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We’ve got something special for Indonesia’s data community! 🚀 Alexey Milovidov, co-founder and CTO of ClickHouse, will be stopping by this April as part of his APJ AI tour. Come join us for an evening of learning from database experts, and great conversations with the ClickHouse community. **🗓️ AGENDA:** * 6:30 PM: Registration, Dinner & Chitchat * 7:00 PM: Welcome and Introductions * 7:05 PM: **The Data Engine Behind AI: Powering Language Models at Scale** by Alexey Milovidov, Co-Founder & CTO @ ClickHouse * 7:35 PM: **Speed as a Feature: Markethac's Journey from BigQuery to ClickHouse** by Adhitya Cahyadi, Business Director @ Markethac * 8:00 PM: **Speed at Scale: How ASTRO Powers Quick-Commerce with ClickHouse** by Matheus Alvian Wikanargo, Lead Data Engineer @ ASTRO * 8:25 PM: Q&A * 8:40 PM: Networking & Close **👉🏼 RSVP to secure your spot!** **_____________________________________** **🎤 Session Details: The Data Engine Behind AI: Powering Language Models at Scale** Behind every AI breakthrough is a mountain of data — and the real challenge is moving, shaping, and querying it fast enough to keep up. In this session, Alexey will take a deep dive into how large language models are trained, fine-tuned, and served, with a focus on the data pipelines and architectures that make it all work. You’ll see live demos of ClickHouse tackling massive AI-scale datasets in real time, along with performance benchmarks that reveal just how far you can push the engine. Expect actionable tips, architectural patterns, and a few ClickHouse tricks that data engineers, architects, and AI enthusiasts can bring straight into their own projects. **Speaker: Alexey Milovidov, Co-Founder & CTO of ClickHouse** Alexey Milovidov is the Co-founder and CTO of ClickHouse, Inc., with 16 years of experience in data-intensive applications. He began developing ClickHouse in 2009 and released it as open source in 2016. Before ClickHouse, Alexey developed the data processing engine for the world's second-largest web analytics system. In 2021, Alexey came together with two co-founders to build ClickHouse and is focused daily on expanding its capabilities and optimizing performance. His expertise lies in data processing algorithms and high-performance technologies, driving his passion for data and innovation in the field. Ask him about speed, or CI, go on... we dare you! **🎤 Session Details: Speed as a Feature: Markethac's Journey from BigQuery to ClickHouse** Every e-commerce insight starts with a question — but when your data grows faster than your queries can run, the answers stop coming in time. In this session, Adhitya will walk through how Markethac migrated its analytics stack from BigQuery to ClickHouse to meet the real-time demands of Indonesian e-commerce intelligence at scale. You'll get a behind-the-scenes look at the architecture decisions, ingestion pipeline design, and optimizations that made the migration work — along with live demo showing the performance gap between the two engines on real marketplace data. If you're sitting on a growing analytical workload and wondering whether your current warehouse can keep up — this one's for you. **Speaker: Adhitya Cahyadi, Business Director @ Markethac** Adhitya Cahyadi is the Business Director and Chief of Product at Markethac, an e-commerce intelligence platform built for the Indonesian and Southeast Asian market. He joined Markethac in 2022 growing the business by leading the product, data engineering, and analytics teams behind Markethac's core offering and innovations. Started in data analytics field in his previous role, Adhitya is passionate on turning raw marketplace data into structured, AI-powered workflows that help enterprises make faster, more confident decisions. **🎤 Session Details: Speed at Scale: How ASTRO Powers Quick-Commerce with ClickHouse** ASTRO is a 24/7 quick-commerce platform offering over 15,000+ selected products, delivering orders within minutes to help customers meet their everyday needs. In this session, ASTRO shares its journey using ClickHouse to power real-time analytics at scale, covering how long the team has been using ClickHouse, the key use cases implemented, and how their data platform evolved to support quick commerce. The talk will highlight measurable improvements in query performance, scalability, and operational efficiency, as well as the impact on faster, data-driven decision-making. ASTRO will also discuss the challenges encountered—from handling high data volumes to optimizing performance—and how ClickHouse helped overcome these bottlenecks, enabling reliable, real-time visibility into operations. **Speaker:** **Matheus Alvian Wikanargo**, **Lead Data Engineer @ ASTRO** Matheus Alvian Wikanargo is a Lead Data Engineer at ASTRO, where he focuses on building and evolving the company’s data platform to support analytics, operational use cases, and real-time decision-making. He works across data platform development, architecture, and governance, with a strong interest in designing scalable systems that grow alongside business needs.

Want to unwind after work with some fun? How about hitting the tennis courts at Anol Tennis Warehouse with people who are at your level (Intermediate)? It’s a weekly event, and we’re always welcoming new members, so you can get a great workout and make some new friends all at once. Looking forward to seeing you there soon! Fee is 198,000 Rp per person.

Main Bareng Pickleball at Ancol Tennis Warehouse. Join us for fun, socialising and sports at Ancol Tennis Warehouse.

## **WordPress Meetup Tangerang Selatan: Setup Home Server dengan Ubuntu & LEMP Stack** **Ubah Laptop Bekas Jadi Server WordPress Bertenaga AI!** Punya laptop atau PC lama yang cuma berdebu di pojokan? Jangan dibuang atau dijual murah dulu! Di meetup kali ini, kita akan belajar bagaimana menyulap perangkat "pensiunan" tersebut menjadi **Home Server** yang tangguh untuk menjalankan WordPress secara mandiri. Bayangkan memiliki kontrol penuh atas hosting Anda sendiri tanpa biaya langganan bulanan, namun dengan performa yang tetap mumpuni untuk kebutuhan pengembangan maupun proyek personal. ### **Apa yang Akan Kita Pelajari?** Kita akan melakukan praktik langsung (hands-on) dari nol hingga online: * **Persiapan Hardware:** Mengapa laptop bekas adalah pilihan cerdas untuk home server. * **Instalasi OS:** Setup dasar menggunakan Ubuntu Server. * **LEMP Stack:** Konfigurasi Linux, Nginx, MySQL, dan PHP untuk performa WordPress yang optimal. * **Go Online:** Cara membuat server lokal Anda bisa diakses dari internet secara aman. * **AI-Powered Management:** *Secret sauce!* Kita akan mendemonstrasikan bagaimana teknologi AI terbaru bisa membantu Anda mengelola server lewat terminal tanpa perlu pusing menghafal command yang rumit. ### **Kenapa Anda Harus Ikut?** * **Hemat Budget:** Stop bayar sewa hosting untuk proyek-proyek eksperimental Anda. * **Privasi & Kontrol:** Data Anda, server Anda, aturan Anda. * **Scale Up Your Skill:** Belajar sisi "belakang layar" yang jarang diketahui pengguna WordPress biasa. * **Teknologi Masa Depan:** Lihat bagaimana AI mempermudah pekerjaan SysAdmin dalam mengelola infrastruktur. ### **Persiapan Peserta:** Jika ingin mengikuti praktik langsung di tempat, disarankan membawa: 1. Laptop utama untuk bekerja. 2. (Opsional) Laptop bekas/PC kecil yang ingin dijadikan server untuk dicoba langsung. 3. Semangat untuk belajar hal baru! *** **Detail Acara:** * 📅 **Hari/Tanggal:** Sabtu, 25 April 2026 * 🕒 **Waktu:** 15:00 - 18:00 WIB * 📍 **Lokasi:** Oastia Cafe, BSD - Tangerang Selatan * 🔗 **Registrasi:** s.id/wptangsel21 Acara ini didukung oleh **[Jagoan Hosting](https://jagoanhosting.com)** dan terbuka untuk siapa saja yang tertarik dengan WordPress, server, dan teknologi masa depan. Sampai jumpa di lokasi! Kita buat laptop lama Anda jadi produktif kembali.

Join us for an unforgettable night 7:30pm in Jakarta [[Click This Whatsapp Groupchat Link](https://chat.whatsapp.com/I8piLGquTos5Ty8i1Q6cl1)] We’re not just a language exchange — we’re a roaming social experience for 20s and 30s who love new faces and open conversations. Whether you're an expat, traveler, or Seoulite looking for something beyond the usual Saturday, this is the place to be. Connect, talk, laugh, repeat.

We are going to discuss the book with the title, "QUIET" by Susan Cain. It's an interesting book about The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking. If you are interested in managing organization or self improvement or understanding people, this book can give you some tips and useful insights. Let's discuss and share your opinion here. This event will be for those who have already read the book or haven't read it but curious about this book. How to find us? Please mention Meet Up to the waiter, they will show you the table. This event is FREE. \*) \*) Since we are in a coffee shop, we need your understanding for making a purchase of at least a glass/cup of drink :) Venue : Tenun Coffee Roasters, SCBD Area Jl. Tulodong Bawah No.D-1, Senayan, Kec. Kby. Baru, Kota Jakarta Selatan, Daerah Khusus Ibukota Jakarta 12190

**Join us for an extraordinary journey through Indonesia's rich artistic heritage at the prestigious National Gallery of Indonesia, followed by a delightful evening hangout at Melly's Garden!** This Saturday afternoon-to-evening meetup promises to be an engaging blend of art, culture, dining, and social connection that will leave you with a deeper appreciation for Indonesia's creative spirit and Jakarta's vibrant social scene. **Part 1: Art Gallery Vibes (Afternoon)** The National Gallery of Indonesia is one of the country's leading art institutions, showcasing an inspiring collection of Indonesian and international artworks. From classic masterpieces to contemporary expressions, this meetup will transform your typical gallery visit into an interactive cultural and artistic exploration. **Part 2: Garden Nights (Evening)** After exploring Indonesia's fascinating history, we'll transition to the charming ambiance of Melly's Garden for dinner, drinks, and continued conversation. This cozy garden restaurant offers the perfect setting to unwind, share stories from the museum, and enjoy Jakarta's evening atmosphere with your new friends. This is a fun and social event, perfect for making new friends and connecting with the active and friendly Jakarta Social Community. Everyone is welcome! **Event Details:** **Date:** Saturday, 25th of April **Museum Time:** 4:00 PM - 6:30 PM **Location:** National Gallery of Indonesia (Galeri Nasional Indonesia) **Meeting Point:** Main entrance lobby of the gallery **Price:** 50k IDR. Pay at the door *** **Melly's Garden Time:** 7:00 PM onwards **Location:** Melly's Garden, **Cost:** Pay for your own food and drinks (various menu options available) *** **Optional:** Feel free to join us for just one part or stay for the complete experience! **📢 IMPORTANT: Attendance Reconfirmation Required** To ensure accurate headcounts and reduce no-shows, we're implementing an updated reconfirmation system for all events. **Here's how it works:** * All events start with unlimited RSVPs. * 4 days before each event, a reconfirmation form will be posted in the event comments. * You must reconfirm ASAP by submitting the form. Your spot is guaranteed only after you reconfirm. * The form closes once we reach the target attendance number. * Anyone who hasn’t reconfirmed when the form closes will be removed from the attendee list. * If you can’t attend, change your status to Not Going. **Two‑strike rule: If you don’t reconfirm and don’t change to your status to Not Going two times, you will be removed from the group.** Thanks for helping us keep things running smoothly. Looking forward to seeing you all there. If you have any questions, please feel free to let me know here or join our friendly and active WhatsApp Group Chat: [https://chat.whatsapp.com/FBQsf4Cv4yWACNs9gbiYNH](https://chat.whatsapp.com/FBQsf4Cv4yWACNs9gbiYNH) Instagram:[ https://www.instagram.com/jakartasocialgroup](https://www.instagram.com/jakartasocialgroup)

Nongkrong sambil berbahasa Prancis! Niveau minimum : A2 mais tout le monde est bienvenu !

This is a free, in-person meeting on the subject of betrayals, losses and how to get over them so you can build lasting relationships. Burdened by a stressful relationship? Unhealthy relationships can trigger feelings of anger, despair or self-doubt. They can create dwindling spirals of fights and seeking to make-up, or trying to “pin the blame” on someone or something. If you don’t find the RIGHT reasons, or select the correct sources of the problem, the problem can just get worse and worse. Whether in love or personal ties, with friends or at work, our life really IS affected by the quality of our relationships. Good ones can promote pleasure and survival while less optimum ones can lead to annoyance, anger, self-doubt, stress, or even affect our health and ability to survive well. Whether you are suffering from a divorce, or a painful break-up, don’t know who to trust (or who to CHOOSE) as a partner, friend, boss or employee - the anxiety of relationship troubles can really make a mess of things. Maybe you’ve suffered a betrayal, or are dealing with hostility or criticalness or invalidation. Dwindling relationships can involve destructive behavior, where we hurt those we love, or start succumbing to self-destructive thoughts, attitudes or behaviors that spiral out of control and affect much more than our immediate relationship. Past losses in love or life can affect how we act or react to new people and situations and hold us back from even starting to create new, possibly great relationships! How can one get back onto a saner course of action? Come to our Meetup, where we can introduce you to some of the knowledge, tools and techniques of the breakthroughs in the field of the mind that we can apply to this ever important area of life: human relationships! Break free from self imposed limitations Here we will discuss: • How to “erase” the trauma of past hurts and betrayals so that one isn’t always repeating past mistakes. • Why and how do the negative emotions of others affect you? • Why is my partner withdrawing and what can I do about it? • Why do we sometimes feel compelled to hurt the ones we love? • Fights & arguments - what's really behind them? • What underlies “corrosive criticism” or the need to invalidate self or others? • How one can stably change one’s outlook on life so they can affect positive change? • Where do compulsive destructive behaviors come from and what can be done about them? • How to form closer bonds & keep growing the relationships with the people you care about? • How to enhance one’s own ability to survive and create positive healthy relationships whether in love, family & friendships or in work, business or one’s career? Relationships can be hard and life itself IS challenging. Why not arm yourself with the knowledge and breakthroughs that have been made about the mind, mental reactions & interpersonal relationships, so that one has better awareness and control over themselves and life in general. Learn where painful experiences are “stored” and how they can unknowingly affect us. You will also find out how one can “erase” those past painful experiences so that one is free to move forward without being tripped up by the past. Learn too, about what can lead some people to become “toxic” personalities and how to identify those traits in others so you won’t be tripped up trusting the wrong person. Our free Meet-ups occur in a safe environment where one can learn, without fear of judgment or criticism, and without the recommendation of harmful mental techniques or therapies, just how YOU can get yourself onto a happier & more successful path: in love & in life. We look forward to having you join us! This class is sponsored by the Dianetics & Scientology Life Improvement Center of Central Ohio.

We may pick a specific topic and post in advance or may discuss current events and various ad hoc topics . We would love to spend time hanging out and getting to know one another. Atheist, agnostics, other non-theists, and atheist-friendly people are welcome to join us. Note: COUNT operates a Facebook page at www.facebook.com/groups/COUNT.discussions (http://www.facebook.com/groups/COUNT.discussions/) to promote discussions among members and visitors.

Let's talk about relationships in such a way that you can really benefit from the knowledge. We can talk about * Soulmates * How to start a relationship * How to maintain a relationship * How to pick the right partner * How to recognize the red flags * How to improve communication * How to avoid argument and fights * How to increase trust You ask the questions, we'll talk about them. Be sure to click on the red "Attend" button below to come to this local event. We look forward to seeing you there. This group is sponsored the Dianetics & Scientology Self-Improvement Center.

Some trained COUNT volunteers work together once a month at RMH (http://www.rmhc-centralohio.org/volunteer.php) as Housewarmers (usually on the 1st Sunday from 1 – 5 PM). Some schedule other shifts at their convenience. You may try this out with less fuss by following a "Fast track" or go through the normal process. Fast track • Arrange a time to shadow a COUNT volunteer. Call Dave Nohle at 614-268-9558 (cell). • Show up and try it out. • Complete application, etc. later. Normal process • Complete an online application (http://rmhc-centralohio.org/volunteer/). • Attend orientation in advance. • At orientation you will complete forms agreeing to keep family/patient info private and allowing a background check and tour the facility. • Complete one training shift. Daily shifts are: morning 9 AM - 1 PM, afternoon 1 - 5 PM and evening 5 - 9 PM. • Schedule shifts online using the on the RMH scheduling system (http://www.volgistics.com/ex/portal.dll/?FROM=32895). The Ronald McDonald House (RMH) provides housing and meals for families with sick children. The Columbus RMH is the largest in the world with 137 rooms. COUNT has been volunteering there since May 2014. Housewarmers work with RMH guests to provide a home-like environment - greet, assist with family needs, answer phones, give tours, assist with checkin/checkout, prepare guest rooms after checkout, clean facility, laundry, restock supplies and staff the front desk. RMH Housewarmers volunteer at least one four-hour shift a month. All Housewarmers must complete an application and agree to a background check before they can be full fledged volunteers.

Attend a free seminar on how to have successful and lasting relationships. At this seminar you will learn: How to spot and handle negative and toxic relationships. How to get through the "rough patches" in a relationship. How to choose the right people to work with. The three things that make or break any relationship. How to make a good relationship great. All are welcome. Be sure to click on the red "Attend" button below to come to this local event. We look forward to seeing you there. Hosted by the Dianetics and Scientology Life Improvement Center of Central Ohio.

Come assist Van Buren Shelter (https://ymcacolumbus.org/locations/vanburen) staff in serving dinners and cleaning up on the 3rd Tuesday of each month. Dinner for the women is 5-6 pm and for the families is 6:15-7:15 pm. There is ample free parking available in the shelter's lot. The recommended area to park is in green in the image above. There will be a new entrance for the time being. We are asking all volunteers to enter through the Donation Dock door, the orange mark on the image above. This door is located between the Single Adults and Family Shelter. You will see 2 large garage doors with a large green trash compactor in the center. Please head to the closest garage door to the building wall, with a ramp leading up. There, you will see a door with a sign stating instructions on how to enter the building. Please ring the doorbell, and a staff member will come and escort you into the building. If a staff member takes longer than 5 minutes, please call the front desk at 614-689-2020. This is a new process for us, and we do not want to keep you waiting! We appreciate your patience as we navigate this temporary change. The shelter needs a volunteer count the day before the event so sign-up ends Monday at 4:50 PM. Afterwards some of us go to the Omnipresent Atheists Weekly Meetup in progress to have a bit to eat or drink (http://www.meetup.com/omnipresentatheists/). Volunteers must be 14 or older. Since we will be working around families, the YMCA does not permit volunteering by individuals with convictions for violent or sexual crimes. The YMCA reserves the right to run background checks on volunteers. For questions, comment on this page or contact: Andrew, awhit12@yahoo.com, (614)937-5802 (cell). Please let Andrew know if you volunteer anytime other than our COUNT events so that he can count your hours toward our service record.

This is a free, in person meeting. Burdened by a stressful relationship? Unhealthy relationships can trigger feelings of anger, despair or self-doubt. They can create dwindling spirals of fights and seeking to make-up, or trying to “pin the blame” on someone or something. If you don’t find the RIGHT reasons, or select the correct sources of the problem, the problem can just get worse and worse. Whether in love or personal ties, with friends or at work, our life really IS affected by the quality of our relationships. Good ones can promote pleasure and survival while less optimum ones can lead to annoyance, anger, self-doubt, stress, or even affect our health and ability to survive well. Whether you are suffering from a divorce, or a painful break-up, don’t know who to trust (or who to CHOOSE) as a partner, friend, boss or employee - the anxiety of relationship troubles can really make a mess of things. Maybe you’ve suffered a betrayal, or are dealing with hostility or criticalness or invalidation. Dwindling relationships can involve destructive behavior, where we hurt those we love, or start succumbing to self-destructive thoughts, attitudes or behaviors that spiral out of control and affect much more than our immediate relationship. Past losses in love or life can affect how we act or react to new people and situations and hold us back from even starting to create new, possibly great relationships! How can one get back onto a saner course of action? Come to our Meetup, where we can introduce you to some of the knowledge, tools and techniques of the breakthroughs in the field of the mind that we can apply to this ever important area of life: human relationships! Break free from self imposed limitations Here we will discuss: • How to “erase” the trauma of past hurts and betrayals so that one isn’t always repeating past mistakes. • Why and how do the negative emotions of others affect you? • Why is my partner withdrawing and what can I do about it? • Why do we sometimes feel compelled to hurt the ones we love? • Fights & arguments - what's really behind them? • What underlies “corrosive criticism” or the need to invalidate self or others? • How one can stably change one’s outlook on life so they can affect positive change? • Where do compulsive destructive behaviors come from and what can be done about them? • How to form closer bonds & keep growing the relationships with the people you care about? • How to enhance one’s own ability to survive and create positive healthy relationships whether in love, family & friendships or in work, business or one’s career? Relationships can be hard and life itself IS challenging. Why not arm yourself with the knowledge and breakthroughs that have been made about the mind, mental reactions & interpersonal relationships, so that one has better awareness and control over themselves and life in general. Learn where painful experiences are “stored” and how they can unknowingly affect us. You will also find out how one can “erase” those past painful experiences so that one is free to move forward without being tripped up by the past. Learn too, about what can lead some people to become “toxic” personalities and how to identify those traits in others so you won’t be tripped up trusting the wrong person. Our free Meet-ups occur in a safe environment where one can learn, without fear of judgment or criticism, and without the recommendation of harmful mental techniques or therapies, just how YOU can get yourself onto a happier & more successful path: in love & in life. We look forward to having you join us! This class is sponsored by the Dianetics & Scientology Life Improvement Center of Central Ohio.