Norma L.


Moorpark, CA
Hometown: San Diego

Member since:

April 20, 2014

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

Polyamory to me means heart, open love, and open communication. Being able to embrace those you connect with. We love individuals for many reasons; we are capable of finding something different and new in each person. Poly is a belief that we are capable of loving and caring for multiple people without sacrificing one for the other. Our hearts can hold that much care.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

I would like to expand my friend base with like minded people. I'm looking to learn and discuss different lifestyles maintenance. Discuss strategies of how to cope with issues as well as how to embrace and celebrate those that love us.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

I am currently in a poly relationship and have been for over a year. He's a wonderful man who is married. I am great friends with his wife but I only connect with him. I am his girlfriend. Outside the two of us he has two play friends. His wife has two boyfriends and two play friends. I had a play friend but it is infrequent.

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

I have a 17 yr old son. Since I am new to this lifestyle I have kept this change from him for now.

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

I would like to have two men in my life. I would like to be married as well as be fully connected with my boyfriend now. I would hope they would be friends. I would welcome my husband to have another partner but outside of that I am one to keep things simple so I would think that any other additions would just be play friends.


Hi! I'm somewhat new to the Poly lifestyle and I'm looking to meet new people, learn different perspectives. As well as enjoy like minded company.

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