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Sick of superficial? Bored with blah? Have you been on every internet dating site known to man? Does dating seem like a chore? Are you sick and tired of first date conversations? Have you sworn off dating altogether? Well suffering succotash, so many of us have been there, done that and even have the t-shirt (or a closet filled with them). Let's shake things up by kicking humdrum to the curb and let's introduce the world to the people we really are!

Meeting people goes so far beyond simple internet flirting, speed dating and exchanging salutations at a bar. Selective Singles is a group designed to help people connect on a meaningful level in a number of different settings. Meet other singles while experiencing fun indoor and outdoor activities, drinks, dining, sightseeing, group discussions, empowering workshops and many opportunities to create memories that will make an impact! Want to connect with like minded SINGLE people? Interested in meeting SINGLE people who live for adventure? Let's throw caution to the wind and get this party started RIGHT!

Forget about what WAS and instead focus on what IS.

We are alive.....we are SINGLE and we are all here, so without further ado.....

Let's meet people who are fun dammit!

PARTICIPATING in our meetups is IMPORTANT, especially if you are genuinely interested in connecting with others, so join us!


Please check out the ABOUT page and click on TABLE OF CONTENTS. There are some rules, guidelines and helpful hints as well as some very inspiring videos.

Looking forward to meeting you!

Thanks so much,



PS: You can "age into" the group, but you cannot "age out".......just in case you were wondering :)

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Upcoming Meetups

  • Friday, March 6, 2015 7:00 PM

    SNOW Tubing - Hike - Meditate - Bonfire - FUN WEEKEND - in Mtns of PA

    10 Selective Singles attending
  • Saturday, March 7, 2015 12:30 PM

    An Afternoon of Wine, Food and Music at Martha Clara Vineyards in Riverhead

    1 Selective Singles attending
  • Saturday, March 7, 2015 9:00 PM

    Dining And Music With Acoustically Correct at Uva Rossa In Malverne!

    2 Selective Singles attending
  • Wednesday, March 11, 2015 6:00 PM

    Wednesday Night Wine, Live Music and Great Food at Uva Rossa in Malverne!

    1 Selective Singles attending
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