About us
Welcome to Fabulous Gay Super Men Over 40
Curated by organiser Chris P, with the support of a passionate and experienced team of assistant organisers.
🌈 About the Group
This group brings together like-minded, social, and forward-thinking gay or bisexual men — primarily over 40 — who want to connect, explore, and enjoy Sydney (and beyond) in great company.
Whether you’re new to the city, looking to expand your social circle, or simply want to make new friends in a relaxed, welcoming environment — you’re in the right place.
📅 What We OffeR
We host three or more events every month, designed to provide variety, fun, and connection:
- Mid-week dinners at Sydney’s best value and most exciting restaurants
- A regular lunch series for casual, daytime socialising
- Scenic walks on weekends or evenings — easygoing and social
- Drinks events at bars, rooftops, and other relaxed venues
- Cultural outings including theatre, cabaret, exhibitions, and live shows
- Day trips (e.g., Cabramatta food tours, wine tastings, beach escapes)
- Weekend getaways for deeper connection and shared experiences
Events are rotated across different suburbs, and venues are always accessible by train, ferry, bus or light rail.
✅ Event Etiquette & Waitlists
- If an event is full, always join the Waitlist — spots often become available closer to the date.
- We send reminders to help members keep their RSVPs up to date.
- Regular no-shows without notice may receive a follow-up from the organisers.
💳 Payments
Most events are managed through TryBooking, which is simple, secure, and avoids PayPal fees.
Some smaller events may require payment via PayID, so it’s useful to have that set up in your banking app.
Cash payments are generally avoided.
👥 Group Expectations
To help keep the group welcoming, enjoyable, and respectful for everyone, we ask members to:
- Be friendly, inclusive, and respectful
- Act with integrity and kindness
- Stay open to new people and experiences
- Avoid promotion of services, businesses, or events without prior approval
- Engage in constructive and positive communication
- Challenge ideas respectfully — never individuals
🌏 Acknowledgement of Country
We acknowledge the Traditional Custodians of the land on which we meet and pay our respects to Elders past and present. We recognise that we gather on Aboriginal land.
Thanks for being here — we look forward to welcoming you at an upcoming event.
Questions? Feel free to message Chris P directly.
Warmly,
Chris and the Organising Team
(The organising committee reserves the right to accept or decline membership requests.)
Upcoming events
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2026 Xmas Celebration at the Beacham!
265 Oxford Street, 265 Oxford St, Darlinghurst NSW 2010, Australia, Darlinghurst, AU🎄 FAB OVER 40s CHRISTMAS PARTY 2026! 🎄
Celebrate Christmas with us at The Beecham!
📅 Saturday 12 December 2026
🕕 From 6:00pm
📍 The Beecham, Darlinghurst, SydneyIt’s time to celebrate another fabulous year with the Fab Over 40s! 🥂🌈
We’ve found our festive home at The Beecham, and you’re invited to join us for a wonderful evening of Christmas cheer, great company, laughter and friendship.Whether you’ve attended twenty events this year or this will be your very first, our Christmas party is the perfect opportunity to reconnect with friends, meet new people and celebrate everything that makes our group so special.
🎅 THE EVENING
🍸 6:00pm – Christmas drinks at The BeechamWe’ll start with a relaxed and festive gathering, with drinks available to purchase at the bar.
🍽️ Dinner at Bay Hong – Optional
We’re exploring the possibility of continuing the celebrations with a delicious Vietnamese dinner at nearby Bay Hong. Further details will follow.
🪩 Drinks and dancing afterwards
For those keen to keep the party going, we may head to The Oxford and Palms for some late-night festive fun!🎟️ BOOKINGS – $10 PER PERSON
A $10 contribution is required to secure your place at our Christmas celebration.
As many members know, Fab Over 40s is a community group run by volunteers, and there are annual costs involved in keeping our Meetup group operating.Your $10 contribution helps cover these ongoing costs, including our Meetup subscription, so we can continue bringing everyone together for fabulous events, outings and social gatherings throughout the year.
It’s a small contribution that makes a big difference in keeping our wonderful community going! ❤️We’ll also have some Christmas raffles, with proceeds helping support the group’s ongoing running costs.
Confirm your place here:
👉 https://www.trybooking.com/DQYOY
Please note: The $10 contribution supports the group and does not include food or drinks. Any drinks, meals or optional dinner arrangements are at your own expense.
If your plans change, please let us know so we can manage numbers.🌈 EVERYONE IS WELCOME!
Come solo, bring your partner or join a group of friends. New members are especially encouraged to attend.
Dress code: Festive, fabulous or whatever makes you feel comfortable. A little Christmas sparkle is always welcome! ✨
Let’s raise a glass to another amazing year of friendship, adventures and fabulous memories.We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
🎄🥂🌈58 attendees
Prada Clutch’s: All-Drag Xmas Revue
Souths Juniors, 558 Anzac Parade, Kingsford, AUDeck the Halls, Darlings!
Prada Clutch’s All-Drag Xmas Revue is coming to town — with a dash of naughty and a pinch of nice!
Flanked by gorgeous men, Australia’s six-foot-something songstress Prada Clutch and her dazzling showgirls pay tribute to the rich history of Aussie drag – in concert.Relive the golden era of Les Girls in the swinging ’60s, sing along to iconic disco hits, and sleigh into the festive season with show-stopping Christmas divas guaranteed to make the Yuletide extra gay!
With dazzling feathers, fabulous wigs, lavish headpieces, show-stopping costumes, and powerhouse performances, this is one Christmas drag spectacular you won’t forget!
Show details:
https://www.thejuniors.com.au/product/prada-clutchs-all-drag-xmas-revue/Buy your own ticket(s) via the above link. Also RSVP to this meetup event so that we know that you are coming. See you there!
It is mostly table seating - our table (Section C, Table 7) is now full, so try Section C Table 9, or then Table 8. (beware you have the right table as they use the same table number across the different sections)
We might also have dinner at Souths Junior prior to this event, will let you know in December!
Alex
21 attendees
Past events
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