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Ventura, CA
Hometown: Ventura

Member since:

July 24, 2012

How Long have you been exploring polyamory?

One year.

Are you in a partnered relationship?


Is your partner also polyamorous?

I wouldn't describe us as polyamorous, though somewhere on the swinger-polyamory continuum, not sure where we fit. We are looking for relationships based on an intimate friendship, we want people we enjoy being with and are close with though cautious coming from a 20 year marriage.

What is your greatest challenge in the poly lifestyle?

Trying to figure out where we fit. Finding people we enjoy being with, and who enjoy being with us as a couple. We aren't 'unicorn hunters' as we are interested in men, women and couples, though we do have a boundary in that we are approaching this as a couple. Approaching non-monogamy from within a marriage that has been closed for 20 years is a series of big steps and we want to make sure we do this in a way that addresses wants and needs, while respecting boundaries.


Hello, we are a couple, long time married and monogamous, now married and less monogamous

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