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Donna L.


Murrieta, CA

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May 5, 2013

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

<pedant>"Many Loves"</pedant> The ability to love and be in love with more than one person at a time. To be happy for your lover(s)/partner when they find another person to love in addition to loving you.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

Though most of the meetups will be too far for us to attend, we have some friends who have attended occasionally, so I wanted to be aware of when the meet ups were so we could attend on the occasional times we'd be able to/felt like driving that far.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

Mainly, it's just been my husband dating/getting to know some lovely women :-) I was on okc for a while, but then I disabled my account a while ago. I think I just got too lazy/busy to put myself out there very actively.

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

24-year-old boy/girl twins who don't live at home anymore. 14 year old girl. We're only out to our 24 year old daughter.

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

I haven't decided yet.


My husband and I live in Murrieta with our almost 14 year old daughter and 3 cats. We're in the IE meet up group, the OC poly group and polyglamorous.

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