out of the house and enjoy a nice beverage with new friends!

Let’s grab a hot/iced coffee, tea, or hot chocolate and hang out with very nice people. Enjoy chatting, make friends, practice social skills, and have fun!

As always, we are going to meet at Matari Coffee Co. in Canton.

New members are always welcome!

We usually stay until 8:30pm or later. Come and go anytime.

This is a safe place with nonjudgemental people in a relaxed setting. There is nothing to hide or feel ashamed about. We all understand each other and can sympathize.

Coming to our events is the first step! We just chat about casual topics. We never force you to speak up in our group. If you are still too anxious to come to the meeting, please feel free to contact me.

You don’t want to talk? It’s ok. You can just sit and listen to other people. You can enjoy coffee, tea, and pastries, many other things.

Looking forward to seeing you!

East Michigan Shyness and Social Anxiety Group

Becky Smith

Craig M

Mark

jdpham54

Melissa

Soham Mhatre

Klaudia

annab8063

Ivy Bucher

Steph

Amy Birrell

Brian

Meet Friends with Coffee/Tea - Canton

Matari Coffee Co.

**A judgment-free zone for shy and neurodivergent people to connect authentically.**

Are you tired of masking? Need a break from explaining yourself? This meetup is for adults with social anxiety, ADHD, or autism who want to be around others who just "get it."

## **What to expect:**

* No pressure to be "on" or perform social norms
* Understanding when you need breaks or fidget
* Conversations that can jump topics (we love tangents!)
* Acceptance of stimming, quiet moments, and your authentic self

## **Our one rule:**

This is our oasis from the outside world. Please bring kindness and leave negativity/conflict at the door.

*This group is designed for individuals with low support needs who can attend independently.*

**Come as you are. You belong here.**

Do you have **social anxiety**? Are you struggling with having conversations? Please feel welcome to see our **original FREE classes** here:
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVhrbTYkCPs&list=PL7dZ0pbrV6fTSANlyWr58fqm-Wejf0OjT](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVhrbTYkCPs&list=PL7dZ0pbrV6fTSANlyWr58fqm-Wejf0OjT)

**IMPORTANT:** We are not a mental health support group but this is a safe place to make new friends.

This group is brought to you by the **International Friend Connection** in partnership with **The Octopus Movement** Think Tank.

**Find out more here:**
[https://internationalfriendconnection.com/](https://internationalfriendconnection.com/)

[https://www.theoctopusmovement.org/](https://www.theoctopusmovement.org/)

IFC: Sarasota Neurodivergent/Shy People Meetup

Scott Ehrenpreis

Spectrum Approach

Jackie Simmons

Hayley Hardy

Daelia Clemons

Carolyn Daniele

Shy and Neurodivergent Friendly Hangout

Starbucks

**Limited to 25 attendees. Open only to members who have attended a previous International Friend Connection event.**

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### 🚗 Logistics & Rules

* **Event details may change:** Check this event page for updates!
* **This is a strict RSVP event.** No-shows may be removed from future events.
* **Two non-alcoholic stops are included.**
* **Crane’s Pie Pantry:** We will *not* be dining in; just a quick stop at the bakery.

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### 🕙 Schedule & Carpool Info

* **Meet at Meijer (10:00am sharp) to carpool to Fennville.**
(See "How to Find Us" for the exact spot.)
* **SAFE DRIVERS NEEDED:**
* Comment if you can be a designated driver (DD) and how many seats are available.
* **Need a ride?** Comment under a driver’s post to reserve your seat.
* **First-timers:**
* Keep your RSVP up to date so we don’t accidentally leave anyone behind.
* Passengers: Please offer your DD gas money, snacks, or drinks as a thank you.

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### 🛑 Stops & Timing

#### **FENNVILLE**

* **Crane’s Pie Pantry Restaurant & Winery** (Bakery only; 9am–8pm)
6054 124th Ave (M-89), Fennville, MI 49408
* **Fenn Valley Vineyards** (11am–5pm)
6130 122nd Ave, Fennville, MI 49408
* **Modales Wines** (11am–8pm)
2128 62nd St, Fennville, MI 49408 *(we’ll call ahead)*
* **Michigan Wine Company** (11am–6pm)
6781 124th Ave, Fennville, MI 49408

#### **DOUGLAS**

* **Root Beer Barrel (Non-alcoholic option)**
501 W Center St, Douglas, MI 49406

#### **SAUGATUCK**

* **Saugatuck Brewing Company** (11:30am–11pm)
2948 Blue Star Hwy, Douglas, MI 49406
*Lunch here; large samplers available to split.*
* **Saugatuck Pharmacy Old Fashioned Soda Fountain** (Non-alcoholic; 9am–5pm)
201 Butler St, Saugatuck, MI 49453
*Runs parallel with Saugatuck Brewing—carpool option available. Parking in Saugatuck can be tricky!*

#### **HOLLAND**

*Some walking required in this section.*

* **Cherry Republic** (9am–9pm)
29 W 8th St, Holland, MI 49423
* **Holland Peanut Store** (10am–8pm)
46 E 8th St, Holland, MI 49423
* **Warner Vineyards Tasting Room** (12pm–7pm)
26 E 8th St, Holland, MI 49423
*Everyone meets here before leaving Holland. There’s a back-door parking lot!*

#### **DINNER – Hudsonville**

* **Hudsonville Winery**
3768 Chicago Dr, Hudsonville, MI 49426

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### 📝 Misc Notes

* Want to suggest another tasting room nearby? Message the organizer and we’ll see what’s possible.
* Please be respectful of our rules—no-shows, last-minute changes, or unsafe behavior may result in removal from future events.
* **Attendance is capped at 25. RSVP early to secure your spot!**

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**Let’s have a safe, fun, and memorable tour!**
Questions? Post in the comments or message the organizer.

West Michigan Geeks

Duncan MacLeod

Stacey

Matt

Stephanie

Steven T.

Sowmya 

Sonya Inderbitzin-Fischer

🍺 Red, Wine, and Beer! 4 City All Day Wine and Beer Tour 🍷

Meijer

Calling all newbies!

We're inviting members who are new to the group or have been to only a few events in the group to meet for conversation and bagels, smoothies, and/or coffee (again!). We understand that it can be intimidating to attend an event alone, especially if it's your first one, and that sometimes it feels like everyone already knows each other, so we want to provide a space to help newbies feel more comfortable and to get to know one another.

We'll meet at Terra Bagel in Eastown (not downtown) at 11:00a on Sunday 8/3. They have a selection of bagels, coffee, tea, and smoothies.

Please RSVP only if you've been to a few events in this group (excluding the recent newbies meetups).

[https://terrabagels.com](https://terrabagels.com)

All Things Social West Michigan 30's and 40's

Lauren

Tina

Amber Sanford

Noah Easton

Wendy Kao

Andrea

rolenpihl

Kelly Dykstra

Monica

derekmach90

Newbies Bagels & Coffee Meetup

Terra Bagels

International Friend Connection

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The International Friend Connection was founded in 2014 by David Good in Grand Rapids, Michigan. We are devoted to providing community for shy and neurodivergent people and helping people recover from social anxiety.

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