Jaya D.


Ojai, CA

Member since:

August 25, 2013

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

The ability to fall in love and form loving relationships as my heart feels, without societal restriction on who or how many I love.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

I've felt socially disconnected from my poly community since leaving San Diego Poly and moving up north many years ago. My husband and I were polyamorous throughout our 13 year relationship, and he passed away this past year from a brain tumor. I am unpartnered at present.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

Not at present, although my husband's girlfriend and I remain very close.

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

No children

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

A partner or triad with whom I could develop a very loving, supportive relationship that also contained a lot of freedom and independence.


Hi! I live on a small ranch in Ojai with my bulldog and two cats, with my horses nearby. I am a freelance grant writer, and am transitioning into doing equine experiential learning workshops as my primary work in the world.

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