The Seattle Polyamory Meetup group is the original, all-inclusive social group for those who identify as polyamorous, who practice ethical non-monogamy, or even as poly-friendly. Everyone is welcome regardless of gender, sexual preference, race, religion, economic factors, or body ability.

What is Polyamory?

The most basic definition of polyamory is one of “many loves”. It can also be loosely described as non-monogamy. There are many ways of practicing polyamory, and no one way is the “right” way, but polyamorists tend to agree that their relationships are based upon the tenets of open communication, honesty, and respect for themselves and their partners.

What is Not Polyamory?

Polyamory is NOT engaging in relationships (sexual or otherwise) without the knowledge and consent of your partner(s). Polyamory does not promote or excuse “cheating” or other unethical behavior.

What Happens at the Meetups?

The Poly Social Meetup that happens at the Wayward Coffeehouse every second Tuesdays is primarily a social event. People use it as an opportunity to hang out and chat with others about a variety of topics. It has grown to be a large group and so we are looking into some smaller, size-controlled activities that would allow closer communication and discussion.

The Wayward in a great independent cafe with organic, fair-trade beverages, a play area for kids, comfy furniture and vegan donuts! They’ve been very good to our community, and we like to give them our business.

There are other events that take place at the Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC). Please read the event descriptions carefully as some have specific parameters and entry fees.  

There are other events that take place in private homes on a case-by-case basis. Please respect the host’s home as you would your own.

What if I Don’t Know I’m Poly?

No problem! Please feel free to talk to the organizers/hosts and ask any questions you have.  We’re very happy to chat with you.

Some Guidelines

The Meetup is intended as a community building event, for those who identify as poly and those who are interested in polyamory. We strongly encourage all members to do their networking in person at the Meetups. Please be aware of this in your on-site communications with other Meetup members. Inappropriate behavior, including propositioning Meetup members in any way through this site, will cause offenders to be banned from the events and this site.

A Note about “Kink” and “Geek”

Many members in the Seattle poly community cross-identify as “kinky” or “geeky” and those topics may arise at events. You do not have to identify as kinky or geeky to talk to others, but if a conversation isn’t holding your interest then feel free to politely excuse yourself to join another.  The point is to have a space to meet other people and enjoy the Seattle poly community.

Seattle Poly Professionals is another poly-focused meetup group that is not associated with the CSPC or the Seattle kink or geek communities. They can be found here: http://www.meetup.com/Seattle-Poly-Professionals/

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Upcoming Meetups

  • Tuesday, February 10, 2015 7:30 PM

    The Seattle Polyamory Meetup Group Monthly Meetup

    5 Polyamorists attending
  • Thursday, February 12, 2015 6:00 PM

    Queer Parent Networking Dinner

    1 Polyamorists attending
  • Saturday, February 14, 2015 7:00 PM

    Dance Embodied - 2nd Sat - 7:30 orientation for new peeps

    3 Polyamorists attending
  • Sunday, February 15, 2015 5:00 PM

    Seattle Poly Potluck and Discussion Group - 3rd Sundays except July and August

    1 Polyamorists attending
  • Sunday, February 22, 2015 2:00 PM

    The Northend Polyamory Meetup

    2 Polyamorists attending
  • Sunday, February 22, 2015 6:00 PM

    Dance Embodied 4th Sunday - 6:30 orientation for new peeps

    2 Polyamorists attending
  • Friday, February 27, 2015 8:00 PM

    Poly Social

    1 Polyamorists attending
  • Tuesday, March 10, 2015 7:30 PM

    The Seattle Polyamory Meetup Group Monthly Meetup

    2 Polyamorists attending
  • Thursday, March 12, 2015 6:00 PM

    Queer Parent Networking Dinner

    1 Polyamorists attending
  • Saturday, March 14, 2015 7:00 PM

    Dance Embodied - 2nd Sat - 7:30 orientation for new peeps

    3 Polyamorists attending
  • Sunday, March 15, 2015 5:00 PM

    Seattle Poly Potluck and Discussion Group - 3rd Sundays except July and August

    1 Polyamorists attending
  • Sunday, March 22, 2015 2:00 PM

    The Northend Polyamory Meetup

    2 Polyamorists attending
  • Sunday, March 22, 2015 6:00 PM

    Dance Embodied 4th Sunday - 6:30 orientation for new peeps

    2 Polyamorists attending
  • Friday, March 27, 2015 8:00 PM

    Poly Social

    1 Polyamorists attending
  • Thursday, April 9, 2015 6:00 PM

    Queer Parent Networking Dinner

    1 Polyamorists attending
  • Saturday, April 11, 2015 7:00 PM

    Dance Embodied - 2nd Sat - 7:30 orientation for new peeps

    2 Polyamorists attending
  • Tuesday, April 14, 2015 7:30 PM

    The Seattle Polyamory Meetup Group Monthly Meetup

    2 Polyamorists attending
  • Sunday, April 19, 2015 5:00 PM

    Seattle Poly Potluck and Discussion Group - 3rd Sundays except July and August

    1 Polyamorists attending
  • Friday, April 24, 2015 8:00 PM

    Poly Social

    1 Polyamorists attending
  • Sunday, April 26, 2015 2:00 PM

    The Northend Polyamory Meetup

    2 Polyamorists attending
 
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