Toastmaster 429th meetup!(Empathic Listening)

This week's theme is "Empathic Listening"- How can we understand others really and truly? Are you a good listener?

If you have some problems with other people- your wife, husband, son, daughter, Mom and Dad, brothers & sisters, friend, etc, what do you usually say to them? We usually say like this- "You don't understand me!" or "I can't understand you!" I also sometimes don't understand my husband.^^ Why can't we understand others sometimes?