
About us
We're shaking up the Bay Area social scene with Singles Mingle!
We have 4-10 events per month!
Join us at bars, breweries, and restaurants for fun, friendly mixers where you can meet local singles face-to-face—no swiping required.
THIS IS NOT SPEED DATING!
Whether you're looking to connect, make new friends, or just enjoy a great night out, our monthly events are the perfect place to start.
The only requirement to attend a Singles Mingle event is that you are single! 🥂 We welcome everyone, but we also believe in the power of true alignment and connection. To better serve our community, we have launched a dedicated chapter: Singles Mingle LGBTQ+. 🏳️🌈
If you feel that community would be a better fit for your journey, be sure to follow that group for specific events and updates! https://www.meetup.com/singlesminglelgbtq/
🎉 Free all-ages events
$10 age-specific mixers and $20 special events!
📍 Stay in the loop by following us on Meetup, social media, or visiting [SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com).
❤️ Donations are appreciated via Pledge on the "About" page or Venmo @Adeline-Farrer. Every dollar helps keep Singles Mingle alive and thriving.
Upcoming events
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Singles Mingle Halloween Eve @ Renaissance Hotel Walnut Creek 21+ FREE ENTRY!
Renaissance Walnut Creek Hotel, 2805 Jones Rd, Walnut Creek, CA 94597, USA, Walnut Creek, CA, US🎃👻 HALLOWEEN EVE SINGLES MINGLE — WALNUT CREEK! 👻🎃
We’re kicking off Halloween weekend with a Halloween Eve Singles Mingle PRIVATE PARTY at Citrus Fresh Grill, inside the Renaissance Hotel & Bay Club! 🥂🕸️
I’ve booked the entire restaurant AND outdoor patio, so come ready for a huge indoor/outdoor night of mingling, costumes, cocktails, prizes, and Halloween fun!### 🎃 THE GAME PLAN 🎃
- 📅 When: Friday, October 30th
- ⏰ Time: 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM
- 📍 Where: Citrus Fresh Grill | 2805 Jones Rd, Walnut Creek
- 🎟️ Entry: FREE | 21 & Up
- 🚗 Parking: First 3 hours are FREE!
- 🍹 Food & Drinks: Available for purchase with multiple bars open! Cashless venue — cards only
- 👻 Costume Contest: Come dressed to impress—or scare!
- 🎟️ Raffles & Prizes: We’ll have some Halloween surprises throughout the night!
### 🧛 COSTUMES HIGHLY ENCOURAGED!
It’s Halloween Eve, so have some fun with it! Costumes are highly encouraged but not required. Go funny, scary, sexy, creative, ridiculous, glamorous—whatever fits your personality! 😂🎃
We’ll be having a COSTUME CONTEST, so if you’ve been waiting for an excuse to go all out, this is it!### 🕸️ UPON ARRIVAL
Grab your Singles Mingle wristband and icebreaker game at the entrance so everyone knows you’re part of the party. Look for the Singles Mingle check-in area at the entrance—you won’t miss us!
No RSVP required, but RSVPs are definitely appreciated!
Come single, come festive, and come ready to mingle! 🎃🥂👻
Halloween weekend starts HERE! 🕸️🦇This event is free! No RSVP or ticket required and bring as many guests as you'd like!
READ AGE INFO BELOW!
READ RATIO INFO BELOW!
READ RATING INFO BELOW!Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).RSVP Note: Please note that RSVPs are not required.
Feel free to bring friends and simply show up – no tickets or RSVP needed. FREE ALL AGES (21+) EVENT.A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS
Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
**www.singlesmingleca.com**252 attendees
Singles Mingle HALLOWEEN @ Brittania Arms in Almaden 21+ FREE ENTRY!
Britannia Arms Almaden, 5027 Almaden Expy, San Jose, CA 95118, USA, San Jose, CA, US🎃👻 HALLOWEEN NIGHT SINGLES MINGLE — SAN JOSE! 👻🎃
Singles, we’re heading back to Britannia Arms (Almaden) for HALLOWEEN! Get ready for a huge night of costumes, cocktails, mingling, DJ music, and dancing! 🕺💃🕸️
📅 Saturday, October 31st
🕖 Singles Mingle Check-In: 7–10 PM
🎟️ FREE ENTRY | 21 & Up — Read age info below!
🎭 COSTUMES HIGHLY ENCOURAGED!
🍹 Happy Hour Specials on food and drinks
🎶 DJ FUSE
💃 Dancing as the night gets going!
🎲 Singles Mingle Icebreaker Game
Singles Mingle check-in will be stationed OUTSIDE! When you arrive, stop by to grab your wristband AND icebreaker game. The wristband makes it easy to identify other Singles Mingle attendees, and the icebreaker gives you the perfect excuse to start some conversations!
Wristband and icebreaker distribution will be from 7–10 PM, but the Halloween party continues afterward!🕷️ WHAT TO EXPECT: This is going to be a LOUD, lively, FULL-HOUSE Halloween party! If you’re looking for a quiet little mixer... this probably isn’t the one. 😂 Come ready for a packed house, music, dancing, costumes, and lots of energy!
🚗 PARKING: Halloween night is expected to be busy, and parking may become difficult as the evening goes on. Arrive on time if you can!
👻 Costumes are highly encouraged but not required. Go scary, funny, sexy, creative, ridiculous, or completely over the top—it’s HALLOWEEN! 🎃
Come single. Come dressed up. Come ready to PARTY! 👻🍻🎶READ AGE INFO BELOW!
READ RATIO INFO BELOW!
READ RATING INFO BELOW!Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).RSVP Note: Please note that RSVPs are not required.
Feel free to bring friends and simply show up – no tickets or RSVP needed. FREE ALL AGES (21+) EVENT.A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS
Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
**www.singlesmingleca.com**189 attendees
Singles Mingle @ Dave and Busters in Concord 21+ FREE ENTRY!
Dave & Buster's Concord - USA, 2075 Diamond Blvd Ste. H180, Concord, CA 94520, USA, Concord, CA, USWe’re heading to Dave & Buster’s in Concord for a MASSIVE FREE 21 & Up Singles Mingle! 🎉❤️
We’ll have our own huge private event space to mix and mingle, while still having access to everything Dave & Buster’s has to offer!
🍹 Full bar & drinks available for purchase
🍔 Tons of food options
🎮 Games & entertainment
❤️ 21 & Up
🎟️ FREE ENTRY
🥳 Private event space
NO TICKET OR RSVP REQUIRED! Just show up, find the Singles Mingle check-in, grab your wristband, and come have an awesome time with us at this new venue!
I’m excited for this one! ❤️❤️ AGE INFO
This event is for ages 21 and up!
If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend.
Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.Be sure to locate the host upon arrival and receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!
NO RSVP REQUIRED! JUST SHOW UP AND JOIN THE PARTY!Check-in information: Arrive between 6pm-9pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 6pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available. Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/) and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!91 attendees
Singles Mingle @ Cali Club in Berkeley 21+ FREE ENTRY!
Club Cali Berkeley, 2367 Telegraph Ave, Berkeley, CA 94704, USA, Berkeley, CA, USCome join us for Singles Mingle @ Cali Club on Saturday, November 7th!
Cali Club in Berkeley offers a spacious downstairs entertainment area with comfy couches, pool table, giant Connect Four, TVs, food and drinks. This is a unique spot and we enjoyed it the first 3 times around, so lets do it again!- Check-in: 7–10pm
- Wristbands provided
- Icebreaker game
- Free entry
- Food and drinks available for purchase
Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Check-in information: Arrive whenever you'd like but wristband and icebreaker distribution is only from 7pm-10pm. After 10pm, the party will continue but the wristbands will be no longer available. Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.
Be sure to locate the host upon arrival and receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!
NO RSVP REQUIRED! JUST SHOW UP AND JOIN THE PARTY!A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS
Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/) and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!77 attendees
Past events
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