Awkward to Awesome: Confidence for the Socially Awkward

In this session, we’re talking about pacing in dating and new relationships.

It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement at the beginning—texting all day, seeing each other constantly, and feeling like things are moving fast in a good way. But sometimes that pace can make it harder to stay grounded, notice red flags, or really understand how you feel.

We’ll look at what healthy pacing actually means, how to recognize when things are moving too quickly (even if it feels good), and how to stay connected to yourself while getting to know someone new.

Here’s what we’ll cover:
• What “pacing” actually means in early dating
• Signs things are moving too fast (emotionally and physically)
• Why fast starts can feel so good—and why they can backfire
• How to stay grounded instead of getting swept up
• What it looks like to build something steady and real over time
• Simple ways to slow things down without losing connection

This session will help you approach dating in a way that feels more clear, intentional, and aligned with what you actually want. 💛

Welcome to The Awesomely Awkward Social Club—because connection doesn’t have to be perfect to be real.

🌟 This Month's Vibe: The Joy Experiment
In this session of The Awesomely Awkward Social Club, we’re running a little experiment—The Joy Experiment.

Not the big, life-changing kind. The small, sneaky kind.

Because most of us are out here waiting for joy to show up in obvious ways—vacations, milestones, “when things calm down.” Meanwhile, the everyday moments we’re actually living start to feel a little… flat.

Tonight is about playing with the idea that joy isn’t something we find—it’s something we test, try, and create in tiny ways throughout our day.

We’ll explore what actually feels fun (not what we think should), the weird little things that spark pleasure, and how to give ourselves permission to enjoy life without earning it first.

Expect some lightness, some curiosity, and maybe a few unexpected ideas you’ll want to try immediately.

Here’s what to expect:
• Fun and slightly unconventional conversation starters
• Breakout rooms to share ideas and swap “joy experiments”
• Zero pressure to be positive—just honest about what feels good
• Space to reconnect with play, pleasure, and a little spontaneity

Just come hang out, try a few things on, and see what adds a little more joy to your life. 💛