Waitlist: Straight Singles Matchmaking Mixer

-Concept for mixer is on meetup group page
-Details for mixer is on meetup event page ( see below )
-Mixer dating task/challenge will be given in person.

Final update for this event: The 5 Date Social Experiment

There will be no energy matchmaking. Even though I want it to be that way—to help people fast-track their experience and see growth on their love journey—most don’t have the capacity to receive all of that. The limited capacity to receive and feel love is a very human thing.

People are light, fun, insecure, scared, comfortable, and maybe even a bit shaped by online dating culture.

I have to meet that level of effort to help bring people out of their shells. Attending a mixer event like this is already a big step, and I applaud anyone who has mustered the courage to show up.

It’s a simple mixer event for singles, and only basic information is required:

• Name or alias
• Gender
• Age

(Participants will be divided into two age groups if there is a significant age gap.)

Event Date & Logistics

Date: April 12, 2026 @12:00pm

Location: Near Union Square (Exact address shared with confirmed attendees)

This event will take place once:

• 40 people join the waitlist, and

• At least 10 male and 10 female reply “yes” to the confirmation email sent one week before the event.

If these requirements are not met, the event will automatically move to the another date of the following month.

Safety Disclaimer
All events take place in public spaces such as cafés, food courts, malls, and other well-trafficked locations to ensure a safe and comfortable experience for everyone

The 5 Date Social Experiment

• Do You See Me - 1
• Open Mind x Heart - 2
• Accept Us Across All Parallel Universe - 3
• I Want It That Way (Trigger Happy) - 4
• Extreme Love and Desire - 5

Date 1 – Be a mysterious, emotionally available human.
Focus on presence, curiosity, and connection.
Let people experience who you are beyond labels (yes, even your job title).
Avoid status-driven questions like “What do you do?” or “Where do you live?” — relax, LinkedIn can wait.

Date 2 – Become LinkedIn in human form.
Perform status. Interrogate value. Rank and categorize.
What do your parents do? What do you do for work?
Do you own or rent—or are you “figuring it out”?
Assess them like an asset, a résumé, a potential merger.
Are they a smart investment… or a liability?
Play royalty seeking alliance—calculate, compare, judge.
Be polished. Be strategic. Be just a little unbearable.
Warning: Do not ask or reveal exact income—we are not filing taxes together (yet).
You may talk about household financial responsibilities (how you manage expenses, split costs, or approach money in daily life).
Notice how ridiculous this feels.

Date 3 – Plot twist: you’re both just humans.
Be honest about your experience so far.
Take off the entitlement mask (alpha/tough or beta/nice—yes, both are costumes).
Show vulnerability, sincerity, and authenticity.
Remember: you are equals—no thrones, no rankings.
Talk about your deepest fears (fun!) regarding this connection, your future, or your goals.
Reflect on your love patterns—your “type,” your habits, your emotional chaos.

Date 4 – Release your inner gremlin (lovingly).
Express your shadow self fully—or just be completely yourself, unfiltered, while doing the light dating challenge.
Say the thing. (Maybe not every thought… but close.)
Create space to talk things through and actually resolve something like adults.
Ask:
• How have I frustrated you?
• How have I annoyed you?

Practice patience when navigating conflict (yes, even when you’re right… or think you are).

Date 5 – Final boss level.
Experience separation… or oneness.
Do you choose the path of love… or the path of fear?
No pressure. Just your entire relational pattern on the line.

Reflection Questions After Each Date
After Date 1
Do you feel strong enough chemistry to be curious and interested in getting to know your match more?

After Date 2
Do you feel a strong enough connection to look beyond their façade?

After Date 3
Do you feel more love than friendship and feel ready to look into your own wounds and release triggers?

After Date 4
Do you feel ready to continue releasing and relieving wounds so you can receive love and see love more clearly?

After Date 5
Do you feel in love with your match, and able to give love, grow, and be the best version of yourself together?

Path A: Experience-Focused / Live-in-the-Moment
For singles who prefer to follow a natural flow and enjoy connection as it unfolds — with ease, fun, and presence. No pressure to go deep. Come as you are, enjoy the energy, and follow what feels good to you.

You prioritize:
• Comfort
• Authentic vibes (not the same as "being authentic")
• Living in the moment
• Letting things unfold organically

Path B: Growth-Oriented / Intention-Driven
For singles who enjoy exploring deeper emotional connection, vulnerability, and conscious love. These challenges allow one to learn love, see love, and to give and receive love.

You value:
• Personal growth/ Being authentic
• Emotional openness
• Expanding your capacity to love and receive love
• Going beyond comfort zones when it feels right

Recommendation
• Path A: Focus on Dates/Challenges 1–2 for connection, ease, and chemistry exploration.

• Path B: Explore all 5 Dates/challenges if you're excited about deeper connection and relational growth.

**This event page serves as a waitlist for anyone interested in attending. The official attendance list will be created one week before the event.

One week prior to the event, I will email everyone on the waitlist.

If you would like to attend, you must reply to that email with a “yes,” your name or alias, age and your gender in order to be added to the official attendance list. Once confirmed, I will send the exact event address to attendees only.

When you reply, please include:

• Your name or alias
• Gender male or female
• Age

Emails will be sent one week before the event. No information is required from you while on the waitlist.

Message my meetup inbox or
Email denimadoniasho@gmail.com
Call/text: 419-487-3413