Donna L.


Murrieta, CA

Member since:

May 5, 2013

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

<pedant>"Many Loves"</pedant> The ability to love and be in love with more than one person at a time. To be happy for your lover(s)/partner when they find another person to love in addition to loving you.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

Though most of the meetups will be too far for us to attend, we have some friends who have attended occasionally, so I wanted to be aware of when the meet ups were so we could attend on the occasional times we'd be able to/felt like driving that far.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

My husband and I recently opened our marriage. Right now, it's just the two of us, though we're meeting and getting to know people.

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

22-year-old boy/girl twins who don't live at home anymore. 12 year old girl.

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

Right now we have to be discreet enough that our 12 year old doesn't find out --so that she doesn't have to keep secrets from her cousins and other very religious family members. (difficult to keep under 250 characters!)


My husband and I live in Murrieta with our 12 year old daughter and 3 cats. We're in the IE meet up group. Also, I'm already getting the yahoo group messages for what I think is THIS group?

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