NJ & NY Singles Meetup is a Fun & Socialable Group of Heterosexual Singles Only (ages 35 -50's-to only 65) in the  New Jersey & New York areas who are looking to meet other single people, never been married, divorced, widowed, to create new friendships or even maybe find your right one too. I feel if it happens, it happens. If you are separated, well then you aren't single, you are still married., you are just taking a break from each other. So then our Meetup isn't for you then.

In addition, we take it serious when we say, we would like to go out and have fun meet new friends. Therefore, we do hope you do too. However, our events entails of doing a variety of things like having a multiple Meetup events, Dancing, Listening to Music, going to Comedy Shows, going out to Dinner, seeing  Live Entertainment, Movies etc. We even sometimes do Meetup Events in Staten Island NY too. Please do let us see what your interests are and the other Meetup groups (if you belong to any) so we can know more about you. If you do not you would not be accepted. There is nothing wrong with doing that, there is nothing to hide. In addition, a Photo of Yourself (updated one) would be nice. Take a Selfie. Not one of your Pet (We love pets, I have a dog that my parents adopted him from a Animal Rescue in our area on Jan, 2012 he is now a part of our family), or a even Cartoon, Scenery etc... If you do not have a photo of yourself, then you would not be accepted. Also, please do keep the send an Message  in. (Which the Meetup HQ's changed a few things like instead of a send a E-mail to, send a message it's up above.and you will get a notice in your E-mail that someone Sent you a message). Therefore, just in case we would like to get in touch with you, we have a way to do so, even if other members wants to do it also.  Another thing do not put any Personal information down as if for example, Phone’s or evens your e-mail address even websites to promote. Plus No Usernames too. We are aSingles Meetup not a Public Relations one. I do hope you understand why we have these rules.  By the way we are tired of No Shows , so 3 No Shows you are Removed,. Plus I have questions that I would like to be answered seriously not with silly answers please.  Also I do prefer you to keep open your other Meetup Group's (if any)  you belong to, so we could get to know you too. That too if you don't you won't be accepted. There is really nothing to hide, only to share. Also if you are not an Active Person of our Meetup within 6 months you became a part of us you will be removed with that too,

Thank You

Hope to see you at our future Meetups,


Susan R., Amanda,  Dawn, Lorraine


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Founded Mar 10, 2007



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