

About us
We part of the non-partisan International Friend Connection network. Our goal is simple: helping people make friends in the real world.
This local group is for adults who are shy, socially anxious, introverted, lonely or feel left out.
This group is meant to be a calm place to reconnect with the real world, meet friendly people and slowly become more comfortable being around others again.
You do not have to be outgoing. You do not have to talk the whole time. You can come nervous, quiet or unsure what to say. Many regulars started that way.
Our events may include things like coloring, games, coffee, movies, meals and quiet conversation. The goal is simple: give people a safe enough place to keep showing up until familiar faces become friends.
To protect group members, hosts may step in if behavior becomes unsafe, disruptive, harassing, coercive or inappropriate for the venue or purpose of the group. We follow Meetup’s Community Guidelines.
Nobody under 18 is allowed to attend as per Meetup's guidelines.
Upcoming events
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🧑🎨 The Shy-Friendly Hangout: Bring Coloring, Activities, & Meet New Friends
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USOur events are free to attend. We use Meetup only as our RSVP system. Meetup may show new users an optional Meetup+ offer during signup, but Meetup+ is not required to RSVP or attend. If you see that screen, choose “Continue with free plan.” Any Meetup+ payment goes to Meetup, not to International Friend Connection or the event host.
This event at Schuler Books Cafe is a calm, low-pressure space for shy, socially anxious, introverted or lonely people to reconnect with the real world.
Bring coloring books, art supplies, knitting, card games, a Nintendo Switch or any quiet activity that helps you feel comfortable. Having something to focus on makes it much easier to be around people.
No group introductions are required. You can talk, listen, color, play a game or ease in at your own pace.Many people come once and feel disappointed they did not make close friends right away. The people who keep showing up usually end up making friends over time.
Look for the Meetup sign in the cafe area.
Disclaimer:
Everyone is welcome, and we're committed to maintaining a safe, respectful environment in line with Meetup's conduct policy (https://meetu.ps/3kzYxt)We are not able to allow people under 18 to attend but we have classes for educators wishing to start a group in their schools.
Please note that things may change as we grow. We are grateful to everyone who comes to have a chill and relaxing time.
PS. We have other chapters in other areas of the country and world. Let us know if you travel. You may have a group of friends waiting to show you around!
6 attendees
🧑🎨 The Shy-Friendly Hangout: Bring Coloring, Activities, & Meet New Friends
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USOur events are free to attend. We use Meetup only as our RSVP system. Meetup may show new users an optional Meetup+ offer during signup, but Meetup+ is not required to RSVP or attend. If you see that screen, choose “Continue with free plan.” Any Meetup+ payment goes to Meetup, not to International Friend Connection or the event host.
This event at Schuler Books Cafe is a calm, low-pressure space for shy, socially anxious, introverted or lonely people to reconnect with the real world.
Bring coloring books, art supplies, knitting, card games, a Nintendo Switch or any quiet activity that helps you feel comfortable. Having something to focus on makes it much easier to be around people.
No group introductions are required. You can talk, listen, color, play a game or ease in at your own pace.Many people come once and feel disappointed they did not make close friends right away. The people who keep showing up usually end up making friends over time.
Look for the Meetup sign in the cafe area.
Disclaimer:
Everyone is welcome, and we're committed to maintaining a safe, respectful environment in line with Meetup's conduct policy (https://meetu.ps/3kzYxt)We are not able to allow people under 18 to attend but we have classes for educators wishing to start a group in their schools.
Please note that things may change as we grow. We are grateful to everyone who comes to have a chill and relaxing time.
PS. We have other chapters in other areas of the country and world. Let us know if you travel. You may have a group of friends waiting to show you around!
2 attendees
🧑🎨 The Shy-Friendly Hangout: Bring Coloring, Activities, & Meet New Friends
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USOur events are free to attend. We use Meetup only as our RSVP system. Meetup may show new users an optional Meetup+ offer during signup, but Meetup+ is not required to RSVP or attend. If you see that screen, choose “Continue with free plan.” Any Meetup+ payment goes to Meetup, not to International Friend Connection or the event host.
This event at Schuler Books Cafe is a calm, low-pressure space for shy, socially anxious, introverted or lonely people to reconnect with the real world.
Bring coloring books, art supplies, knitting, card games, a Nintendo Switch or any quiet activity that helps you feel comfortable. Having something to focus on makes it much easier to be around people.
No group introductions are required. You can talk, listen, color, play a game or ease in at your own pace.Many people come once and feel disappointed they did not make close friends right away. The people who keep showing up usually end up making friends over time.
Look for the Meetup sign in the cafe area.
Disclaimer:
Everyone is welcome, and we're committed to maintaining a safe, respectful environment in line with Meetup's conduct policy (https://meetu.ps/3kzYxt)We are not able to allow people under 18 to attend but we have classes for educators wishing to start a group in their schools.
Please note that things may change as we grow. We are grateful to everyone who comes to have a chill and relaxing time.
PS. We have other chapters in other areas of the country and world. Let us know if you travel. You may have a group of friends waiting to show you around!
1 attendee
🧑🎨 The Shy-Friendly Hangout: Bring Coloring, Activities, & Meet New Friends
Schuler's Books and Music, 2660 28th St SE, Grand Rapids, MI, USOur events are free to attend. We use Meetup only as our RSVP system. Meetup may show new users an optional Meetup+ offer during signup, but Meetup+ is not required to RSVP or attend. If you see that screen, choose “Continue with free plan.” Any Meetup+ payment goes to Meetup, not to International Friend Connection or the event host.
This event at Schuler Books Cafe is a calm, low-pressure space for shy, socially anxious, introverted or lonely people to reconnect with the real world.
Bring coloring books, art supplies, knitting, card games, a Nintendo Switch or any quiet activity that helps you feel comfortable. Having something to focus on makes it much easier to be around people.
No group introductions are required. You can talk, listen, color, play a game or ease in at your own pace.Many people come once and feel disappointed they did not make close friends right away. The people who keep showing up usually end up making friends over time.
Look for the Meetup sign in the cafe area.
Disclaimer:
Everyone is welcome, and we're committed to maintaining a safe, respectful environment in line with Meetup's conduct policy (https://meetu.ps/3kzYxt)We are not able to allow people under 18 to attend but we have classes for educators wishing to start a group in their schools.
Please note that things may change as we grow. We are grateful to everyone who comes to have a chill and relaxing time.
PS. We have other chapters in other areas of the country and world. Let us know if you travel. You may have a group of friends waiting to show you around!
1 attendee
Past events
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