About us
Dearest Friends,
Imagine dating in a world where you can feel free to be who you are, be attracted to whoever you’re attracted to, and even have your feelings returned. We are creating that world together right here and now with Singles Mingle LGBTQ. When there isn’t always a place for queer people trying to find love, we make one because we care.
We are a branch of Singles Mingle and will operate similarly to it. This means we will aim to have at least a few events each month at local bars, breweries, or restaurants. This is in no way a replacement of Singles Mingle, it is simply a joint effort to hold a safe and welcoming environment for the LGBTQ community to get together and mingle as well in a more compatible setting. This group exists to support the LGBTQ community in its dating endeavors by creating genuine opportunities for members to find their person. We’re aiming for social and casual vibes. Event by event, we will mold and form this new community together into one of acceptance, hope, and action.
We welcome members with any form of same-sex attraction regardless of their age or gender, and we hope this space we create together continues to grow and thrive. Depending on the amount of members and RSVPs we get, we’re looking at having in-person events very similar to those of Singles Mingle. We are open to feedback and ideas, as we’re all in this together.
Some ground rules that we operate based on are showing respect for one another, being sincere in your pursuits, and staying open to the experience. Needless to say, there is no tolerance for bullies. So, if you see something or hear something, please say something for the sake of everyone else.
Donations to help this group run smoothly are always welcome. Details about that to come, as this is not our main focus right now. Right now, we’re trying to launch a group that is accepting and welcoming with as few barriers as possible for you to come out and see what we can do together. Eventually as the group grows, we may require RSVPs for certain events to ensure that all attendees are intentional and sincere about the process. For now, please come on out and be a part of our budding community!
We’re so excited to launch this new chapter and would love to see you at our first few events:
- DecoDance in SF on Saturday 4/18 from 7pm-10pm
- Oakland United in Oakland on Saturday 5/2 from 4pm-7pm
- Cellarmaker Brewery in Berkeley on Sunday 6/14 2pm-5pm
Save the dates and see you there :)
Warmly,
Cordy (with the support of Adeline)
Upcoming events
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Singles Mingle LGBTQ+ @Oakland United 5/2
Oakland United Beerworks, 262 2nd Street, Oakland, CA, USHey Singles!
We're meeting up again and this time at Oakland United!
FREE ENTRY! NO RSVP REQUIRED! JUST SHOW UP!✨ What to Expect:
- A private upstairs mingling area with a view of the brewing process!
- Icebreaker game to get the connections started!
- Easy parking and plenty of local singles ready to mingle!
Check-in is 4pm-7pm but the event continues until closing (9pm).
Come check out this hidden gem and enjoy a laid-back evening of drinks, food and great company! 🙂
Upon entry you’ll see us! Look for Singles Mingle shirts :)
Whether you're looking for love, friendship, community or looking to support the cause, everyone in the LGBTQ+ community and our allies are welcome. Let’s get off the apps and back to meeting face-to-face!
Note: This isn't a private party, but your wristband makes it easy to spot fellow minglers, plus we'll be in our own private upstairs area!
💌 Want to volunteer? DM Cordy to help us make this night unforgettable!
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are not included with the free entry. They are available for purchase.
Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[[[[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/)]9 attendees
Past events
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