The saddest and shortest story of mankind: A guy notices a girl he likes. Their eyes cross, he looks away, his heart starts pounding. He notices that she looks at him again... but he has frozen, his thoughts are racing - what to do, what to say... soon it will be too late. The train arrives at its stop, the girl gets out. ...THE END...

But it is not the end: in reality, both will spend days, weeks or even years wondering who this woman, who this man was. I remember going back to the same station every day at the same time, in the hope that this woman would show up again... and though this was many years ago, I still regret not having created an opportunity for us to get to know each other.

During the time you have read those lines, this story has probably played out thousands of times all over the world. Don't let another tragic ending go down in the book of failure.

Talking to women and dating them is a skill that can be learned, like playing guitar or developing a yoga routine. If it doesn't come naturally to you, it is not easy, but you can improve with time and practice. If want to learn, but also if you already know something about courtship, join us.

For example we will discuss and practice the following questions:

- What kind of woman do I want to attract?

- How do I start an interaction without exposing myself to embarrassment?

- How do I qualify the women I am interacting with?

- How do I lead the dynamics of attraction where I want them to go?

This meetup is about handling issues that men face. Open-minded women who are genuinely interested in understanding the workings of courtship will be welcomed as guests. If there is enough interest, we can create a similar group for women, in which we will discuss and practice the female aspects of courtship.


We're 89 Members

Membership is open to everyone

Content of this Meetup Group is only visible to members

Founded Nov 6, 2011
  • Members 89
  • Past Meetups 4



Imagine having a community behind you

Get started Learn more

We just grab a coffee and speak French. Some people have been coming every week for months... it creates a kind of warmth to the group.

Rafaël, started French Conversation Group

Sign up

Meetup members, Log in

By clicking "Sign up" or "Sign up using Facebook", you confirm that you accept our Terms of Service & Privacy Policy