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Welcome to the Melbourne 40+ gay men support group! My name is Steven Cabral and I am a trained group facilitator and counsellor. The idea for this support group was born out of a gap in community service that I observed where mature aged gay men could share and relate to each other in midlife. I found that most of the services seem geared towards the younger generation and rightly so, but I feel there is a particular experience in middle age and onwards that needs to be honoured, supported, and acknowledged. As we transition into a different phase of life, we are faced with a different set of challenges. It is my belief, from my own experience, that some of these are directly, but not exclusively, tied to our sexuality and that can influence self-actualisation later in life in various ways. Some of us may be carrying trauma from a time where we weren't as readily accepted. This may be seeping through other areas of our life and affecting our beliefs of self-worth and love, completely unbeknownst to us. Some of us may be feeling alone at this phase in our lives because we didn't follow the well worn societal map followed by the majority; such as having kids and partners. As a result, we may feel alone in a peer groups or especially within our own families. Some of us may simply be struggling to navigate this new phase and all that it entails ranging from dating in middle age to bigger questions of how to find meaning and purpose in our lives. Some of us may be dealing with grief. If any of this resonates with you, then I want you to know that you are not alone. My hope for the group is that you feel a sense of belonging and shared experience. That, in of itself, can be extremely healing. The group is not a substitute for therapy, but a safe space to share and connect with others on a similar journey and to find and give inspiration. The group is specifically targeted to gay men who are aged 40+ due to the topics covered. Due to the limitations of the space and the need to keep it intimate, there is a maximum of 10 attendees. Venue: Sussex Neighbourhood House Inc. 7 Prospect St, Pascoe Vale VIC 3044 Date/Times: Once a month on Mondays 7:30pm - 9:00pm \*\* Door will be closed 5 mins after group starts so as not to disrupt the group. Booking a spot in group: If it is fully booked, please ALWAYS go on Wait List - the app automatically gives you a spot as soon as someone drops out. I will reminding RSVP'd attendees to change their RSVPs to *Not Going* if they are no longer going, so that those on the Wait List get their place. If you regularly don't show up and don't let me know - I will be in contact to see if there are any issues. Fees: FREE - This is a once off event in consideration for this weeks group not running as anticipated. Guidelines: An opening creed will be read at the beginning of each group session. It is paramount though that ALL attendees feel safe, welcomed and respected at ALL times. The group acknowledges the traditional owners of the land and I'd also like to extend that acknowledgement to those with lived experience of mental health challenges. Thank you so much for reading this far - I look forward to meeting you in person. Remember, it only takes a baby step to start change. Please message me directly with any questions. Steven Cabral.

Have you ever experienced a relationship that has soured into bitter or unresolved conflict? Have you ever attempted to connect with someone and seen your efforts come to nothing? What if you could resolve any upset and restore harmony? What if you could build positive relationships that last? The knowledge you will learn about today relates not just to your intimate relationships but all your relationships IE: Kids. Parents, Siblings, Friends, Boss, Colleagues, Ex Partners etc http://photos2.meetupstatic.com/photos/event/b/9/a/b/600_455267531.jpeg You Can The secret to successful relationships depends upon knowing what underlies all human relations, and nothing teaches you that basic foundation better than what is covered in this Meetup! Relationships Determine Your Happiness And Success For some people, creating and sustaining meaningful relationships is effortless, but for many others, it is a complex struggle that poses significant challenges. Whether your focus is on intimate relationships, friendships, or professional business relationships, there are certain fundamentals that make a relationship more meaningful and long-lasting. At the Meetup you will learn about: • How to start new relationships • The 3 basic components of understanding • How to resolve conflicts • How to improve any past relationships that have gone sour • The two rules for happy living • How to build strong and lasting relationships Take control of your relationships! Attend this free Class. FREE entry, Free Parking. This free class is open to all people of goodwill and is held at the Life Improvement Center. Our meetup classes contain knowledge that is universal and apply to all the worlds people. They contain TOOLS for life.

**Toorak Toastmasters** was established via charter in Toorak, Victoria on May 22, 2015. We meet on the **2nd & 4th** Monday of each month. 6.50 pm for a 7.00 pm start. Please be on time for the meeting. Our meetings are held at Grattan Gardens Community Centre (GGCC), 40 Grattan St, Prahran. The atmosphere is informal allowing you to work on developing your speaking skills in a non-threatening environment. **What you will have a taste of:** * **Prepared Speeches**: Deliver speeches on topics you’re passionate about (Members only) * **Impromptu Speaking**: Practice thinking on your feet with quick, fun impromptu speaking for 1 - 2min. * **Constructive Feedback**: Receive valuable tips to help you improve, delivered in a positive, encouraging way. * **Leadership Roles**: Take turns leading the meeting, which helps you refine your organizational and leadership abilities. Come as a guest and get a feel of Toastmasters and our club TODAY! This is a safe and respectful space. We have a code of conduct, and harassment or inappropriate behaviour will not be tolerated. We are looking forward to seeing you soon!

**The Secret To Building Lasting Relationships** Have you ever experienced a relatio ship that soured into bitter or unresolved co ict? Have you ever attempted to connect with Someone and seen your efforts come to nothing? What if you could resolve any upset and restore harmony? What if you could build positive relationships that last? **Relationships Determine Your Happiness And Success** For some people, creating and sustaining meaningful relationships is effortless, but for many others, it is a complex struggle that poses significant challenges. Whether your focus is on intimate relationships, friendships, or professional business relationships, there are certain fundamentals that make any relationship more meaningful and long-lasting. On this meetup you will learn some of the vital breakthroughs about the inner workings of human relations and how to confidently build lasting and rewarding relationships with anyone around you. Your happiness is connected to your ability to connect with others. Attend this meetup and positively transform your relationships with others. Please ask for Pam. If this time and date is not suited to you SMS Pam on 0405 648 822

Join us at Keilor Basketball and Netball Stadium, Keilor Park for a fun-filled Walking Football Session, brought to you by Walking Football 4 Health Victoria. This event is designed for anyone looking for a low impact sport to stay active, be part of a welcoming community, and most importantly have fun. Our friendly host Ashley will be there to introduce you to walking football, ensuring a safe and engaging experience. Don't miss out on this opportunity to engage in sports, socialise, and promote a healthy lifestyle in a welcoming community environment. Enjoy your first session on us — absolutely free! After that, it's just $5.60 per session. Sign up now and be a part of this exciting Walking Football Session. If you wish to contact the organiser, Mick directly, you can do so on: 0430 163 550 Email: info@wf4hvictoria.org.au Website: [Walking Football | Walking Soccer | Walking Football 4 Health](https://wf4hvictoria.org.au/) Facebook Community: [https://www.facebook.com/groups/wf4healthvictoria/](https://www.facebook.com/groups/wf4healthvictoria/)

theWould you like to know the true cause of DEPRESSION? Would you like to be the best version of yourself? The truth is, there is a reason why we get overwhelmed with these emotions of feeling depressed and alone and feeling as though life is too hard to cope with. In this seminar, you will learn the following: * The discovery of and complete anatomy of the Reactive Mind. * The painful experiences, or engrams, contained in the Reactive Mind command one to act irrationally against their own wishes and goals. * The complete procedure to discover and eradicate these harmful experiences so they never affect you again, revealing the one person you've always wanted to know. You.

Join Queer Meditation Melbourne for an evening of self-exploration and mindfulness in a safe and inclusive space. Start the event with a guided meditation session focused on promoting wellness, positive thinking, and spiritual growth. Connect with like-minded individuals from the LGBT community and enjoy meaningful conversations that nurture self-empowerment and consciousness. After the meditation practice, we will engage in social activities, promoting healthy living and dining out experiences. This event is designed for gay men and gay and lesbian friends who are looking to nurture their spiritual journey while building connections within the community. Come together to foster a sense of belonging and support each other in a space that celebrates diversity and self-care.

Join us for an exclusive evening of networking with Melbourne’s legal, accounting, finance, and business professionals at 30ML Bar & Eatery. Whether you're a lawyer, accountant, consultant, business owner, graduate, or entrepreneur, this event is the perfect opportunity to meet ambitious and like-minded professionals in a relaxed and sophisticated setting. Enjoy great conversations, expand your professional circle, and connect with people across different industries — all while enjoying Melbourne waterfront vibes. ✨ Free Entry 🍸 Food & drinks available for purchase at the bar 📍 30ML Bar & Eatery, Docklands 📅 Friday, 29 May 2026 ⏰ 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM **Dress**: Smart Casual / Business Come solo or bring colleagues and friends — networking should feel natural, social, and enjoyable. ***Because the best opportunities often start with a conversation.***

**Come down to Elwood - Johnny’s Coffee Roasters at 9.30am on a Sunday for a morning cuppa and a relaxed chat.** **The agenda is relaxed and centred around building connection and having a yarn. Meet others walking the same path as you and share some stories. Wherever you’re at in your separation & divorce journey - you’re welcome to come along!** **Hosted by Deena - Certified Divorce Coach & former Family Lawyer.**

Are you curious about the big questions of life? Do you want to explore faith in a welcoming and informal environment? Then Alpha is for you! So come and join us. Alpha is a series of interactive sessions where you can explore life, faith and meaning. It's a safe and honest space to ask questions, share your thoughts, and hear from others. It's for anyone interested in Christianity, having a meal together, and meeting new people. ## **What to Expect:** **Engaging Discussions:** Each session includes a short talk followed by small group table discussions. **A Variety of Topics:** Alpha explores the big issues of life and faith, unpacking the basics of Christian belief by addressing questions such as "Who is Jesus?", "Why and how do I pray?" and "How does God guide us?" **A Friendly Atmosphere:** Alpha is designed to be relaxed and welcoming. You can be yourself, no matter what your background or beliefs. **Dinner:** A meal prepared by our church’s catering volunteers, that we share together. **Join us for Alpha at St. Mark's Camberwell!** Tuesdays at 7pm, commencing 28 April 2026. [Register here](https://forms.office.com/Pages/ResponsePage.aspx?id=9r3PBGz-kkasQqOvGjXhMyq2H9N8c6lCpo34qB3zflFUQzRMWThKS09HSUNTNDdZT0JJVjZET1pJVi4u)

**Bridging the Planet Gap** ### *An Exclusive Pre‑Launch Transformative Educational Experience for Singles* **Sun 31 May • 4–6pm • The Tower Hotel, East Hawthorn** A boutique facilitated event for singles who value humour, depth and conscious connection. If you’re tired of the apps, awkward small talk, being single or feeling misunderstood by the opposite sex, this ***pre‑launch event*** (with socialising afterwards), offers something completely different. This is **not** speed‑dating. It’s **not** therapy. It’s an **educational, insightful group experience** designed to help men and women understand each others wants and needs more deeply - in a way that feels safe, fun, and surprisingly easy. *"Until you make the unconscious conscious it will direct your life and you will call it fate"- Carl Jung* **BOOK NOW. LIMIITED SPACES.** **Pre‑Launch discount (Feedback Event)** * **Solo ticket: $30** * **Bring a friend (of the opposite sex): Ony $25 each** *\*This event is **heavily discounted** in exchange for your feedback* **BOOKING LINK**: [https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/1989809975200?aff=oddtdtcreator](https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/1989809975200?aff=oddtdtcreator "https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/1989809975200?aff=oddtdtcreator") **What You’ll Experience** You’ll move through a series of **short, facilitated exercises and conversations** that are: * fun * insightful * easy to participate in * completely optional There is **no obligation to speak** at any time. You can participate silently or engage at your own pace. **This experience is crafted to help you:** * understand the opposite sex in a clearer, more grounded way * notice your own patterns and responses * relax your nervous system so your personality can shine * connect naturally with others * feel more confident and at ease in social and dating contexts This is a **light, fast‑moving, educational experience** that will leave you feeling more aware, more connected, and more confident about modern day dating and relationships. **Why We’re Doing This** Because singles today are navigating: * mixed signals * outdated myths and stories about men, women, dating and relationships * confusion around roles, boundaries and expectations * emotional fatigue from apps, speed dating and small talk events * fear of rejection due to past hurts and miscommunication **This event helps you:** * expand your confidence and self‑worth * strengthen communication skills * understand masculine & feminine dynamics * release old patterns that sabotage connection and love * get clear on your wants, needs and boundaries * rebuild trust between the sexes * learn a new modern dating and relating model **Who This Event Is For** * Singles 30+ (all ages) * Curious, conscious, open‑minded individuals * People who want meaningful connection, not small talk * Relationship‑minded men and women * Heterosexual singles * Aim: **Equal numbers of men and women. (Bookings required) BOOKING LINK**: [https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/1989809975200?aff=oddtdtcreator](https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/1989809975200?aff=oddtdtcreator) **If you’re ready to learn, grow and connect in a whole new way, we would love you to join us.** *Love & light,* *Jane Roder* *International Author Sex & Relationship Counsellor* ***www.janeroder.com info@janeroder.com 0411 300 627***

This is a free, in-person meeting on the subject of betrayals, losses and how to get over them so you can build lasting relationships. Burdened by a stressful relationship? Unhealthy relationships can trigger feelings of anger, despair or self-doubt. They can create dwindling spirals of fights and seeking to make-up, or trying to “pin the blame” on someone or something. If you don’t find the RIGHT reasons, or select the correct sources of the problem, the problem can just get worse and worse. Whether in love or personal ties, with friends or at work, our life really IS affected by the quality of our relationships. Good ones can promote pleasure and survival while less optimum ones can lead to annoyance, anger, self-doubt, stress, or even affect our health and ability to survive well. Whether you are suffering from a divorce, or a painful break-up, don’t know who to trust (or who to CHOOSE) as a partner, friend, boss or employee - the anxiety of relationship troubles can really make a mess of things. Maybe you’ve suffered a betrayal, or are dealing with hostility or criticalness or invalidation. Dwindling relationships can involve destructive behavior, where we hurt those we love, or start succumbing to self-destructive thoughts, attitudes or behaviors that spiral out of control and affect much more than our immediate relationship. Past losses in love or life can affect how we act or react to new people and situations and hold us back from even starting to create new, possibly great relationships! How can one get back onto a saner course of action? Come to our Meetup, where we can introduce you to some of the knowledge, tools and techniques of the breakthroughs in the field of the mind that we can apply to this ever important area of life: human relationships! Break free from self imposed limitations Here we will discuss: • How to “erase” the trauma of past hurts and betrayals so that one isn’t always repeating past mistakes. • Why and how do the negative emotions of others affect you? • Why is my partner withdrawing and what can I do about it? • Why do we sometimes feel compelled to hurt the ones we love? • Fights & arguments - what's really behind them? • What underlies “corrosive criticism” or the need to invalidate self or others? • How one can stably change one’s outlook on life so they can affect positive change? • Where do compulsive destructive behaviors come from and what can be done about them? • How to form closer bonds & keep growing the relationships with the people you care about? • How to enhance one’s own ability to survive and create positive healthy relationships whether in love, family & friendships or in work, business or one’s career? Relationships can be hard and life itself IS challenging. Why not arm yourself with the knowledge and breakthroughs that have been made about the mind, mental reactions & interpersonal relationships, so that one has better awareness and control over themselves and life in general. Learn where painful experiences are “stored” and how they can unknowingly affect us. You will also find out how one can “erase” those past painful experiences so that one is free to move forward without being tripped up by the past. Learn too, about what can lead some people to become “toxic” personalities and how to identify those traits in others so you won’t be tripped up trusting the wrong person. Our free Meet-ups occur in a safe environment where one can learn, without fear of judgment or criticism, and without the recommendation of harmful mental techniques or therapies, just how YOU can get yourself onto a happier & more successful path: in love & in life. We look forward to having you join us! This class is sponsored by the Dianetics & Scientology Life Improvement Center of Central Ohio.

The number of ticks and tick diseases in Ohio have quickly multiplied over the last 10 years. Dean Kreager discusses tick species, tick pathogens, tick-borne diseases, tick bite prevention, and proper tick removal. Kreager is an Agriculture and Natural Resources Educator with OSU Extension in Licking County * Lakewood Public Library (in Hebron)- May 26 at 7pm [https://events.lickingcountylibrary.org/event/tick-talk-29621](https://events.lickingcountylibrary.org/event/tick-talk-29621) * Johnstown public library at 7:00 pm June 8 [https://events.lickingcountylibrary.org/event/ctick-talk-29622](https://events.lickingcountylibrary.org/event/ctick-talk-29622) Free to attend, no RSVP needed

Let's talk about relationships in such a way that you can really benefit from the knowledge. We can talk about * Soulmates * How to start a relationship * How to maintain a relationship * How to pick the right partner * How to recognize the red flags * How to improve communication * How to avoid argument and fights * How to increase trust You ask the questions, we'll talk about them. Be sure to click on the red "Attend" button below to come to this local event. We look forward to seeing you there. This group is sponsored the Dianetics & Scientology Self-Improvement Center.

We may pick a specific topic and post in advance or may discuss current events and various ad hoc topics . We would love to spend time hanging out and getting to know one another. Atheist, agnostics, other non-theists, and atheist-friendly people are welcome to join us. Note: COUNT operates a Facebook page at www.facebook.com/groups/COUNT.discussions (http://www.facebook.com/groups/COUNT.discussions/) to promote discussions among members and visitors.

On a list of "My Favorite Things", few people would put a "break up" in their top ten. More often, these words evoke feelings of shame, embarrassment, poor choices, and bad or sad endings. Before the new and beautiful can be built, the old, broken, and unnecessary must be cleared away. This process can be painful, but it is good, needful, and can produce wonderful results when done wisely and well. How does one break free from anxiety, comparison, or shame? Christian Bevere points people to the freedom God desires for His children, as well as giving practical ideas on how to shed both unhealthy baggage and the lies that seek to leave us anchored to past failure. Drawing from the Bible, ***Break Up With What Broke You*** clearly shows that what Satan would seek to use for evil, God uses for good and to accomplish His purposes. Join us **Tuesday, June 2, 2026, at 6:30 pm**, when we gather at **True Food Kitchen, Easton Town Center, Columbus**. We'd love to see you there! Get your tickets on [EventBrite](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-with-what-broke-you-columbus-ohio-tickets-1987018079565)! Check us out on [Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/events/1431801124815007/)!

Some trained COUNT volunteers work together once a month at RMH (http://www.rmhc-centralohio.org/volunteer.php) as Housewarmers (usually on the 1st Sunday from 1 – 5 PM). Some schedule other shifts at their convenience. You may try this out with less fuss by following a "Fast track" or go through the normal process. Fast track • Arrange a time to shadow a COUNT volunteer. Call Dave Nohle at 614-268-9558 (cell). • Show up and try it out. • Complete application, etc. later. Normal process • Complete an online application (http://rmhc-centralohio.org/volunteer/). • Attend orientation in advance. • At orientation you will complete forms agreeing to keep family/patient info private and allowing a background check and tour the facility. • Complete one training shift. Daily shifts are: morning 9 AM - 1 PM, afternoon 1 - 5 PM and evening 5 - 9 PM. • Schedule shifts online using the on the RMH scheduling system (http://www.volgistics.com/ex/portal.dll/?FROM=32895). The Ronald McDonald House (RMH) provides housing and meals for families with sick children. The Columbus RMH is the largest in the world with 137 rooms. COUNT has been volunteering there since May 2014. Housewarmers work with RMH guests to provide a home-like environment - greet, assist with family needs, answer phones, give tours, assist with checkin/checkout, prepare guest rooms after checkout, clean facility, laundry, restock supplies and staff the front desk. RMH Housewarmers volunteer at least one four-hour shift a month. All Housewarmers must complete an application and agree to a background check before they can be full fledged volunteers.

Attend a free seminar on how to have successful and lasting relationships. At this seminar you will learn: How to spot and handle negative and toxic relationships. How to get through the "rough patches" in a relationship. How to choose the right people to work with. The three things that make or break any relationship. How to make a good relationship great. All are welcome. Be sure to click on the red "Attend" button below to come to this local event. We look forward to seeing you there. Hosted by the Dianetics and Scientology Life Improvement Center of Central Ohio.