NoDating is for people who want to meet others naturally at events where the purpose of the event is to meet and get to know people in a platonic setting without the pressure of needing to start dating right away. One of the problems with internet dating and events like speed dating, is that they force people to start a relationship off in the dating stage. This results in spending lots and lots of time dating people to figure out if you even want to date them.

NoDating is based on the belief that the best way to find a mate is to be part of a community that allows you to repeatedly meet people at events, thus allowing a rapport to develop before two people decide to start dating. The idea is not against dating, it is about dating people that you actually want to date. It is also about making more friends because even if someone is not right for you, he or she may have friends to introduce you to that are.

We will host events in NYC and Hoboken like diners, brunches, and Happy Hours that allow people to get together and mingle.

The age range for this group is 22 to 42ish. Everyone must have a clear picture and fill out the profile questions to join the group.