Wilde Alliance ⟡ Coming Home to Peace, and Possibility

Why isn't my relationship working?
Many of us didn't have examples of genuine, fulfilling relationships growing up and we've been struggling with our own relationships ever since. Even if your parents did have a loving relationship, trying to recreate that in your own life can cause its own issues.

You may be doing everything you can to make your relationship work, yet still feel confused, disconnected and exhausted. Maybe you're questioning whether it's even worth trying.

Relationships don't have to be difficult.
The personalities you are drawn to, challenged with or confused by, likely follow a reliable, predictable pattern.

We all notice how certain people feel familiar, energizing, unsettling, or comforting in ways we cannot always explain. That sense of familiarity goes beyond preferences, appearance, gender or age.

We are excited to share a simple framework to help you see the patterns in all your relationships so you can begin understanding them on a deeper level.

What's my type?
According to an extraordinary personality theory developed by Sonja Gilligan in 1969, there are four personality types that mirror your four most powerful relationships.
1. Your siblings
2. Your mother
3. Your father
4. Your lover

Sonja’s work outlines how these four types reliably explain the similarities, attractions and tensions we feel with others. Understanding the fundamental relationship between you and the four types will bring a new clarity to your own behavior patterns and those of everyone you meet.

”I'm an individual, not a type.”
That's true! I was interested in personality typing systems in theory but always found them to be too complicated or useless in reality. (I actually failed the Myers Briggs test! lol) We are all 100% unique individuals however our wiring for pattern recognition helps us survive in the wild and it can help us understand our relationships on a deeper level.

The Fusion Theory is different than other typing systems.
You don't choose your type, your type chooses you. You inherit your fundamental personality type from your parents at conception and then environment and life experiences shape how your type expresses itself.

Once you see it, you can't unsee it.
The first time I had the Fusion types explained to me, I could immediately see the practical use in my own life. I saw how my marriage ended largely due to the fact that we simply couldn't understand or appreciate our differences. Almost everyone I share this theory with has the same experience.

Is any of this true?
The only way to know is to test it for yourself!

Diving Deeper
If you are feeling drawn to these ideas and would like more insight into the patterns that may be holding you back in your personal and professional life, we would love to have you join us for one night of discovery and possibly more.

A new group is starting on January 16th
We are starting a completely new social experiment in Salt Lake City with an intimate group of adventurous truth seekers ready for a journey of self discovery.

We will meet weekly to explore the types through simple group coaching and exercises designed to reveal our deepest patterns.

As an original member, you will be offered a partnership rate while playing a crucial role in helping us harness this unique and transformative theory.

This is an opportunity to:
❖ Gain a deeper understanding of yourself through direct experience
❖ Explore why you vibe with certain types of people and not others
❖ Express yourself more authentically
❖ Learn to trust an inner wisdom that transcends the intellect
❖ Support other group members in self discovery

If you aren't able to attend either of the introductory Meetups in December but you're interested in joining us in January, send me a DM.

This Is For People Who Are:
⊕ Single or in a relationship (partners are encouraged but not required)
⊕ Seeking deeper connections
⊕ Willing to look honestly at themselves without judgment
⊕ Looking to take personal responsibility
for their happiness
⊕ Curious how their relationships could feel more effortlessly enjoyable and fulfilling

This Is Not For People Who:
⊝ Tend to focus on problems instead of solutions
⊝ Aren’t comfortable with self reflection
⊝ Are hoping for quick and easy answers
⊝ Already have everything figured out

We’re sure to have a wild experience playing with this unique and transformative theory!

Note: This meetup is trauma informed and everyone is invited to participate at their own pace. Please come as you are. Stay as long as you like. Take care of yourself, and each other.

This event is hosted by Lara through the Wilde Alliance for Transformational Leadership, a community creating experiences that support personal responsibility, embodied leadership, and collective growth.

If you are interested in private coaching or in hosting your own meetup, fill out our form here.

This session is the doorway into our LEVEL II Games.

Tired of playing the same old games?

Many people are seeking more closeness in their relationships, yet find themselves habitually creating distance without fully knowing how or why. That’s why my daughter and I are excited to be sharing a new process of relating that we originally discovered over years of connecting with each other on deeper and deeper levels.

Have you ever felt fully present with another person where you were seeing and feeling who they truly are with unconditional love? What if all your interactions and relationships could feel like that?

Your struggles feel very real but are they true?
Mind Games is a new way to bring truth to the surface in order to access real connection instead of habitual patterns and scripts. It will likely open your eyes to some of the stories you've been telling and why you haven't been getting the results you desire most.

An Introduction to Mind Games
We have been hosting in-person Mind Games for a couple months and now we are offering an opportunity to gather online. Every session is different, but in general we start off playing a real game and notice the inner game as it unfolds. We will be playing and relating in a way that can feel energizing, confusing, hilarious, confronting, and rather incredible.

The Only Way to Know The Game is to Play It
Mind Games is intuitive and arises organically through group participation. It’s an evolving process of letting go of things you thought you knew in order to see something new. Each person will have their own unique experience and many will leave with valuable new insights about themselves and how they relate to others.

Mind Games is definitely not for everyone but many of us are hungry for this level of relating and keep coming back for more.

Jane Had This to Say
"I had a great time last night. I enjoyed the interactions, negotiations and creative chaos. I had many insights and stretched my comfort zone. I especially got to sit with a very old pattern where I go silent during big problem solving times - when I could contribute ideas… but feel like I can’t make a difference so I better “buckle down” until everyone else figures it out. (My Story) I see that I have many other options and really enjoyed the whole night."

Ready for a reality shift?
We don't play Mind Games to fix ourselves. We play because it is genuinely fun and keeps opening our minds in new and unexpected ways.

Can’t wait to play!

A Deeper Exploration
Love and I are now offering private Mind Games sessions, with variable pricing and formats depending on your situation. This is an opportunity to experience yourself in a new way, better understand the self-limitations you are struggling with and transform your relationships. If this sounds interesting, send me a DM and we will chat.

This Is For Those:
⊕ Seeking more fulfilling connections
⊕ Willing to look honestly at themselves without judgment
⊕ Asking deeper questions

This Might Not Be For Those:
⊝ Looking for quick answers
⊝ Avoiding honest self reflection
⊝ Certain they already have everything figured out

Notice: We are Inner Guides, not licensed medical professionals.
This group is trauma informed and everyone is invited to participate at their own pace. Please come as you are. Stay as long as you like. Take care of yourself and each other.

The Wilde Alliance creates experiences that support personal responsibility, embodied leadership, and collective growth.

If you’re curious about private coaching, volunteering, facilitating or hosting events, please fill out this short form here.

Please make sure you have attended at least one [LEVEL I] Game Night before RSVPing for this [LEVEL II] session.

Tired of playing the same old games?

Many people are seeking more closeness in their relationships, yet find themselves habitually creating distance without fully knowing how or why. That’s why my daughter and I are excited to be sharing a new process of relating that we originally discovered over years of connecting with each other on deeper and deeper levels.

Have you ever felt fully present with another person where you were seeing them for who they truly are with unconditional love? What if all your interactions and relationships could feel like that?

Your struggles feel very real but are they true?
Mind Games is a new way to bring truth to the surface in order to access real connection instead of habitual patterns and scripts. It will likely open your eyes to some of the stories you've been telling and why you haven't been getting the results you desire most.

What's Happening
Every session is different, but in general we start off playing a real game and notice the inner game as it unfolds. We will be playing and relating in a way that can feel energizing, confusing, hilarious, confronting, and rather incredible.

The Only Way to Know The Game is to Play It
Mind Games is intuitive and arises organically through group participation. It’s an evolving process of letting go of things you thought you knew in order to see something new. Each person will have their own unique experience and many will leave with valuable new insights about themselves and how they relate to others.

Mind Games is definitely not for everyone but some of us are loving it and keep coming back for more.

Jane Had This to Say
"I had a great time last night. I enjoyed the interactions, negotiations and creative chaos. I had many insights and stretched my comfort zone. I especially got to sit with a very old pattern where I go silent during big problem solving times - when I could contribute ideas… but feel like I can’t make a difference so I better “buckle down” until everyone else figures it out. (My Story) I see that I have many other options and really enjoyed the whole night."

Ready for a reality shift?
We don't play Mind Games to fix ourselves. We play because it is genuinely fun and keeps opening our minds in new and unexpected ways.

Can’t wait to play!

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A Deeper Exploration
Love and I are also available for private Mind Games sessions, with flexible formats and pricing depending on your situation. These sessions offer an opportunity to see yourself more clearly, understand recurring limitations, and support meaningful shifts in relationships and life direction. If this feels interesting, send me a DM and we will talk.

This Is For Those:
⊕ Seeking more fulfilling connections
⊕ Willing to look honestly at themselves without judgment
⊕ Asking deeper questions
⊕ Wanting to experience a new level of peace and possibility

This Might Not Be For Those:
⊝ Looking for quick answers
⊝ Avoiding honest self reflection
⊝ Certain they already have everything figured out

Notice: We are Inner Guides, not licensed medical professionals.
This group is trauma informed and everyone is invited to participate at their own pace. Please come as you are. Stay as long as you like. Take care of yourself and each other.

The Wilde Alliance creates experiences that support personal responsibility, embodied leadership, and collective growth.

This session is the doorway into our LEVEL II Games.

Tired of playing the same old games?

Many people are seeking more closeness in their relationships, yet find themselves habitually creating distance without fully knowing how or why. That’s why my daughter and I are excited to be sharing a new process of relating that we originally discovered over years of connecting with each other on deeper and deeper levels.

Have you ever felt fully present with another person where you were seeing and feeling who they truly are with unconditional love? What if all your interactions and relationships could feel like that?

Your struggles feel very real but are they true?
Mind Games is a new way to bring truth to the surface in order to access real connection instead of habitual patterns and scripts. It will likely open your eyes to some of the stories you've been telling and why you haven't been getting the results you desire most.

An Introduction to Mind Games
We have been hosting in-person Mind Games for a couple months and now we are offering an opportunity to gather online. Every session is different, but in general we start off playing a real game and notice the inner game as it unfolds. We will be playing and relating in a way that can feel energizing, confusing, hilarious, confronting, and rather incredible.

The Only Way to Know The Game is to Play It
Mind Games is intuitive and arises organically through group participation. It’s an evolving process of letting go of things you thought you knew in order to see something new. Each person will have their own unique experience and many will leave with valuable new insights about themselves and how they relate to others.

Mind Games is definitely not for everyone but many of us are hungry for this level of relating and keep coming back for more.

Jane Had This to Say
"I had a great time last night. I enjoyed the interactions, negotiations and creative chaos. I had many insights and stretched my comfort zone. I especially got to sit with a very old pattern where I go silent during big problem solving times - when I could contribute ideas… but feel like I can’t make a difference so I better “buckle down” until everyone else figures it out. (My Story) I see that I have many other options and really enjoyed the whole night."

Ready for a reality shift?
We don't play Mind Games to fix ourselves. We play because it is genuinely fun and keeps opening our minds in new and unexpected ways.

Can’t wait to play!

A Deeper Exploration
Love and I are now offering private Mind Games sessions, with variable pricing and formats depending on your situation. This is an opportunity to experience yourself in a new way, better understand the self-limitations you are struggling with and transform your relationships. If this sounds interesting, send me a DM and we will chat.

This Is For Those:
⊕ Seeking more fulfilling connections
⊕ Willing to look honestly at themselves without judgment
⊕ Asking deeper questions

This Might Not Be For Those:
⊝ Looking for quick answers
⊝ Avoiding honest self reflection
⊝ Certain they already have everything figured out

Notice: We are Inner Guides, not licensed medical professionals.
This group is trauma informed and everyone is invited to participate at their own pace. Please come as you are. Stay as long as you like. Take care of yourself and each other.

The Wilde Alliance creates experiences that support personal responsibility, embodied leadership, and collective growth.

If you’re curious about private coaching, volunteering, facilitating or hosting events, please fill out this short form here.