Welcome to the Date Night for Couples MEETUP group!

Please introduce yourself and upload a photo of you and your partner when you join.

We are a diverse group of married and/or committed couples over the age of 35 within Raleigh/Cary/ Garner/Apex and surrounding areas.

Join us for dining out, hiking, dancing, game nights, cookouts, comedy shows, festivals, happy hours, watching sports, bowling, movie outings, wine and/or beer tastings, live music, potlucks, and backyard BBQs. If you are a married or committed couple and would like to meet the same, then we welcome you to join in.

What we are looking for in our members:

Have one or both partners at least 35 or older. You should be married and/or in a committed relationship and be willing to hang out with your significant other at events.

Stay active! This meetup group has a cap of 50 members so if you are not active, you will be removed.  The intent of the group is to MEETUP, so please make an effort to attend activities on a regular basis. If you RSVP 'Yes' to an event - come! Don't be a “no show”. If you must change your RSVP, please be considerate and do so a minimum of two days before the event. The organizers spend many hours of their time researching, organizing, and hosting events. Sometimes, the organizers even use their own resources to reserve spaces and times for the group. We rely heavily on the accuracy of RSVPs as we plan our events and make reservations.

Participate! Help us to plan and host events! Contact the organizers with event ideas and offers. All suggestions for activities are encouraged and appreciated. Volunteer to become an ‘event organizer’ so that there are more dates, places, and a wider variety of activities for members to choose from.

We hope you join to find new friends and encourage you to attend MEETUPS. This way you might meet folks with similar interests, and you may want to socialize with them outside of our events. If so, we want to encourage you to make plans with other couples to meet outside of the group or at another event. Get phone numbers and/or e-mails, then contact each other.

And by all means…MEETUP…and have fun!

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Your organizer's refund policy for Raleigh/Durham Area Couples Social (over 35)

Refunds are not offered for this Meetup.

Founded Jan 18, 2011



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