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We are Poly-Under-40, a social network for young adults exploring polyamory or dealing with their individual poly situations. If you are a young adult looking for a supportive, nurturing place to learn about the poly lovestyle, meet other polyamorists, or talk about dealing with multi-partner relationships, then we would love to meet you.

Poly-Under-40 was founded because we believe that it is extremely beneficial, if not critical, for young people living in non-monogamous relationships to have a peer group with similar life situations with whom they can socialize and discuss this critical aspect of their unconventional lives.

Heres how we define ourselves,

Polyamory: Having multiple intimate loving relationship with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved.

Under 40: Do you remember the 70's? Neither do we!

Chicago: The best city in the world.

We host social events and discussion meetings in downtown Chicago and nearby surrounding areas (those accessible by public transit).

Most of our members are also active members of other local poly groups, especially the Chicago Polyamory Meetup Group, http://www.meetup.com/Chicago-Polyamory/ and active cross-membership and participation is highly encouraged.

Want to learn more about Polyamory?

• Then come to our next event and see for yourself!

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What we are not:

  This group is not a place for cheating or hookups.

  Our events will never involved any sexual activity.

PS- Some advice regarding accounts:

• We have ~500 members, so if you have a common first name add an initial to your account name. We have 20 other Chris's who will thank you.
• If you are joining as part of a couple, please make separate individual accounts for each member of your relationship. NO 'COUPLE' ACCOUNTS.