The Relationship Secrets

We often spend an enormous amount of time trying to change people—explaining, persuading, accommodating, tolerating, hoping.

And most of the time, we call that effort love, loyalty, or patience.

This event is about doing something far more powerful:

Seeing the people in front of you clearly—and responding accordingly.
Drawing from three influential frameworks:

• Let Them by Mel Robbins
• Games People Play by Eric Berne
• How to Choose a Man: A Criminologist’s Guide

we’ll break down why people repeat the same patterns, how manipulation and “games” actually work, and why your job is not to fix, rescue, or convert anyone—but to accurately assess them.

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## What We’ll Explore

### 1. The “Let Them” Principle (Mel Robbins)

• Why letting people be who they are is not passive—it’s strategic
• How resistance to reality keeps people trapped in unhealthy dynamics
• The difference between acceptance and self-abandonment

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### 2. Games People Play (Eric Berne)

• What psychological “games” actually are
• How people unconsciously repeat scripts for power, validation, or control
• Why clarity ends games faster than confrontation

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### 3. Criminal Profiling & Relationship Vetting

• How to observe behavior instead of believing narratives
• Why patterns matter more than promises
• How people reveal their character under pressure, not comfort

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### 4. The Urge to Change People

• Why the desire to “help” often masks discomfort with reality
• How trying to change someone keeps you emotionally invested longer than you should be
• When effort is growth—and when it’s avoidance

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## Key Takeaways

You don’t need better communication with the wrong people.
You need better recognition.
This event is about:

• Reducing confusion
• Ending emotional games
• Building relationships based on reality, not hope

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## Event Format

• 45–60 minute presentation (frameworks, examples, profiling insights)
• 60–90 minute open Q&A + group discussion
• Optional post-event networking & Patreon continuation discussion

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## Who This Event Is For

• Anyone tired of repeating the same relationship patterns
• People who feel “confused” after interactions with certain individuals
• Those who want clarity without cynicism
• Anyone ready to stop negotiating with reality

Are you ready to take control of your love life with clarity, confidence, and strategy?

Join Terrance Findley, former Criminal Profiler and Lead Relationship Coach, for an eye-opening session where expert analysis meets real-world dating challenges. Alongside Ryan Assi, Relationship Engineer, you'll uncover the behavioral patterns that reveal someone's true intentions—so you can stop guessing and start choosing wisely.

This transformative event offers a rare glimpse into the psychology of dating—equipping you with tools to decode actions, not just words. Whether you’re recovering from past manipulation or looking to elevate your dating standards, this session is for you.

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### What You’ll Learn:

🔍 Behavioral Profiling – Detect red flags, subtle manipulation, and hidden motives before it’s too late.
💡 Compatibility Assessment – Learn how to evaluate someone’s long-term potential before giving your heart away.
💖 Genuine Love – Spot emotionally mature, commitment-ready individuals who are aligned with your values.

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### Who Should Attend?

✅ Those tired of dating games and ready for real connection
✅ Anyone who’s experienced manipulation and wants to break the cycle
✅ People seeking a serious, emotionally healthy partner
✅ Curious minds interested in the psychology of attraction and relationship dynamics

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📅 Saturday | Limited Spots Available – RSVP Now
💥 Learn how to date smarter—not harder—with proven methods backed by criminal profiling and relationship psychology.

### 🔥 Topics Include:

• Emotional Attachment: Why Timing Matters
• Choosing Character Over Chemistry
• The Power of Community in Partner Selection

👑 The Rules Have Changed — Are You Still Playing the Old Game?

In today’s dating environment—where mixed signals, short-term flings, and commitment confusion are the norm—most women are given surface-level advice and recycled tactics that fail with men who actually have long-term value.
That stops here.

Join Relationship Engineer Ryan Assi and Criminologist Terrance Findley for a focused 3-part live event series based on the first three chapters of their newly released book, How to Choose a Man: A Criminologist’s Guide.

This is not theory.
This is not pop psychology.
This is applied behavioral analysis.

Together, Ryan and Terrance bring over a decade of experience in social engineering, criminal profiling, and relationship strategy to break down how high-level men actually think, choose, and commit—without myths, manipulation, or fantasy.

### 📚 What This 3-Part Event Covers (Chapters 1–3):

The History of the Modern Male
Understand how cultural shifts, fatherlessness, career pressure, and unaddressed trauma have shaped today’s men—and why most dating advice fails to account for this reality.

The Incel vs Wincel Male Typology
Learn the critical behavioral and psychological differences between the Incel archetype (entitlement without development) and the Wincel archetype (self-regulated, quietly competent, and relationship-ready). This framework helps you identify resentment, stagnation, and hidden risk—while recognizing emotional stability, growth orientation, and long-term potential early.

The Focal Concerns of High-Level Men
Discover what emotionally and psychologically drives men in the top tier when selecting a long-term partner. It’s not just attraction—it’s signals, alignment, and long-range compatibility.

Strategic Advantage: Attraction Without Games
Learn where high-quality men are found, how to recognize them in real life, and how to present yourself with authenticity and edge—without chasing, performing, or negotiating your standards.

The principles taught apply across age ranges—from 25 to 55 and beyond. While life circumstances change, the underlying structure of the male psyche remains consistent. The inputs evolve; the operating system does not.

### 💡 Included With Registration:

• Select excerpts from How to Choose a Man: A Criminologist’s Guide
• Strategic worksheets and guided handouts tied to each session
• The How to Choose a Man Ebook Calendar — included free for all event participants, designed to help you apply the concepts daily with structure and clarity