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 Welcome! We are back from hiatus and open to take applications for the group as of April 15th.  For a preview of what we are offering this season, see below.

Polyamory: from Greek poly ‘many’ + Latin amor ‘love’ = "many loves"

Polyamory is an honest, responsible lifestyle (or lovestyle) choice by all parties involved which includes open communication and integrity. Polyamory: Lifelong Loving & Learning was created with the purpose to support this unique and rewarding community through educational opportunities.  You must be 18 or older to be a member of this meetup.

We welcome responsible, honest poly or poly-friendly individuals, couples, triads (or more!) residing in the OC/LA/IE region to our group to meet like-minded people, make friendly connections and become more educated about ethical non-monogamous relationships. We offer a safe, sex-positive resource for men and women of all genders, races and sexual orientations to meet and relate to like-minded individuals.  We ask that you respect yourself and others when attending events. As you evolve within the polyamorous lifestyle, you will discover there is no "perfect" poly relationship. As such, this group exists for its members to learn from each other and share their experiences, while respecting the choices of others.

We are NOT a dating, sex or hook-up group.  We are not a shelter for those who are unethically non-monogamous. If you are a cheating spouse or partner looking for support in your duplicity through polyamory, this is not the group for you.

To create a space of openness, this group is limited to 30 active members already living a polyamorous lifestyle.  Monthly dues cover rental spaces and guest speakers, as well as occasional social events.  Speakers include professional psychologists, therapists, authors, and known poly experts.  Lectures are monthly and generally held on Sunday evenings (6-9pm) in Westminster (though some are held at various sites around the county).  Due to limited space at the majority of the lectures, 30 seats , each member of a relationship is encouraged to sign up for this group individually.  For periodic social events, +1s will be possible.  When the group is full, we will have a waiting list for future members – please don’t hesitate to apply!


Polyamory: The Search for Self…wait what?

How thinking critically about the Self can help you love your Poly Constellations!

With Ilana Wasserman, MA, LMFT, LEP

June 12th 6:30-9:00

8 Things I Wish I’d Known About Polyamory (Before I Tried It and Frakked It Up)

By Cunning Minx via SKYPE
Poly Kinky Educator & Podcaster

July 17th 6:30-9:00

BDSM can be a bit like Sushi


August 7th 6:00-9:00

What We Require of Our Prospective Members:

(1) Complete this short four question survey (click where is says 4 question survey and it will take you to the link) or go to

(2) Complete ALL Meetup profile questions.  Please be thoughtful and write with substance.  Irrelevant (such as "N/A" or “I don’t know”) or one-word answers will result in a rejection of your application.  Personal photographs are not required; nude shots of any kind will result in the rejection of your application.  If you are a referral from a member or a professional speaker please include name of person somewhere in the application.

(3) Lastly, attend a pending member meeting within the first two months of applying.  The first of these will be Saturday, May 14, 2016, 6pm-9pm in Huntington Beach – the specific location will be sent to pending members who have completed the above steps.

We look forward to your membership, and thank you for your interest!

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Founded Jul 3, 2012
  • Polyamorists 10
  • Upcoming Meetups 4
  • Past Meetups 96


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