
Its All About The Swirl!
The goal of ONYX aka BW4WM is to promote and support the IR lifestyle and to facilitate interracial mingling & socializing.
We hope our members develop & foster lifelong friendships and have the opportunity to meet the "ONE" and hopefully fall in love. We are a social/dating group that welcomes like minded individuals!
If you are a single Black Woman or White Man and are interested in forming a serious relationship or friendship, then ONYX aka BW4WM is for you. No more wondering if that person you "winked" at is open to dating interracially - in this group you KNOW that they are! Feel free to read our group reviews to see what our awesome members think of ONYX!
The beauty of ONYX is that it brings online dating, friendships and relationships alive. Rather than contacting anonymous people on the internet where you are not sure if their descriptions of themselves are precise or if they are open to interracial dating…here is your unique opportunity to meet them live!
You can view pictures & profiles, connect with members on our site and also attend any of our monthly events to connect. We plan fun meetups all over the city such as museum/art gallery visits, concerts, festivals, meet & greet mixers & happy hours, birthday celebrations, jazz events, horseback riding, motorcycle rides, travel, wine tasting, bowling, health & fitness, spiritual & motivational events, lunch & dinners, sports events, speed dating and much, much more! Our members are a welcoming, joyful and loving family that support, motivate and inspire each other. We believe that forming positive and REAL friendships helps to build the foundation you will need to find and maintain a lasting relationship.
SWIRL Matchmaking - BW/WM MATCHMAKER SERVICE
Our Organizer, Cella, has created a matchmaker site specifically for BW/WM! You can reach the site at (www.swirlmatchmaking.com).
You can also read about Swirl Matchmaking and read some interesting articles on IR dating/relationships on her blog at: http://swirlmatchmaking.wordpress.com/.
Note: This is a FREE group!
Congratulations to our first two BW4WM marriages: Jillian & David and Fenicia & Floyd!
We also would like to congratulate Co-Organizer Sonya & Jason Menssen, who were married in September 2011 and Group Founder Karyn Branch & Steve Burns, who are currently engaged to be married this year. We also have five (5) couples who have become engaged in the past 6 months and four (4) couples that have entered into serious relationships! Great success to you all and good success for us, a group, that is a little over a year old.
Much joy, peace and happiness to you all as you embark on your new lives!

Benefits of joining ONYX:
1. Meet members who are serious about interracial dating and socializing.
2. Monthly opportunities to meet members in settings such as happy hours, wine tasting, museums, art galleries, dinners, culture/sports activities, and more.
3. Opportunities to correspond with members via email or live chat.
4. We welcome ideas from members for meetups. In fact we count on members to provide suggestions of what events they would like to see.
5. This is a very active group both online and offline - be prepared to develop friendships with a warm & friendly group who are all looking forward to meeting you!
~This is a Photo Mandatory group ~
A current, clear photo is required for membership
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ONYX aka BW4WM Membership Requirements
The requirements for joining this group are:
1. You must be a Single/Divorced Black Female or White Male.
(*This is not a group for people who are married/separated and looking. Our members are individuals who are looking for a serious relationship or friendship, not a casual fling.
2. You must live or work within the state of Georgia so that you can conveniently attend events.
*We now accept members that are out of state as long as they meet the following criteria:
a. Must travel or reside in Atlanta part time (or at least attend one event per year)
b. Must be active on the ONYX group site AND/OR on our group Facebook page
3. This is an adult group for people Age 21 years or older.
4. You must provide a current photo (less than 1 year old) which clearly shows your face (please make this your primary photo.)
Recommendation: Select a photo where you are easily recognizable. You should be alone, without sunglasses and facing the camera. Your primary photo should be posted on the site at all times or your membership will be revoked.
5. Fully fill out a brief profile to join this site. (No unanswered questions!)
6. Fill out your Location and Hometown detail on your profile page.
7. We are an active group, so if you have not visited the website within 60 days, your membership will be removed.
8. We will not tolerate any abuse of our members or Leadership Team. Members who display/post inappropriate communication (online or offline) or post solicitations on the site will be removed immediately. All members are asked to report any innapropriate behavior to the Leadership Team.
9. Members that leave the group are free to reapply & rejoin at any time! We welcome former members back with open arms! Only members who have been removed for gross misconduct (or who have been banned) are not allowed to rejoin in consideration of the safety of our members.
If you are serious about finding that special someone or are interested in exploring the IR lifestyle, then join today. We have a warm & friendly group who looks forward to meeting you.
Peace & love,
Cella & Sonya (Co-Organizers)
WAITING LIST: At times we may have a small, short waiting list for membership. If you have applied for membership and have not received a response within 7 days of your application, please email the Leadership Team!
*We reserve the right to use and claim ownership of the following names: Black Women For White Men, Atlanta Black Women For White Men, BW4WM, Atlanta BW4WM, ONYX aka BW4WM, ONYX as the intellectual property of the Group Founder. Anyone using those specific names in any capacity must obtain express written permission & authorization from the Group Founder. We reserve the right to amend our Membership Requirements at any time. We reserve the right to approve/decline anyone seeking membership. All approved members who attend any group event must abide by the Group Standards of Behavior located on our message board.
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