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Sick of superficial? Bored with blah? Have you been on every internet dating site known to man? Does dating seem like a chore? Are you sick and tired of first date conversations? Have you sworn off dating altogether? Well suffering succotash, so many of us have been there, done that and even have the t-shirt (or a closet filled with them). Let's shake things up by kicking humdrum to the curb and let's introduce the world to the people we really are!

Meeting people goes so far beyond simple internet flirting, speed dating and exchanging salutations at a bar. Selective Singles is a group designed to help people connect on a meaningful level in a number of different settings. Meet other singles while experiencing fun indoor and outdoor activities, drinks, dining, sightseeing, group discussions, empowering workshops and many opportunities to create memories that will make an impact! Want to connect with like minded SINGLE people? Interested in meeting SINGLE people who live for adventure? Let's throw caution to the wind and get this party started RIGHT!

Forget about what WAS and instead focus on what IS.

We are alive.....we are SINGLE and we are all here, so without further ado.....

Let's meet people who are fun dammit!

PARTICIPATING in our meetups is IMPORTANT, especially if you are genuinely interested in connecting with others, so join us!

Please check out the ABOUT page and click on TABLE OF CONTENTS. There are some rules, guidelines and helpful hints as well as some very inspiring videos.

Looking forward to meeting you!

Thanks so much,


PS: You can "age into" the group, but you cannot "age out".......just in case you were wondering :)

We're 537 Selective Singles

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Upcoming Meetups

  • Thursday, August 13, 2015 7:30 PM

    Comedy Fundraiser Event- Alz Assoc- 100% donated

    23 Selective Singles attending
  • Sunday, August 16, 2015 11:45 AM

    Singles at Citi Field- Mets Game

    28 Selective Singles attending
  • Saturday, August 22, 2015 12:00 PM

    Broadway Hit "Mama Mia" w/ Pre-Mingle - (Must Prepay)- Show closing in September

    51 Selective Singles attending
  • Saturday, August 22, 2015 7:00 PM

    Single Mingle Dance Party at Butterfields

    5 Selective Singles attending
  • Sunday, September 6, 2015 11:30 AM

    Singles Baseball Game- YANKEES (prepay only)

    23 Selective Singles attending
  • Saturday, September 19, 2015 12:00 PM

    Museum of Natural History Singles Tour (prepay only)

    21 Selective Singles attending
  • Sunday, September 27, 2015 1:00 PM

    Broadway Hit Musical -"The King and I"- (prepay required)

    51 Selective Singles attending
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AndrianaCT, Jay

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