We are the largest and most active Dating & Men’s self development forum in the Washington, DC and Baltimore metropolitan area and one of the largest in the world with over 1,200 members. We are dedicated to improving the lives of individuals who are looking to improve their dating lives and master their social surroundings. We have recently expanded to include a rapidly growing community in Miami, FL as well.

Many of our members found us after reading books like “The Game” by Neil Strauss, a story of a lonely writer who became a rising star and “pickup artist” and his experience with the unusual and mysterious world of the PUA community. Other members searched for a local “lair” where they could meet other guys to find wingmen to improve their lives and write their history and found us.   However, the Attraction Vault is about more than just “picking up” women. Sure we are men who like to meet women. However, what we really want is to expand horizons and grow as people. We have discovered that becoming better with women is best when developing your life as a whole.

Who We Are

We are an all volunteer group of primarily men and some helpful, supportive women mostly in Washington, DC, Baltimore and Miami metro areas who work together to help each other develop ourselves and improve our dating lives. Members of the Attraction Vault are working professionals and range from young men with little experience in dating and socializing with women, to divorced men in their 30s and 40s that just want to get back in the dating game, to men who are single and already happy with their dating life, but are seekers of knowledge, truth and constant improvement. 

What we do

Members provide advice and support to each other through our private online discussion forum on how to develop our skills to meet women and manage relationships. We also facilitate events where men meet in person and collaborate to socialize and meet other wingmen,  go out and meet women and enjoy themselves in the social scene that the Washington, DC and Miami areas have to offer.

We also host educational events in Washington, DC,  Baltimore and Miami. We host these events through coordinating with local Dating Coaches and Nationally known Speakers. The list of speakers we have hosted include, Brad P, DJ Fuji, Nick Quick, Vince Kelvin, Psych, Adam Lyons, Badboy, James Marshall and many more. In addition, we have a forum where members review pickup artist products and dating services.

Join Us!

Wherever you are at in your life with women, there is a place for you here. Sign up for free to join the Attraction Vault and participate in our daily discussions and forums.