Bisexuals in Vancouver is a place for anyone interested in bisexuality.
I'm Marco, the group creator, facilitator, and leader. I'm a married, bisexual man.
I'd told my wife that I'd experimented with men before we got married over 18 years ago. We didn't discuss it much after that, as it was not an issue... until my desire came back. It was after 12 years of marriage, and I started having sex with men behind her back.
I came out to her about my secret extracurricular activities 3 1/2 years ago. We are still married, and our relationship is better and stronger than ever; however, this was an unexpected outcome for me. I thought that telling my wife would mean our marriage would be over.
My first m2m experiences started when I was 13, and although I've been bisexual all my life, I've only begun to accept it and identify as such 5 years ago. I've spent much of my life grappling with my desire for men, and have finally come to terms with the fact that I enjoy both, want both, need both.
My strong preference has always been for women, but I do enjoy m2m sex very much.
I have struggled with my sexuality for most of my life. I know how confusing, scary, frustrating and exciting this struggle can be. It is my hope that this group will be a place where others will be able to freely and openly discuss their own experiences in a non-judgemental, non-sexual atmosphere with like-minded people.
The evening will be comprised of member input and dialogue about bisexuality, with a focus on sharing our own experiences and challenges. I will prepare a discussion topic which can be used as a starting point, but members are encouraged to share their own stories and ideas, although no one will be forced to speak. Meetups usually run about 2 hours.
How is this group is confidential?
This is a drop-in group. We will all be relying upon each other's discretion. I ask that members act appropriately with one another outside the group. This means do not approach other members outside of the group should you happen to meet one unexpectedly. You need not use your real name at the Meetups. But obviously, at the end of the day, I cannot guarantee confidentiality from other members. I can offer it from myself though, and do.
We are all keenly aware of the various avenues available for meeting men or women for the purpose of having sex. This is not one of them. These Meetups are meant to provide a safe, comfortable, unencumbered environment for discourse and dialogue.
What you do with your own time outside of the group, or what happens between group members outside of the group, is none of my business. But the meetings are for talking and sharing only.
I suggest a voluntary donation of $5.00 per person, per Meetup to cover my expenses. I pay Meetup dues, at times rent space, and donate my time and energy.
This is my third time creating and leading a Meetup group. The format works well and I really enjoy leading groups. I'm very much looking forward to meeting everyone.
Feel free to contact me about anything you'd like to know. I usually respond within a day or two.